I was just told I was aloof. I almost take that as a complement. lol! First time anyone has come right out and told me that. And it was a friend I've had for 25 years!
Geesh! I hate it when other people are aloof, though. Didn't realize I came across that way. I think its a fear of vulnerability. Afraid to say too much and if I do say too much, I withdraw.
I'm a triple cap (sun, moon, mercury) with aqua mars and scorp venus and rising. After learning our stereotypical traits, I'm surprised the aloofness hasn't come up before. But, this is the first time I've been accused of being aloof. Maybe my southern raising and ways cover that so it's not so obvious?
Blunt, insensitive, cold yes. Been accused of all that!!!
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Geesh! I hate it when other people are aloof, though. Didn't realize I came across that way. I think its a fear of vulnerability. Afraid to say too much and if I do say too much, I withdraw.