Needing advice on male cappy

I am a Scorpio addicted to a Capricorn. I've been on this emotional roller coaster for 2 years. I don't know if it's love or trauma bond. I've never been this way before. He can be so sweet and charming, then suddenly start being demeaning. He cooks me amazing gluten free dinners, but then sometimes he acts as if just the site of me irritates him. He will have my favorite candy bars waiting for me after work and would buy me anything if I asked. Which, I never do. He always wants to know the scoop on my family, but doesn't seem to want to know about me anymore. I'm not interesting to him. He will do more for my family than me. He got Covid and was super needy for me to care for him. I took care of him. His mom and dad were coming by and dropping vitamins off at his house, checking on him constantly, and it annoyed him. I get it right after him and I have no family around and am immunosuppressed, so it was harder on me. He didn't care at all. I had to door dash everything. He seemed so irritated that I was sick. I know he is stressed about finding a job, but it felt so heartless. It made everything worse. He always comes first no matter what, and if I somehow hold him back I can see the grudge and punishment coming. I never know what I've done wrong, but I know when I have due to the punishment. I will say that sometimes I feel so hurt that I lash out and say hurtful things. with how he treats me I think he can handle it, but he is so sensitive and I pay for everything I say for a while. He knows what I need in a relationship, the basic needs, and he withholds it for a long while. He isn't sensitive to me at all, but I have to be sensitive to him. So, what does he see me as? What am I to him?

sounds like typical capricorn man.

nice then demeaning, punishes you when he's unemployed. you should keep asking him to buy you things when he's back on his feet. they respect women like that more. or don't waste your time on this manipulative hoe. are your parents kinda wealthy? (in comparison to his own) just curious. these hoes never do anything nice unless they hope to gain something out of it.

This is some depressing shit. Starting with the word “addicted”.

He’s got you trained.

Wow....

Posted by shakedown

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Posted by virgoOPPP

sounds like typical capricorn man.

nice then demeaning, punishes you when he's unemployed. you should keep asking him to buy you things when he's back on his feet. they respect women like that more. or don't waste your time on this manipulative hoe. are your parents kinda wealthy? (in comparison to his own) just curious. these hoes never do anything nice unless they hope to gain something out of it.

On the flipside, Virgo women are well-known for being toxic gossipers.

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lol virgos don't network enough to gossip effectively.

tho funny how after his cheating, i took a page from the libra handbook and capricorn gets mad that i ruin his public image. mad enough to tell his new gf that it was the reason we broke up 🤣🤣

yeah coz me letting people know he's a hoe was the problem and not coz he was a hoe in the first place 🙄🙄

He is taking advantage of you, and yes it’s all about him. Gives you just enough to keep you giving. You need to care about yourself for once. Saying you shouldn’t have helped him so much, and you shouldn’t expect help from him .. what kind of relationship is that? Let alone the demeaning behavior. My first thought reading this was you like to be punished. So is that what you really want?

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Posted by virgoOPPP

sounds like typical capricorn man.

nice then demeaning, punishes you when he's unemployed. you should keep asking him to buy you things when he's back on his feet. they respect women like that more. or don't waste your time on this manipulative hoe. are your parents kinda wealthy? (in comparison to his own) just curious. these hoes never do anything nice unless they hope to gain something out of it.

On the flipside, Virgo women are well-known for being toxic gossipers.

lol virgos don't network enough to gossip effectively.

tho funny how after his cheating, i took a page from the libra handbook and capricorn gets mad that i ruin his public image. mad enough to tell his new gf that it was the reason we broke up 🤣🤣

yeah coz me letting people know he's a hoe was the problem and not coz he was a hoe in the first place 🙄🙄

I'm afraid to say it, but you're making yourself look stupid and very immature.

You're obviously still hurt from your Cap ex and that's completely normal. Nothing wrong with that. However, that doesn't mean you can tar every Capricorn male with the same brush. based on ONE bad experience with a Capricorn male. That's completely irrational.

To some degree, we all generalise in our lives, but establishing a reasonable correlation needs to be established before proceeding. Yes, such opinions are still subjective but, at the end of the day, it's an effective survival coping method.

While there will never be universal agreement on anything astro-related, due to everyone having a unique natal chart, it always pays to reserve an opinion on any personal astro placement until having first-hand experience from at least three natives. As you have proven in your post this certainly isn't the case, which would suggest that you are possibly just as responsible for the breakdown of your relationship with your Cap ex.

Btw, every Virgo woman I've worked with (i.e. more than one or two) has been a shameless gossiper, even if their actions result in creating unnecessary friction between work colleagues. Conduct a web search and you will see that I'm not the only one who has noticed this.

