- Ima have to block her butt she isn't taking the hint being a little crazy.
Posted by ScorpArie
Posted by Centaur12
I have been polite and told the Scorp girl that I am going through some stuff and my heads not right, right now.
I don't think she is getting the idea she's messaged me again this morning saying I haven't offended you have I ? By telling you I thought you was really hot a while back as I didn't want to scare you off lol.
I don't want to be rude or hurt her feelings but she's not getting the idea so I will have to leave her on read.
I'm a scorpio and we are the type that appreciates honesty. Yes, we can be very stubborn. Yes, ignore her or/and tell her what you just shared. "I don't want to hurt you by telling you this but I think it's more important to be honest with you... I would like you to stop showing interest in me like that". Be persistent. Show no interest in anyway. I'm not saying be rude at all but firm and honest. I'm that way. I have someone very obsessed with pursuing me atm. I am definitely not interested because of certain reasons, like yourself and ive explained this to the gentleman. He didn't get it. He was in denial and hurt and persisted. But with firm communication and patience, he is coming around.
Leaving her on read to me is avoidance. I am the type to express myself over and over again, enforcing boundaries until someone gets it. The trick is to be excellent at honestly expressing yourself.
It's more about you than regardless of how the other person will take it. Also, leaving them alone either than is a good idea or at least limiting your contact either than, at least for a while... Or a long while depending on the other party's maturity.
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She kinda was pissed she said I really don't know what to reply to your message but OK 👍.Posted by ScorpArie
Posted by Centaur12
I have been polite and told the Scorp girl that I am going through some stuff and my heads not right, right now.
I don't think she is getting the idea she's messaged me again this morning saying I haven't offended you have I ? By telling you I thought you was really hot a while back as I didn't want to scare you off lol.
I don't want to be rude or hurt her feelings but she's not getting the idea so I will have to leave her on read.
I'm a scorpio and we are the type that appreciates honesty. Yes, we can be very stubborn. Yes, ignore her or/and tell her what you just shared. "I don't want to hurt you by telling you this but I think it's more important to be honest with you... I would like you to stop showing interest in me like that". Be persistent. Show no interest in anyway. I'm not saying be rude at all but firm and honest. I'm that way. I have someone very obsessed with pursuing me atm. I am definitely not interested because of certain reasons, like yourself and ive explained this to the gentleman. He didn't get it. He was in denial and hurt and persisted. But with firm communication and patience, he is coming around.
Leaving her on read to me is avoidance. I am the type to express myself over and over again, enforcing boundaries until someone gets it. The trick is to be excellent at honestly expressing yourself.
It's more about you than regardless of how the other person will take it. Also, leaving them alone either than is a good idea or at least limiting your contact either than, at least for a while... Or a long while depending on the other party's maturity.
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I understand and appreciate it thank you.- I have been polite and told the Scorp girl that I am going through some stuff and my heads not right, right now.
I don't think she is getting the idea she's messaged me again this morning saying I haven't offended you have I ? By telling you I thought you was really hot a while back as I didn't want to scare you off lol.
I don't want to be rude or hurt her feelings but she's not getting the idea so I will have to leave her on read. Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Centaur12
Nope I hate my venus makes me way to soft 😤
There's nothing wrong with you.
What's your mars? I forgetclick to expand
Sun- Sag
Moon- Aqua
Ascendant- Scorpio
Medium Coil- Virgo
Mercury- Sag RX
Venus- Scorpio
Mars- Sag
Jupiter- Virgo
Saturn- Aqua
Uranus- Cap
Neptune- Cap
Pluto- Scorpio
P.Fortune- Virgo
My Chart.- Nope I hate my venus makes me way to soft 😤
Posted by sweethearts
Posted by PhoenixRising
Lol....I saw what you did there. Make another thread about the Gem since your true goal is to get feedback on her.
lol, saw that straight away too
But in all seriousness Centuar, you need to talk and hear from people because you’re hurting, that’s what these boards are about. Some of us might end up helping you become stronger so let out what you need to. A problem shared is a problem halved.click to expand
There isn't much I can say that I haven't already told you guys before I am just heartbroken now.
Gem has told me she hasn't got a problem with hanging out with me and still wants to but then told me she sorry for everything on her part and sorry we never worked out and told me to leave her alone for now so that is exactly what I have done.
I'm gutted and having bad days and ok days today I have struggled really badly wanted to contact her but what is the point she will only say we are friends she needs to miss me if she will I have no idea maybe she'll come back like she did before but then look at all the bullbutter she put me through if she comes back I won't settle for friends so I will continue to leave her alone until she either bucks up her ideas and stops treetrunking around or she just leaves because she can't play me anymore.Posted by saggurl88
Posted by Centaur12
I wouldn't want to hurt anyone.
So I told her there's no reason we cannot be friends and hang out etc I am not looking for a relationship at the moment as I am hurting to badly.
Because she was saying she always fancied me but was to shy to ask me. And was asking if I wanted company etc.
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Hell to the no no no......click to expand- I wouldn't want to hurt anyone.
So I told her there's no reason we cannot be friends and hang out etc I am not looking for a relationship at the moment as I am hurting to badly.
