Lunar capricorns: What about future planning

As a lunar Capricorn I find myself constantly thinking and planning about the future specially the relationships. I plan every minor details. My guy also pointed that to me saying "How can you pre-plan everything that easily" So Wondering whether it has something to do with my Capricorn moon? What are your opinions ?

yeah my friend is like this and i dont see a problem with it. I do think at times, she forgets about the present.

I used to do that alot, until I finally realized that the "plans" I made very rarely to ever panned out. So, I still do it, but have to be conscious of the fact that it's more likely that I'm fantasizing and not really planning. It helps me to be more practical and to also just enjoy it without expectations.

Posted by DMV
yeah my friend is like this and i dont see a problem with it. I do think at times, she forgets about the present.

That isn't the case with me. I do live in present but yeah I always have my eyes on future. Before taking any step I think about how will it effect me in future.

Posted by sultrykitty
I used to do that alot, until I finally realized that the "plans" I made very rarely to ever panned out. So, I still do it, but have to be conscious of the fact that it's more likely that I'm fantasizing and not really planning. It helps me to be more practical and to also just enjoy it without expectations.

Expectations? yeah don't know why but I expect a lot and do get hurt when they aren't met. I agree that our plans are more about fantasizing and daydreaming rather than practical planning. Thanks for your valuable input 🙂

Posted by AquaMermaid
Yes, my Cap moon husband is like this. When we were courting, he had already planned where and how we will get married,honeymoon and other details.I was relaxed. I knew he would take care of it,lol.

Yes we are quite good when it comes to future planning but only if we take practical steps. But sometime we just delve into our inside world so deep that we start fantasizing about how our future should be.

Cappy stellium in 5th I obsess about the romantic future and I have to learn to enjoy the present

Posted by caprigoral
I used to be like you OP, then something happened around 2002 where I had to accept that things don't really work that way. But in my head, even if I don't write anything down and don't tell anyone, this need to plan won't go away. I accept that plans need adjustments all the time but the planning is actually quite stimulating. I accept that most people don't want to hear about my plans, in return I expect them to leave me alone with my planning and not try to force something unnatural onto me.

I'm generally sick of people who think that their way is the only way and that anything they don't understand or wouldn't like is somehow wrong, so they can only feel comfortable if they can force others into ways that are recognizable to them as "normal", screw how the person being forced/bullied/manipulated with feels.😢

The funniest plan gone wrong was my 18th birthday. Everything was perfectly planned as far as I was concerned. Then around midnight one of my guests called to say that she'd checked my route and seen that it lead not to the party venue but the city library. "Do I understand you right, you're hosting a party in the city library?!". Ough! I had to call everyone and wake them up and give them the right directions.😄

Party in library lol 😄
Well I think about the future almost 24/7 but I don't tell them to anyone because I know they won't understand :p