Ambitious, quiet Capricorn

I am a talkative, very expressive Taurus (double Taurus) & my Capricorn boyfriend of 7 months has said wonderful things to me (in time - I got worried when I said I love him first; he caught up.) But his remoteness baffles me. Esp now, while we have been discussing moving to the same city (he has been in another state for several months & just learned he'll be there permanently) and I said I am not feeling strong enough about us to do that and need to date him another month or two. I SOOOO want to go but have NOT been getting my emotional needs met most of the time. I have tried to not need as much because he is different. But this is ridiculous. So now since I told him he is even less into calling and talking about things deeper than the weather. I cannot figure if he's just hurt and cannot tell me or if he has lost interest. Any thoughts? Irealize this is a crapshoot and really I need to just deal with my insecurity and relationship myself.
-Affectionate Taurus needing feedback!

Capricorns are not good at commitment. At least not at first. They are ussually always confussed about thier love lifes. And insucure about getting to attached. If you really like this guy, show him you really care. Give him all you can offered to give. Let him know your serious when you say you love him. Also Capricorns need to know that their good in bed. And they usually are quite unexpectedly great! In the bedroom is usually were he will make up for his quiet, dull nature. If it does`nt work out , just know it isn`t your doing. Caps are very messed up poeple underneath. If it does , good for you, now the trick is keeping him intrested.

Your best bet is to be straight with him and the way you feel. Dop`nt deny yourself what you need out of the relationship to satisfy this cap. We`re all really f*** in the head anyway so the only way to get through is by being calmly persistant
Sorry i can`t help anymore

I have a sister who is married to a Cap for 17 years. We always wondered what she saw in this cap - because he was very mentally abusive to her - She loved him like you wouldn't believe? As of today, I feel he is still abusive although I guess she has gotten used to it in some strange way. She is fairly strong, but I think in this dept. she's gotten used to it in some strange way. She does realise some things now, but still continues to praise him? I am a Cancer and Cap are our opposites - So I truly have no clue where he comes from with his attitude?? We are fairly intuitive about the way most people are but he totally baffles me?? Anyhow my point is I guess, I hope you will give him a chance IF he fulfills your needs -
otherwise WHY and WHAT FOR is my question?? Because this little CAP has not fulfilled my little sisters needs most of her life and I think when she actually has the time to truly think about it and she has come to some conclusions - it is very sad to stay with someone who never truly fulfills your needs??. I know this is a very long story, because they do say that Taurus and Caps are extremely compatible, there are quite a few things missing. I believe Taurus just has the worst time letting something go when they have decided they love someone.

That's what I know about these two signs. I hope I didn't discourage you, but be ready to give and not receive the way you would like.

Good luck to you 🙂)

Eveeve,

It sounds to me that he just doesn't know how or what to say back to you. It will take time for him to open up again. You just shocked him. Just be the same way you have always been with him and he will be fine with you. Just keep showing him that you love him and in return, in a bit, he will show it back to you. I found that Caps are very straight forward in their actions, and if they don't want to be with you they will tell you: but if they do they become quiet and don't know how to express themselves very well.

My thoughts are with you,
Mt_Moonshine

Well I had to respond to this and hope I can be of some help. I would go see him and try to gauge how he is feeling. It is possible that he is scared that since you don't see him as much that you have -maybe lost interest in him. You showing up to see him will establish that you do love him and have not lost interest. I personally think that if he has lost interest in you - you will know as soon as you see him. If everything is going ok while your there ask him right out. Believe me not knowing is worse than knowing and moving on. You may hurt for awhile but it's best to know so you won't waste your time. When he starts talking check to see if he looks you in the eye when he tells you how he feels. Also if you don't get to have that talk because deep down inside you don't want to know. When you sleep together- if you sleep together -see if he does the things he did before when everything was hot and heavy- I'm not talking about the sex - I'm talking about after. If after not seeing you for awhile he doesn't want to be close to you even if it's just one leg touching yours to maintain some sort of contact for a little while. He is using you and get rid of that sucker!! (If he does the contact thing - make sure you reciprocate otherwise he will pull away because he thinks you don't want him touching you)Quote:
You can't find love where it doesn't exist and you can't hide love where it does.....