@lovely77
10 Years1,000+ Posts
Capricorn
Not really. I'm more into personality, humor and a person's character. Those traits outweigh looks.
Looks fade, character doesn't
The looks draw me in BUT the character & personality hold me. If I don't like the persons character then they looks are not attractive to me anymore.
It's all about the personality €
Posted by lovely77
Hello everyone. Are you guys really intoWt works for me is d total personality nd looks are just one aspect but yeah it counts surely 😉
Hmm why must he love you more and be less attractive @capriaquagirl
Posted by lovely77
Hello everyone. Are you guys really into looks?
You are gorgeous anyhows!
Posted by SensitiveBlues
the men arethe women are about money!
By far the most accurate.
Thank you 🙂 @blondeambition
Posted by lovely77
Hello everyone. Are you guys really into looks?You are gorgeous anyhows!
I second that. 🙂
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Aww thank you 🙂
It depends really, I've had my share of suitors that many would find aesthetically pleasing, but I didn't find them attractive bcuz of their character. Very easy for me to pass them by.
I've been into men that aren't exactly models but by far would turn me on more than a Don Juan wannabe. They were classy and TRUE gentlemen.
Looks are just a bonus!! I would not be with someone I don't find myself sexually attracted to though. I love sex too much.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
the men arethe women are about money!
Not sure if the women are about money. My lady knows that I'm not a high salary earner, although I will admit, she doesn't mind being spoiled sometimes.
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What is your cappy like, how does she treat you?
Posted by SensitiveBlues
the men arethe women are about money!
Not sure if the women are about money. My lady knows that I'm not a high salary earner, although I will admit, she doesn't mind being spoiled sometimes.
What is your cappy like, how does she treat you?
Well I think she treats me pretty well. She's very loving and affectionate most of the time, although sometimes I feel that she doesn't listen to everything I say - like sometimes when we're having a conversation - even though I'm also guilty of that sometimes, it's as if I'm a bit "switched off" when my mind is somewhere else. But apart from that, there's quite a lot of mutual respect between us.
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I'm glad she treats you well, behind that hard exterior we have up, is a tender person.
Oh, she does the tuning out at times as well, lol. ya it's just things on her mind she cant shake. I've been guilty of that, most of the time it's work related.
I wish you two the very best!! Yes, keep spoiling her every chance you get, it won't go unnoticed... but most importantly just love and cherish each other.
Posted by SensitiveBlues
the men arethe women are about money!
Not sure if the women are about money. My lady knows that I'm not a high salary earner, although I will admit, she doesn't mind being spoiled sometimes.
What is your cappy like, how does she treat you?
Well I think she treats me pretty well. She's very loving and affectionate most of the time, although sometimes I feel that she doesn't listen to everything I say - like sometimes when we're having a conversation - even though I'm also guilty of that sometimes, it's as if I'm a bit "switched off" when my mind is somewhere else. But apart from that, there's quite a lot of mutual respect between us.
I'm glad she treats you well, behind that hard exterior we have up, is a tender person.
Oh, she does the tuning out at times as well, lol. ya it's just things on her mind she cant shake. I've been guilty of that, most of the time it's work related.
I wish you two the very best!! Yes, keep spoiling her every chance you get, it won't go unnoticed... but most importantly just love and cherish each other.
Thanks Greentea. Oh, I forgot to mention, sometimes she comes across as a bit lazy, and she's quite good at procrastinating.
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Ah, she may feel beaten down. I get extreme lazy amd dont.want to do absolutely anything. Just pretend I'm not around basically.
Not.much of a.procrastinator though, not on importamt things, other things can take a back seat though, sometimes.to the very last.second.
I have so much going on at times, I have to prioritize... put.some things on the back burner and honestly sometimes I forget some.of it.
Posted by MysteriousPresence
I will add though, that she is a lovely person, even though she can be a bit cheeky and have a bit of attitude sometimes, but, I love her.
Lol.
Posted by lovely77
Hmm why must he love you more and be less attractive @capriaquagirl
He loves you more so you are secured with the feeling wanted.
And less attractive, so there would be no need to jealous to compare with if he is attractive and having too many others girl around him.
I'm was real nice looking when I 1st meet my Capricorn friend. Im still nice looking but I gain some weight. Initially looks will attract a cap man but they look for personality and good character. Cap men are attractive to women with status. If your a good woman they will never abandon you. They like loyalty and trust. If you have all of the traits above they will stick around forever.
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Hello everyone. Are you guys really into looks?