affair with capricorn man

Posted by milly
I have recently started an affair with a Capricorn man. The attraction was so strong we both knew at first sight that it would happen, and the sex is without doubt the best I have ever had! He says its the best he has had too. He also says I am his only affair since he married over 25years ago. Should I believe him? I have read that Capricorn men rarely have affairs outside marriage so does all this mean that he really likes me? I am Sagittarius woman and I want the fun, friendship and amazing sex with this man but I don't want to cause any upset to anyone.

Milly, are you serious? Do you want a sugar coated answer or the truth?

Careful you don't catch feelings. Then its pain city.

"I have recently started an affair with a Capricorn man"
"I don't want to cause any upset to anyone"

Can someone get me a gun?
I may just shoot myself!

Smh...

Posted by milly
sorry didn't mean to cause offence. Its just that I have had a really tough time the last few years. I was with a VERY controlling man and its taken me many months to find my confidence. The attention from this man is extremely flattering. I jus want to know if cap men can do just sex or is he likely to fall in love with me? I don't want a forever relationship......God I sound awful but im not honestly.

You Should talk to the lady scorpio she seems to think a woman is not a woman unless she is controlled by a man both body and soul.

Posted by milly
sorry didn't mean to cause offence. Its just that I have had a really tough time the last few years. I was with a VERY controlling man and its taken me many months to find my confidence. The attention from this man is extremely flattering. I jus want to know if cap men can do just sex or is he likely to fall in love with me? I don't want a forever relationship......God I sound awful but im not honestly.

Regardless of your past situation, there is no excuse. Sorry...so it doesn't matter what this guy likes or doesn't like. It won't last and you'll be the one to get hurt again. Talk about control. This Cap guy (or any guy that is married) WILL have all of the control of this situation because he will see you only when HE wants to see you. Holidays, weekends, special days..you can forget it. Those days are for his wife and family. You're setting yourself up for another disappointment. Sorry to be blunt but the truth hurts sometimes.

"God I sound awful but im not honestly"

*cough*

sleeping with a married man?

*cough*

Don't worry milly, he won't want to leave his wife for the likes of YOU!

Posted by champranger

Posted by milly
I want the fun, friendship and amazing sex with this man but I don't want to cause any upset to anyone.

If he is a married man, then the above is impossible. -__- Please put yourself in his wife's shoes.

If he is not a married man, then disregard what I wrote above.

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She said that he is and what I don't get is while clearly knowing that, will go ahead and accept his flirting. What happened to married men being off limits?? I don't get it.

Yes, indeed, the wife may leave HIM. But, he will NEVER respect HER.

Posted by champranger
She may leave him though ...

His wife? Who knows but after 25 years he knows that it's cheaper to keep her rather than divorce her.

"He also says I am his only affair since he married over 25years ago. Should I believe him?"

Ask his other mistress', not us...

I don't lack understanding believe me. But I will only consider myself able and worthy to judge others when I am the perfect human being myself, which is of course impossible.

If you will continue this way all the signs except yourself - capricorn - will leave us alone on this board.

A week of hating everybody who about to love a capricorn - busy capricorn?

it is wrong to steal another's man but I don't want to steal him. And if he's looking for an affair then maybe he's not the man she thinks he is? If I was to back off then would they live happily ever after? The fact that he started this must suggest that the problem(?) between them already existed before I came along. If it wasn't me it wouldn't most likely be someone else? I just wanted some advice about astrology but I can see that there are a lot of very idealist, moralistic, judgemental people on here so again sorry for any offence caused to all you clean living folks.

And it continues...

*knock knock*

Oh, oh, oh... this one just might be my favorite:

"If it wasn't me it wouldn't most likely be someone else?"

champranger, maybe you are right. Would it really be any better to go out and get a single man and just use him for sex? A single man would be more likely to fall in love and I so don't want that.

*facepalm*

Posted by milly
it is wrong to steal another's man but I don't want to steal him. And if he's looking for an affair then maybe he's not the man she thinks he is? If I was to back off then would they live happily ever after? The fact that he started this must suggest that the problem(?) between them already existed before I came along. If it wasn't me it wouldn't most likely be someone else? I just wanted some advice about astrology but I can see that there are a lot of very idealist, moralistic, judgemental people on here so again sorry for any offence caused to all you clean living folks.

Wait! Hold up! Cappy Lady here and this is nuts. For one, to think that you would receive astrological advice on an affair is ludicrous to me. How did you expect folks to react to that? Take yourself out of this and try to look at it from another angle. How would you feel being the wife and some other woman was asking the same questions regarding your husband? Also, your response above about not wanting to steal a guy and maybe he's not what she thinks he is a poor excuse for you accepting his behavior. That's for HER to figure out; not for you to go along with it and then blame the wife for his actions. Whatever issues there are if any between he and his wife have nothing to do with you and woman to woman, you need to remove yourself from this situation all together. Ok, you want advice?? I will give it to. You're playing yourself gf! Leave him alone! Find your own man. He is not available to you. You need to have respect for yourself before any true man can have respect for you. All attention is not good attention, remember that.

Posted by champranger

Posted by milly
champranger, maybe you are right. Would it really be any better to go out and get a single man and just use him for sex? A single man would be more likely to fall in love and I so don't want that.

Yes, AS LONG AS he is single. There are FWB relationships out there. If he falls in love you and you don't want that, just tell him so.