But, hey, continue doing what many unevolved Virgo women do best: talking shite.

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my 2nd cap bf (another hoe but to a lesser degree).

whatever i've contributed to that demise, doesn't negate how much harder i've worked to maintain that relationship than he did. but that doesn't matter now.

just let me vent. everbody on here acts like they're chill and okay and have reached enlightenment after getting cheated on. i hope the men who cheated on them used some kinda protection. and these women got old and they're still pickmeishas.

you paint my sign the way i paint yours so idgaf. if you took the higher road, i might listen. but you're just another typical capricorn who can't accept the failings of his own sign.

doesn't help that cap men are classic LVM:

*inability to apologize for their wrongs and recognition of said wrongs

*negging

*constantly talking badly about women

Women who can’t leave low level dudes like these straight up have self-esteem issues. You clearly don’t believe you deserve better because if you did you wouldn’t still be with him… work on yourself above everything else or you will continue be walked all over in your life. His zodiac sign is the least of your concerns.

Posted by scorpeyo

I am a Scorpio addicted to a Capricorn. I've been on this emotional roller coaster for 2 years. I don't know if it's love or trauma bond. I've never been this way before. He can be so sweet and charming, then suddenly start being demeaning. He cooks me amazing gluten free dinners, but then sometimes he acts as if just the site of me irritates him. He will have my favorite candy bars waiting for me after work and would buy me anything if I asked. Which, I never do. He always wants to know the scoop on my family, but doesn't seem to want to know about me anymore. I'm not interesting to him. He will do more for my family than me. He got Covid and was super needy for me to care for him. I took care of him. His mom and dad were coming by and dropping vitamins off at his house, checking on him constantly, and it annoyed him. I get it right after him and I have no family around and am immunosuppressed, so it was harder on me. He didn't care at all. I had to door dash everything. He seemed so irritated that I was sick. I know he is stressed about finding a job, but it felt so heartless. It made everything worse. He always comes first no matter what, and if I somehow hold him back I can see the grudge and punishment coming. I never know what I've done wrong, but I know when I have due to the punishment. I will say that sometimes I feel so hurt that I lash out and say hurtful things. with how he treats me I think he can handle it, but he is so sensitive and I pay for everything I say for a while. He knows what I need in a relationship, the basic needs, and he withholds it for a long while. He isn't sensitive to me at all, but I have to be sensitive to him. So, what does he see me as? What am I to him?

LOL @ "addicted to a capricorn". lawd. How can you be addicted to a human? ok, all jokes aside...my advice to you: He is using you. He knows you have feelings for him, and it just seems one-sided. See a pattern? Whenever he needs something, he comes to you for help. I don't know the dynamics he has with his family, but it seems like you're the next best option to help him in the meantime. For the next while, say you're busy, and see how he acts.

Broke people should not be dating

Posted by scorpeyo

I am a Scorpio addicted to a Capricorn. I've been on this emotional roller coaster for 2 years. I don't know if it's love or trauma bond. I've never been this way before. He can be so sweet and charming, then suddenly start being demeaning. He cooks me amazing gluten free dinners, but then sometimes he acts as if just the site of me irritates him. He will have my favorite candy bars waiting for me after work and would buy me anything if I asked. Which, I never do. He always wants to know the scoop on my family, but doesn't seem to want to know about me anymore. I'm not interesting to him. He will do more for my family than me. He got Covid and was super needy for me to care for him. I took care of him. His mom and dad were coming by and dropping vitamins off at his house, checking on him constantly, and it annoyed him. I get it right after him and I have no family around and am immunosuppressed, so it was harder on me. He didn't care at all. I had to door dash everything. He seemed so irritated that I was sick. I know he is stressed about finding a job, but it felt so heartless. It made everything worse. He always comes first no matter what, and if I somehow hold him back I can see the grudge and punishment coming. I never know what I've done wrong, but I know when I have due to the punishment. I will say that sometimes I feel so hurt that I lash out and say hurtful things. with how he treats me I think he can handle it, but he is so sensitive and I pay for everything I say for a while. He knows what I need in a relationship, the basic needs, and he withholds it for a long while. He isn't sensitive to me at all, but I have to be sensitive to him. So, what does he see me as? What am I to him?

You say "addiction" not love or affection or even usefulness.

Overall sounds like you are unhappy and from your descriptions him too.

What exactly is keeping you 2 together?

What do you both get from this relationship?

Posted by -Capriquarius

Capricorn males are not for Scorpio woman. You are to delicate for those "machos".

Scorpio women have more hair on their chest than Capricorn men