Because she was saying she always fancied me but was to shy to ask me. And was asking if I wanted company etc. Posted by PhoenixRising
Lol....I saw what you did there. Make another thread about the Gem since your true goal is to get feedback on her.
No I was just saying that's all it did come across like that didn't it sorry I will end it there. Thanks for your help all of you even if you didnt like some stuff thanks.Posted by WarAngel
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by WarAngel
If you're still hung up on the previous woman, stay away from this one. She's already up your butt crack, you will hurt her if you are not careful.
I wasn't planning on it thanks.
I haven't spoken to the Gem and we both haven't contacted eachother since she told me she wants to be friends and wants me to leave her alone right now.
Yes, strict radio silence with the Gemini. That's your only hope of getting her back anyway. Process whatever feelings you've got left, and throw the rest in the toilet. After some time, go sniff some new ass and cast your net as wide as you can so that you're not always hung up on one individual.
Good luck young man! ❤️click to expand
Thank you I am trying to process them best I can and I am struggling but I must be strong like I wasn't before. I am not in control of the outcome the only thing I can do is live my life and hope she comes back to me accordingly.
There have been a few people tell me she will more than likely come back as she doesn't want anyone else to have me and that's if I leave her alone.Posted by WarAngel
If you're still hung up on the previous woman, stay away from this one. She's already up your butt crack, you will hurt her if you are not careful.
I wasn't planning on it thanks.
I haven't spoken to the Gem and we both haven't contacted eachother since she told me she wants to be friends and wants me to leave her alone right now.Posted by WarAngel
If you're still hung up on the previous woman, stay away from this one. She's already up your butt crack, you will hurt her if you are not careful.
I wasn't planning on it thanks.
I haven't spoken to the Gem and we both haven't contacted eachother since she told me she wants to be friends and wants me to leave her alone right now.- Hi I have a question since I haven't been talking to the Gem who I was seeing I have this Scorpio girl non stop every day trying to meet up with me and then she asked where I live and I said the area and she said yeah thats nice their and I said yeah it's okay getting bored of it now lol. She text saying need some company 😅 ?
My question is are you guys persistent like this ? She won't leave me alone lol.
I don't mean to sound horrible but I am heart broken over the Gem I still love her so I can't bring myself to be around another woman for a long time like that. - Cancer
- Not just that he knew her way before me.
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Posted by Centaur12
Posted by alexscaries
Posted by Centaur12
Posted by alexscaries
Honestly it's difficult to tell. The fact she called you paranoid indicates she is trying to deflect the question with an insult (being called paranoid).
I don't know all the circumstances, but you have two options: break contact and find someone else or confront her about it and ask what happened.
What I would do is break contact for a while and see if she contacts you, a fortnight at least. If she doesn't maybe contact her asking if she is OK. Ultimately say if she slept with Danny the Fanny do you want to see her? Can you put it behind you? Don't accuse her based on what is effectively zero evidence. It could show a lack of trust on your part, but there's two other questions: how would she feel if you went away with a female friend even if she wasn't attractive lookswise? Would you go away with a female friend - just you and a young child?
One I wouldn't go away with another woman when I am still involved with a woman.
Two she would cut contact with me and probably block me on everything.
So yeah theirs your answer.
She promised me she'd call me on the evenings when she went to bed and she never did call me and I tried to call her and she ignored me it wasn't until I sent a few text messages that I had a reply from her.
I feel like their could be more to the story than meets the eye.
Why is she completely ignoring him now and why isn't she mentioning him at all.
Did he make a move on her while she was drunk she could of been half asleep and drunk and he could of made a move and then she realised he was on her it's a possibility.
It's a possibility. Another could be maybe he said something inappropriate rather than did something inappropriate. Maybe she liked him enough to go away with him and found him boring on a weekend. Lots of possibilities, pointless trying to second guess.
In my past relationship the woman I was dating spoke to a lot of people including men and had male friends. I had no issues with them hanging around with her as I trusted her implicitly and as big-headed as it sounds I knew she chose me and I considered myself to be better for her.
Yes, this was the case for me as when we first got together I never had a problem with her being around her male friends form the gym she would go to the park meet up with them and their kids.
The problem I had was when it started to become just this one guy who would text her every day non stop for 3 - 4 months joking and random butter and it randomly started and then finished.
And then when they went on a camping trip together lol I mean come on its not normal.
Is he Cancer?
I would ask yourself why you feel threatened by this man. Especially if lookswise he isn't that special. Maybe your relationship isn't as stable as you thought. Maybe time to think about an exit strategy. A good start would be getting your things back.click to expand
Nope, he is a Taurus.
And I felt threatened because I know things have been difficult for us like with the whole family thing and we was up and down all the time and he was just sat in the back ground bantering and keeping things light with her.Posted by Gobbie
Come on, let's be honest here. It's not going anywhere.
Just call it a day.
I could call it a day but I obviously don't want to I have this Libra woman trying to contact me alot the past 3 - 4 days wanting to meet up it's a friend from years ago but I stopped messaging as I want to work this out its not the fact that I cant hang out with other girls it's just she is the one I want and the person I know deep inside her is who I love when we aren't playing games with eachother etc.