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I would rather have a single man than a married one.

ok, ok everyone thanx. Am taking all this on board. I guess im just flattered by all this and its been so long. Am not trying to make excuses. At least I have learnt that I can still attract a man so I suppose its just a question of going out there and finding the right situation to attract a single one who just wants some fun!

Posted by lildol
Oh, oh, oh... this one just might be my favorite:

"If it wasn't me it wouldn't most likely be someone else?"

Is that crazy or what?? Really? So it makes it ok to go ahead and continue? This is why women hate each other anyway. It's women who give excuses for their behavior. Sorry, I'm old school and I respect folks relationships and or marriages.

Posted by milly
ok, ok everyone thanx. Am taking all this on board. I guess im just flattered by all this and its been so long. Am not trying to make excuses. At least I have learnt that I can still attract a man so I suppose its just a question of going out there and finding the right situation to attract a single one who just wants some fun!

Have fun with SINGLE (key work here) men. There are plenty out there. Make better decisions when it men & relationships.

Posted by Iamawinelover

Posted by milly
ok, ok everyone thanx. Am taking all this on board. I guess im just flattered by all this and its been so long. Am not trying to make excuses. At least I have learnt that I can still attract a man so I suppose its just a question of going out there and finding the right situation to attract a single one who just wants some fun!

Have fun with SINGLE (key word here) men. There are plenty out there. Make better decisions when it men & relationships.

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**Key word** you know what I meant.

so how does one get out there and do that? A single mum with no close friends (new to the area) And keep safe, and not get hurt/ hurt anyone?? All advice appreciated

foxglove, many thanks for that. It has answered my original question and you seem to be an understanding person. I don't want a relationship because I want to give myself to motherhood, and I had given up on the whole men and sex thing but those sexual feeling have recently started to creep up on me. Its just a basic human instinct I guess. Anyway thanks again for the answer.

...and yes we are grown adults and definitely not serial killers!

Posted by milly
I have recently started an affair with a Capricorn man. The attraction was so strong we both knew at first sight that it would happen, and the sex is without doubt the best I have ever had! He says its the best he has had too. He also says I am his only affair since he married over 25years ago. Should I believe him? I have read that Capricorn men rarely have affairs outside marriage so does all this mean that he really likes me? I am Sagittarius woman and I want the fun, friendship and amazing sex with this man but I don't want to cause any upset to anyone.

As you??ve noticed so far everyone is dismissing this conduct as unethical, destructive and immoral... I used to be in a high horse myself. I used to say I??ll never *Insert unethical action* I know the difference between right and wrong and everything is black and white... Reality is that life will knock you on your ass several times, and turn your world upside down. Only you know whats inside and what you feel, only you can say ??This is what I need.?? If you know full well the consequences of your actions.


1. Destroyed famaly. (But if the guy cheats is it not destroyed already?)
2. Heart ache

I only have 2 questions.

If you??re only after the sex, why do you care if he likes you?
He's been lying to his wife from the very first momment he slept with you, why do you ask if you should believe that you??re the only one he's had an affair with?

The way I see it, you want something more. The only way this ??wrong?? could be turned into a ??right?? is if both of you find more fullfilling lifes together then the ones you currently have, then destiny decided to break down your barriers and join you.

Lol, just read foxloves post 😆 Disregard my previous post

^ Yeah, its true

@Still, they come in droves at times it seems...

yeah, cap men and affairs... not unusual...

They are known to be extremely cautious so why not have someone else lined up --just in case?

OH GREAT IDEA HAVE SOMEONE ELSE LINED UP WTF IS SHE DOING FUCKING HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE
PERHAPS SHE SHOULD GET A HEARD OF CAP MEN ONE FOR EACH DAY OF THE WEEK.
NA THAT MIGHT BE WHOREING AROUND.

Wonder what sign the wife is? Milly, you better hope like hell she's not a scorpio!

And for the record, I was the trusting wife of a cheating man. I kicked him out and took almost everything he had along with his reputation and his girlfriend's reputation (scorpio venus, here). My kids, one grown and one teenager, do not respect him and he absolutely destroyed any relationship he had built with them.

Ah, but it's only sex. Have a good time until the shit hits the fan.

AH THERE YOU ARE SO SPICK AND SPAN WHERE WERE YOU WHEN THE SHIT HIT THE FAN.

WE WILL ASK HER THIS WHEN SHE POST THE BREAK UP

Yeah, me too. They were old enough to see for themselves and know what was going on and its harder to protect them. I think he was wanting to get caught so ended up not being very discrete. It was ugly.

another one gets caught into the web of a capricorn man?

ohhhhh

juicy. *sits down to watch an episode of Desperate housewives remake*

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Posted by lisabethur8
another one gets caught into the web of a capricorn man?

ohhhhh

juicy. *sits down to watch an episode of Desperate housewives remake*

Having her entire family as backup...it's like the football team.

Ready....SET. GO!!

and yeah on the police. they got scared.

^^ If this were in the West, the woman wouldve used her super high heeled shoes. OUCH.

"Take that! and that! Want some more!? Huh? How'd you like that huh?"

a heard of cap men?... now there's an idea!

Wife also caught cheating! this one is DRAMATIC!!

Lover escapes! & gets an audience!

LOL

Dramatic cases..... but not reflective of my life!

^^ it's just a joke, everevolving, if women actually did that, there would be serious repurcussions and medical backpay and serious calamity damage.

ALL CAP MEN DO NOT CHEAT

The ones that don't cheat can't commit :p

Not me!

I don't even like commitment all that much but hey, it shows character.