Any Caps ever had a situation where you made or...

Asked for your love interest or significant other, to wait on you for whatever reason for you? Whether it was to settle down, or have a commuted relationship? If so, how did you approach them and the situation, and what was the other person involved answer or response to your request?
Men and women Cappys, would be very helpful, however I'd gladly take advice or feedback from any and all signs that have been in this situation either from the asking side or the receiving end?! 🙂 thank you all again!!

Oops... Damn autocorrect, it's supposed to say ***commited*** not commuted LOL

No , at least I never had such experience . It seems like you are overwhelmed right now. And I can totally understand your situation. You just have to make it clear for you only. The more in depth you will go the more complicated it will become. And every one has different situations and behaviors so its difficult to find similarity. Over thinking is strictly prohibbited in this situation you are suffering from. Work on things you can control. The result of your situation is something you can't control right now. So don't waste your energy thinking about it.

Wish you best of luck . Just think positive and work on clearing your own mind instead of creating more complications . I know you can do it and you are surely a strong woman 🙂

If the relationship is real and committed, then there could be reasons to wait before moving forward. Caps like to have their ducks in a row. One thing at a time. Very methodological.

There's a right time and place for everything. So, if it means waiting to get married until XYZ line up, then I don't see why there's a problem. What is the rush? If the relationship is real and solid, then being together is what matters.