acnalagon
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AM I in trouble with this Capricorn girl I've been flirting with?
t it to my attention.
I think this is what led to her acting this way. Can someone confirm?
I think this is what led to her acting this way. Can someone confirm?
She tried to let you down easy and probably felt like you wouldnt accept her polite turn down and argued with her. She may have felt pushed. Therefore, she was forced to be harsher toward you so you would get the message. I don't think jealousy had anything to do wirh it.
She could probably care less about the coworker incident. She used her quirks as an excuse to let you down easy.
What's your sign?
What's your sign?
Gemini. a, okay, well I was just curious. 😆
Gobshite clearly needs a diaper change. However, I would agree that Gems and Caps are not good in the long-run but you like her and want answers.
Based on your situation I wouldn't throw everything to the wind because she may have been interested. The comment about your ex-coworker and other comments may have made her think. Capricorn are deep thinkers, and there's no reason to assume that had nothing to do with her not being interested. In fact, I would give her space, make her think, and if she comes around again I would be honest and communicate this with her. If she is still not interested, then you have your answer 🙂
Based on your situation I wouldn't throw everything to the wind because she may have been interested. The comment about your ex-coworker and other comments may have made her think. Capricorn are deep thinkers, and there's no reason to assume that had nothing to do with her not being interested. In fact, I would give her space, make her think, and if she comes around again I would be honest and communicate this with her. If she is still not interested, then you have your answer 🙂
you really are pushy to be honest.
if a woman doesn't want you, it's like you want what you can't have.
and also you lack the ability to intuit that she doesn't want you that way.
it's going to be annoying to a woman who means no mean no.
she already found a character flaw in you she can't live with.
also despite any character flaws, she didnt have any connection with you.
if she had a connection with you, even slight character flaws mean nothing.
basically it boils down to this:
leave her alone.
EDIT = i'm just saying, in truth if people have "connections" with eachother, they dont care.
but you only seem to want to connect with her and she doesn't.
already you lack the intuition to get that.
if a woman doesn't want you, it's like you want what you can't have.
and also you lack the ability to intuit that she doesn't want you that way.
it's going to be annoying to a woman who means no mean no.
she already found a character flaw in you she can't live with.
also despite any character flaws, she didnt have any connection with you.
if she had a connection with you, even slight character flaws mean nothing.
basically it boils down to this:
leave her alone.
EDIT = i'm just saying, in truth if people have "connections" with eachother, they dont care.
but you only seem to want to connect with her and she doesn't.
already you lack the intuition to get that.
oh what are your placements?? and hers?
Posted by GobshiteFor the most part I agreed with you. I was merely offering him to give her space and if she doesn't come around or there's no communication he has his answer. As far as your response to me, let's keep it classy.Posted by takemeaway
Gobshite clearly needs a diaper change. However, I would agree that Gems and Caps are not good in the long-run but you like her and want answers.
Based on your situation I wouldn't throw everything to the wind because she may have been interested. The comment about your ex-coworker and other comments may have made her think. Capricorn are deep thinkers, and there's no reason to assume that had nothing to do with her not being interested. In fact, I would give her space, make her think, and if she comes around again I would be honest and communicate this with her. If she is still not interested, then you have your answer 🙂
At least I try to see things for what they are, as opposed to living in la la land, as your pathetic thread illustrates.
https://www.dxpnet.com/opinion/capricorn/capricorn-man-6130231/#6130232
And you expect others to take your advice seriously? And about a Cap?! 😆click to expand
Posted by Vixen2Not sure this is entirely true...Posted by takemeawaynoooo! Take.those.rose.colored.glasses. off little Pisces lady. This Cap woman is not interested...they don't change their minds, they are very logical, methodical in their decisions. She is not interested and will not change her mind. There is something that this guy did or does not do for her. Done deal.
Gobshite clearly needs a diaper change. However, I would agree that Gems and Caps are not good in the long-run but you like her and want answers.
