why is he such a weirdo?

After not hearing from him ....and he told me not to text ...after angry demands for answers to no avail he sends me this text : I want to return the oil painting you gave me pls text me your post code so I can put it in the post" ....(that was a Christmas present I gave him) wtf does this mean— I did accused him of being a player ....LOL so may be he feels guilty that I spent that much money on him

Posted by JJ141214
After not hearing from him ....and he told me not to text ...after angry demands for answers to no avail he sends me this text : I want to return the oil painting you gave me pls text me your post code so I can put it in the post" ....(that was a Christmas present I gave him) wtf does this mean— I did accused him of being a player ....LOL so may be he feels guilty that I spent that much money on him

maybe he was hurt by the 'player' comment and wants to return the oil painting because it reminds him of you :c

Sorry... they were oil paints.... so yeah! You have a very good point ...how easy is to find a post code when you know exactly were I live..... you're right....LOL... I haven't replied to text.... because last long text I sent him I told himself I f@#cking hated him ...and it was just very harsh.... so him trying to reach out he might be masochistic a..because when I was nice he would ignore me..... but I really don't want to get my hopes up.... I feel alot stronger... after I vented to him.....even though I probably sounded like a proper phyco....nice one text... then completely horrible and cutting the next ......but it really felt good to release all those emotion
On him via text....

He could be a masochist! Some guys really enjoy it when their girls get mean because they interpret it as "caring"

It's a dangerous game to play though as one minute you might be thought of as caring and the next you might be considered crazy.

If you really wanna be strong about it, I thiiink the nonchalant approach is the best way to go.

Rachel I haven replied .....nor going to .started my no contact rule after that text.... lets see if it works? But I find it odd that he is Passionate about painting (he is amazing) like his painting s go for ??1500 or more.... so these paints are a necessity for him... so yes that makes me wonder a lot but still not replying(i need a time out... and hopefully he will miss me)

Ok did not replied to his text last night ....he resent it this morning again.... what is he doing— Why is he so persistent to send back the paint ?

Posted by JJ141214
Rachel I haven replied .....nor going to .started my no contact rule after that text.... lets see if it works? But I find it odd that he is Passionate about painting (he is amazing) like his painting s go for ??1500 or more.... so these paints are a necessity for him... so yes that makes me wonder a lot but still not replying(i need a time out... and hopefully he will miss me)

congratulations for your decision to opt for NC. maybe you remember i applied that. he came back. i realised he learnt nothing. i realised i am still hurt because of his ignoring me...so...i informed him that i don't like the way i am now and that i need to find myself again...so...i am back to NC again. obviously we need more time apart... which could be forever and i'm fine with that

i'm writing this because i think it would help you to know what to expect and that a 2 months NC doesn't mean complete recovery...it might take longer. but of course it depends on each individual

That's very true mz.....he just unblocked me from whatapp to send me the message there alswell.....wtf— Paints — He also has other stuff of mine but paints —?

Wow..... crazy........ not contact and now I'm unblocked from whatapp ....

Lol okay so just skip over the person who tells you not to freak out. That's fine.

Remy LOL... not freaking ...not freaking... well composed ......WHOOOOAAA IM STILL UNBLOCKED!!!!!

Ok trying to stay along my thread ...LOL.....He said sorry and also accepted my apology..... but not getting my hopes high.... it all started with him wanting to return the paints, and then wanting to bin it to him texting me saying that he couldn't throw away such a gift.... and I said well then keep it.... and now we apologized but ....mmmmm dont know......

Posted by JJ141214
After not hearing from him ....and he told me not to text ...after angry demands for answers to no avail he sends me this text : I want to return the oil painting you gave me pls text me your post code so I can put it in the post" ....(that was a Christmas present I gave him) wtf does this mean— I did accused him of being a player ....LOL so may be he feels guilty that I spent that much money on him

No offence to the cool crabs around here... But what the fcuk is happening to yall lately!? Is there some sort of moon dealigment going on...

Hahahahahahaah.....why do you say that fill water pieces—?

Omg...we have a date tomorrow .......something is happening with the moon for sure.....

Just got back from the date.... He said it was just a tactic of his to get my attention...he said when he saw I got phyco on him ...he thought to himself ....wow she is never speaking to me again and was his attempt to reach out...(wow people here are on point) we are back together.... we made love and when he dropped me off he scream at the top of his lungs ....I LOVE YOU ....so everyone on the street could hear...... omg .....I am walking on air right now.....

Drama is the word ...being we are both artist!!! We love each others crazies! Lol