A fast moving Cap, is it a Christmas miracle?

Everything I've read about Caps say they move sloowww. Welp I seem to have found myself in a quick developing relationship with a Cap Man!

We have only been dating for a few months (we are an exclusive couple), and there has been talk of possibly living together in the near future. Lots of other future plans have been discussed too. It seems at our ages, we both know what we are looking for, and seem to have found it in each other. As far as I've learned, he's never been super serious with another woman (never been married, I don't think he has ever lived with a GF) so I trust his pace, and of course, I am feelin' it too.

On one hand, my reasoning says HEY we could slow it down, and on the other (more prominent) hand I am so ready to share my life with someone. I've been living it alone for a long time (I have been in relationships, but nothing that feels so right as this)

So my question is, when you know what you want, with no hesitation, do you move quickly?! There have been lots of remarks from him about finances, building a life now which could support a family unit, and that he has never been so inspired to do so, before meeting me.

This is my first experience with a Cap, so I've really had no idea what to expect, but I am so pleasantly surprised.

(PS happy birthday Cappies!)

Posted by LouLore
Everything I've read about Caps say they move sloowww. Welp I seem to have found myself in a quick developing relationship with a Cap Man!

We have only been dating for a few months (we are an exclusive couple), and there has been talk of possibly living together in the near future. Lots of other future plans have been discussed too. It seems at our ages, we both know what we are looking for, and seem to have found it in each other. As far as I've learned, he's never been super serious with another woman (never been married, I don't think he has ever lived with a GF) so I trust his pace, and of course, I am feelin' it too.

On one hand, my reasoning says HEY we could slow it down, and on the other (more prominent) hand I am so ready to share my life with someone. I've been living it alone for a long time (I have been in relationships, but nothing that feels so right as this)

So my question is, when you know what you want, with no hesitation, do you move quickly?! There have been lots of remarks from him about finances, building a life now which could support a family unit, and that he has never been so inspired to do so, before meeting me.

This is my first experience with a Cap, so I've really had no idea what to expect, but I am so pleasantly surprised.

(PS happy birthday Cappies!)

He's talking finances? Ok, dude's serious. Prepare for a ring LOL.

Well it's hard to tell, depends on his age and whether he's financially stable or stable in his career. If yes he could really mean it. If no then I'd take it with a grain of salt.
Caps are quite sentimental and it's our season. Christmas, New Year's, everybody feels like taking things to the "next level" in their lives in every area, you know "make shit happen".
So chill a bit and see how he sees things in January/February. If he's still talking marriage in February, then he really wants you.
But just because CAps or Earth Signs usually take it slow, it doesn't mean that just because act quickly once in a while it is because we're serious and we simply know what we want and therefor act in a "haste", quite often it actually is the opposite. "Acting on a whim" is not typical for Earth Signs and that is for a reason. We just need the time to even develop the deep connection and make up our minds. Unless we're on a quick high. And Pisces stir up deep emotions in Cap, and we enjoy that

Mimi! Solid advice thank youuuu! I will absolutely take notice/measure to how this pans out the next few months per what he's thinking/what he talks to me about. That totally makes sense, this is Capricorn time, holidays, family stuff.. all encouraging taking things to the next level.

Question about the following:

"it doesn't mean that just because act quickly once in a while it is because we're serious and we simply know what we want and therefor act in a "haste", quite often it actually is the opposite. "Acting on a whim" is not typical for Earth Signs and that is for a reason. We just need the time to even develop the deep connection and make up our minds. Unless we're on a quick high. And Pisces stir up deep emotions in Cap, and we enjoy that"

Does this mean, in your interpretation, that it may not be encouraging that he IS acting so quickly, as in, he is diving off the deep end and this may be bad as it can be against his inherent nature, OR does it mean Pisces stirring up those deep emotions encourages the diving off the deep end (and this could be a good thing)?

Err.. hope I worded that right.

Posted by LouLore
Everything I've read about Caps say they move sloowww. Welp I seem to have found myself in a quick developing relationship with a Cap Man!

We have only been dating for a few months (we are an exclusive couple), and there has been talk of possibly living together in the near future. Lots of other future plans have been discussed too. It seems at our ages, we both know what we are looking for, and seem to have found it in each other. As far as I've learned, he's never been super serious with another woman (never been married, I don't think he has ever lived with a GF) so I trust his pace, and of course, I am feelin' it too.

On one hand, my reasoning says HEY we could slow it down, and on the other (more prominent) hand I am so ready to share my life with someone. I've been living it alone for a long time (I have been in relationships, but nothing that feels so right as this)

So my question is, when you know what you want, with no hesitation, do you move quickly?! There have been lots of remarks from him about finances, building a life now which could support a family unit, and that he has never been so inspired to do so, before meeting me.

This is my first experience with a Cap, so I've really had no idea what to expect, but I am so pleasantly surprised.

(PS happy birthday Cappies!)

Beware of anyone who moves that fast.

Thanks for your reply Truecap. I would have said the same thing to anyone who presented me with this situation too, prior to being in it myself. I'll take it slow, but I'm quite sure that I've found what I've been looking for in a partner for a long time. And he must feel similar. I really do think I may have found "the one" or.. "a one" (if ya think there are many roads/options in this regard). If this is the case, while there is no rush, there may also be no risk, to rushing.

We will certainly seee.