Based on your situation I wouldn't throw everything to the wind because she may have been interested. The comment about your ex-coworker and other comments may have made her think. Capricorn are deep thinkers, and there's no reason to assume that had nothing to do with her not being interested. In fact, I would give her space, make her think, and if she comes around again I would be honest and communicate this with her. If she is still not interested, then you have your answer 🙂click to expand
They are totally deep thinkers and make decisions only after they've logically thought them through like you said. BUT my Cap who did the same exact this as the OP's Cap...told me he thought we would not work out in the long run, had his reasons...I didn't push the issue, and that was that. And low and behold, on three separate occasions since then, the real story has come out. Mind you, two of those three times he has been drunk but last night I ran into him and he was drinking and he told me straight up he has no idea why he "let" me go and that he still has very strong feelings for me (WHAT?!). I was pretty shocked. I'm not going back there because I'm a Gemini as well and there's just a huge incompatibility, but I do think that Caps can be good at convincing themselves that they don't feel a certain way that they really naturally do.
Posted by ashley1734Be careful. Sometimes Cap men will say what you want to hear so they can get into your pants...make you feel special..Posted by Vixen2Not sure this is entirely true...Posted by takemeawaynoooo! Take.those.rose.colored.glasses. off little Pisces lady. This Cap woman is not interested...they don't change their minds, they are very logical, methodical in their decisions. She is not interested and will not change her mind. There is something that this guy did or does not do for her. Done deal.
Gobshite clearly needs a diaper change. However, I would agree that Gems and Caps are not good in the long-run but you like her and want answers.
Based on your situation I wouldn't throw everything to the wind because she may have been interested. The comment about your ex-coworker and other comments may have made her think. Capricorn are deep thinkers, and there's no reason to assume that had nothing to do with her not being interested. In fact, I would give her space, make her think, and if she comes around again I would be honest and communicate this with her. If she is still not interested, then you have your answer 🙂
They are totally deep thinkers and make decisions only after they've logically thought them through like you said. BUT my Cap who did the same exact this as the OP's Cap...told me he thought we would not work out in the long run, had his reasons...I didn't push the issue, and that was that. And low and behold, on three separate occasions since then, the real story has come out. Mind you, two of those three times he has been drunk but last night I ran into him and he was drinking and he told me straight up he has no idea why he "let" me go and that he still has very strong feelings for me (WHAT?!). I was pretty shocked. I'm not going back there because I'm a Gemini as well and there's just a huge incompatibility, but I do think that Caps can be good at convincing themselves that they don't feel a certain way that they really naturally do.
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We're action orientated, if he's all talk then that's all it is. The feeling will pass.
If he really wants you, he'd make serious moves to get you.
It's nice being their counterpart, it's like we have all this Cap male intuition. We can sense bullsh!t.
Posted by GreenteaReally? I have had plenty of other man talk bullshit to get what they want but for some reason I never thought Cap would have it in him. He isn't a words person at all. Normally when he's drunk is the only time I would ever get any emotion out of him, but I guess that might have ulterior motive behind it too haha good to know! I wish I had some of that Cap intuition. It's strong!Posted by ashley1734Be careful. Sometimes Cap men will say what you want to hear so they can get into your pants...make you feel special..Posted by Vixen2Not sure this is entirely true...Posted by takemeawaynoooo! Take.those.rose.colored.glasses. off little Pisces lady. This Cap woman is not interested...they don't change their minds, they are very logical, methodical in their decisions. She is not interested and will not change her mind. There is something that this guy did or does not do for her. Done deal.
Gobshite clearly needs a diaper change. However, I would agree that Gems and Caps are not good in the long-run but you like her and want answers.
They are totally deep thinkers and make decisions only after they've logically thought them through like you said. BUT my Cap who did the same exact this as the OP's Cap...told me he thought we would not work out in the long run, had his reasons...I didn't push the issue, and that was that. And low and behold, on three separate occasions since then, the real story has come out. Mind you, two of those three times he has been drunk but last night I ran into him and he was drinking and he told me straight up he has no idea why he "let" me go and that he still has very strong feelings for me (WHAT?!). I was pretty shocked. I'm not going back there because I'm a Gemini as well and there's just a huge incompatibility, but I do think that Caps can be good at convincing themselves that they don't feel a certain way that they really naturally do.
We're action orientated, if he's all talk then that's all it is. The feeling will pass.
