Why does a broken heart seem to make me feel sick?

I've been noticing that ever since my Aqua left, I've been losing weight, feeling woozy, and sick to my stomach. It's like I'm here but I'm not really here. I just want to curl up into the fetal position and cry. I don't know it's like I'm depressed. I just want to withdraw from the whole world. I want to be babied and no one is babying me. I need reassurance right now. I need to feel beautiful, wanted, loved and I just feel like an outcast.I've never felt this lonely in my life. I wonder if maybe the moon has something to do with my intense moods this week.

No sweetie it has nothing to do with the moon, its called LOVE welcome to the club.

CancerButterly - Hon, you have to keep your head up. I recently ended things (6 months ago) with an Aqua too. I know that you have deep feelings for this man, but you have got to move on with your life. (He is probably doing him)

Do not let him or this breakup dictate your life. As you know stressing yourself and getting physically ill is not good for anyone.

You are young and if you are blessed to live long enough there will be other relationship disappointments that you will encounter. This is test of your wills. Focus on what YOU need to do for yourself to make YOU HAPPY.

Cry, go shopping, take up a new hobby and talk to some friends/family. Go out and have all the fun that a young single woman should. Do things to fill your time. You will have a grieving period just as with any other type of loss so what you are feeling is normal, but you are young and beautiful and there is someone out there who can give you the type of relationship that you want.

If the relationship with you and the Aqua is meant to be it will work itself out, and if not look at it as a life lesson/experience and onto the next. take from it the good memories and out with the rest. View yourself as the precious jewel that you are. Think of yourself as HIS LOSS.

Good luck, hon!

I know exactly how you feel cancerbutterfly, it happens, but it will get better with time. I myself have went through a relationship where I was suffering from anxiety and taking pills to relax and sleep at night. It's so unfortunate that this happens to us cancers, we are so sweet, however some just don't appreciate us for who we are. Sooner than later you will look back on all of this and chuckle. Feel better. I wish you all the best.

Pinkkitty - "we are so sweet, however some just don't appreciate us for who we are."

...So true, but even worse is when we don't appreciate ourselves for who we are.

I agree

"but even worse is when we don't appreciate ourselves for who we are."

Once you realize this there is nothing or no one that would ever make you feel bad again. You will then have control over your life and determine what happens in it.

"Once you realize this there is nothing or no one that would ever make you feel bad again. You will then have control over your life and determine what happens in it."

I second that!