If he really wants you, he'd make serious moves to get you.
It's nice being their counterpart, it's like we have all this Cap male intuition. We can sense bullsh!t.click to expand
Posted by ashley1734Like I said ..the feeling will pass. Liquid courage is usually how we can open up freely. If he wanted you...reeeaally wanted you, he would make moves. Maybe he does wamt you, but something is stopping him from goinPosted by GreenteaReally? I have had plenty of other man talk bullshit to get what they want but for some reason I never thought Cap would have it in him. He isn't a words person at all. Normally when he's drunk is the only time I would ever get any emotion out of him, but I guess that might have ulterior motive behind it too haha good to know! I wish I had some of that Cap intuition. It's strong!Posted by ashley1734Be careful. Sometimes Cap men will say what you want to hear so they can get into your pants...make you feel special..Posted by Vixen2Not sure this is entirely true...Posted by takemeawaynoooo! Take.those.rose.colored.glasses. off little Pisces lady. This Cap woman is not interested...they don't change their minds, they are very logical, methodical in their decisions. She is not interested and will not change her mind. There is something that this guy did or does not do for her. Done deal.
Gobshite clearly needs a diaper change. However, I would agree that Gems and Caps are not good in the long-run but you like her and want answers.
They are totally deep thinkers and make decisions only after they've logically thought them through like you said. BUT my Cap who did the same exact this as the OP's Cap...told me he thought we would not work out in the long run, had his reasons...I didn't push the issue, and that was that. And low and behold, on three separate occasions since then, the real story has come out. Mind you, two of those three times he has been drunk but last night I ran into him and he was drinking and he told me straight up he has no idea why he "let" me go and that he still has very strong feelings for me (WHAT?!). I was pretty shocked. I'm not going back there because I'm a Gemini as well and there's just a huge incompatibility, but I do think that Caps can be good at convincing themselves that they don't feel a certain way that they really naturally do.
We're action orientated, if he's all talk then that's all it is. The feeling will pass.
If he really wants you, he'd make serious moves to get you.
It's nice being their counterpart, it's like we have all this Cap male intuition. We can sense bullsh!t.click to expand
**going for it.
Posted by GobshiteLMAOPosted by takemeaway
As far as your response to me, let's keep it classy.
Your definition of classy equates to validation, diplomacy and being 'fluffy'. Well, you can bloody keep it.
You're just another fucked-up or retarded individual, twisting English language usage for your own pathetic personal agendas. No wonder the Cap never got back to you.
Now, please write out the following 200 times:
"I must not use another Cap male as a whipping boy for the Cap on OK Cupid."click to expand
OKay, I really do appreciate all of the feed back you guys have given me. Even the harsh ones(although I do admit that the same message could have been delivered without being so brutal about it, talk about kicking someone while they're down). And In all honesty, the only reason I had asked was it's a thing I do where whenever someone turns me down, I'd ask what was that turned them off, and Id try and work on it for future people I meet. I really thought that I wasn't being pushy. However this was actually the first Capricorn that I've come to like, and combine that with the fact that I've never had a girlfriend before(ever), there was no experience there ever. As far as Gemini's go, I do think before letting myself like someone and I did do the research, and like I said, I thought the signs were there, but in the end, my inexperience was probably one of the major contributing factors here.(IDK, you guys know more about this entire situation than I do). We are still friends, but I've given her the space so she can regather herself before I start talking to her again. Heck I need the time to regather myself as well. I do thank you all for the input, it's been an invaluable eye opener. And a Capricorn's demeanor, ironically, is what I find attractive in girls, and this one in particular especially caught my attention because we had many similar interests. I almost feel like laughing at myself because of the unorthodox in my interests.
Hugs!!
Posted by acnalagonJust a friendly supportive hug of encouragement. You got some harsh answers and are trying to learn from your experience.Posted by truecap
Hugs!!
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Posted by truecapoh lol. It's been rough today for other reasons. Lol. week seems to have gone well. Thanks for the hug then lel.Posted by acnalagonJust a friendly supportive hug of encouragement. You got some harsh answers and are trying to learn from your experience.Posted by truecap
Hugs!!
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