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Posted by cappygolightlyPosted by satori
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lol yes? Yes—??!!! I am not doom and gloom. But sometimes virgos are up their own arses too much (literally they would like to stay up there from the sound of the virgo board...)click to expand

Posted by satori
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Posted by Fledermaus
"what I hated the most was Free Advice and Free of charge Analysis of my psyche that she would bring up .. after some nice/ polite/ self-scrutiny weeks.. we had a row... "
I've learned how to deal with that when someone decides to lecture me about that sort of crap (note to other signs: if you want tp piss off a cap that's one good way to do it). My usual response is "oh really? Tell me more about me, it's a subject I know so little about" That usually shuts them up.
I wouldn't say I'm depressing person but I do have a cynical outlook on things that usually lends itself to gallows humor.


Posted by Crazy4cappy
That sounds so Jehova Witness Eric..lol

Posted by cappygolightlyPosted by eric11But when the world comes to an end we Caps will be ready. 😉
haha yes typical cappy dry wit!click to expand
Posted by cappygolightlyPosted by Fledermaus
My usual response is "oh really? Tell me more about me, it's a subject I know so little about" That usually shuts them up.
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crikey I would never talk to anyone like that. Are you both 3rd decan? My third decan cappy friend would definitely say this and she is very feisty.
Well I don't use it all the time. Maybe it is just something that happens more with guys (it's usually guys who pull that with me). I'm not talking about honest or well intentioned criticism. I'm talking about when some aquaintence who hardly knows you takes it upon himself to tell you all the things he's figured out about you - it is usually aburdly off base and I just don't have the time to deal with idiots like that. Gennerally I'm am quite diplomatic with people as long as they are not acting like annoying idiots.
Posted by SuperCap
I spoke verbally and showed everyday my passion for this Cancer lady and, slimwitted, she still was thoroughly doubtful that i really loved her. i was myself but toned it respectfully because I'm a very respectful person anyways so it wasnt hard. It was completely beyond her and she was intelligent until she came to me. Everyone knew it. Bad up-bringing screwed it. Has anyone ever had someone who won't let you love them. For those who have you understand how endlessly hellish and frustrating as well as heart-breaking that this is. I won't lie ya know she taught me some things and made me admire some things and all of this came from God and her. She made sure I would never forget her. She was a very "crucial" human being if this means anything. Shorter point is that this Cancer made me love/really hate for the first real time and it was jarring at first because sooner or later I knew all along she wasn't going to be wrong too many more times. I hold Cancers in high regard for playing checkers with me the longest and I'm not talking about board game only. I like this "sign" stuff and I always ask a person their birthday, its just habit. But anyway this Cancer was the wildest ride yet and she knew this. I could go on forever about this with crazy stories about her but in the end I am thankful to the umpfth degree we met again ten years after our short high-school relationship. I'm wondering if it will be another 10 after the 4 we just did time together. Oh, and I am realistic not depressing. They call me I don't call them. Whoever it doesn't matter, except family. Cap=looooooooooooooooooooooooove family. But I need my own 1-800 # and start charging by the minute because its what I give'em and people rarely leave from me unhappy. Nowhere near depressing because I don't really share all my problems with anyone, I deal with it all on my own and do a great job managing it. I was born with great management like a lot of Caps when they feel something is worth their time. If you ever see a Cap really depressed it may be because they have to manage something that they really know isn't worth their time. Simply will not waste short life on wastefulness and degression, know this. Hope I wasn't too uninteresting.




Posted by ArcherPosted by virgoking
Wow they should call this the virgo hate thread lol the only virgos i know that are real depress are the ones with virgo moons. any who im one of those who don't say anything when i see people are fucking up i just let them fuck up(i blame this on my cap moon lol). so there is always two types. word to wise the ones that tell u about ur self are the nice ones. peace=)
lol.. your cap moon saving grace for virgo sun... oh no chance for virgo mooners with cap sun—?click to expand

Posted by Archerbut the virgo im talking about has a virgo moon i guess he is not depress but u get depress by looking at him if that makes since.
oh.. poor thing.. I have virgo rising and that alone is hard to carry.. too many obligations to be NICE and to appear 'Balanced'.. too pretentious, living for people all the time.. and that sprouts from a desire to 'show off kindess' not the true 'kindness of heart'... thts how Virgos appear to me... no offense yep,, cappies are hmmm, self centered.. cold and standoffish.. unless you have a mutual interest.click to expand

Posted by Gingerscorp
For the record I don't think Cappies are depressing. I think they are realistic people that like to be prepared for the "worst case senerio". No harm in that. It's just planning and being smart. At least they are deep enough to comprehend there is more to life then happy go lucky all the fucking time. 🙂








Posted by taurus35
i cant believe a virgo said that everything that comes out of their mouth is negative and they are selfish people,judgemental and nitpickers,..caps are doom and gloom but i think it is on a more personal level,virgos are negative about everything,i get a long with both but when they start i tune them out
Posted by noirecapricornprincess
WOW, interesting that we have been labeled as Negative and depressing- and even more so that it came from a Virgo. I've read that We really gel with them because they are like us earth signs. I'd like to think I am a realist and don't view things through rose colored lens or with blinders on. I did have one rather confused friend tell me I was borderline pessimistic which she said was dark doom and gloom but then she changed that perspective when I loaned her some money, smirks. I think for those who don't know us well might think that about us. it takes a person digging deep and going beyond the surface to truly understand us as a person(people).
Posted by noirecapricornprincess
WOW, interesting that we have been labeled as Negative and depressing- and even more so that it came from a Virgo. I've read that We really gel with them because they are like us earth signs. I'd like to think I am a realist and don't view things through rose colored lens or with blinders on. I did have one rather confused friend tell me I was borderline pessimistic which she said was dark doom and gloom but then she changed that perspective when I loaned her some money, smirks. I think for those who don't know us well might think that about us. it takes a person digging deep and going beyond the surface to truly understand us as a person(people).
Posted by SuperCap
I spoke verbally and showed everyday my passion for this Cancer lady and, slimwitted, she still was thoroughly doubtful that i really loved her. i was myself but toned it respectfully because I'm a very respectful person anyways so it wasnt hard. It was completely beyond her and she was intelligent until she came to me. Everyone knew it. Bad up-bringing screwed it. Has anyone ever had someone who won't let you love them. For those who have you understand how endlessly hellish and frustrating as well as heart-breaking that this is. I won't lie ya know she taught me some things and made me admire some things and all of this came from God and her. She made sure I would never forget her. She was a very "crucial" human being if this means anything. Shorter point is that this Cancer made me love/really hate for the first real time and it was jarring at first because sooner or later I knew all along she wasn't going to be wrong too many more times. I hold Cancers in high regard for playing checkers with me the longest and I'm not talking about board game only. I like this "sign" stuff and I always ask a person their birthday, its just habit. But anyway this Cancer was the wildest ride yet and she knew this. I could go on forever about this with crazy stories about her but in the end I am thankful to the umpfth degree we met again ten years after our short high-school relationship. I'm wondering if it will be another 10 after the 4 we just did time together. Oh, and I am realistic not depressing. They call me I don't call them. Whoever it doesn't matter, except family. Cap=looooooooooooooooooooooooove family. But I need my own 1-800 # and start charging by the minute because its what I give'em and people rarely leave from me unhappy. Nowhere near depressing because I don't really share all my problems with anyone, I deal with it all on my own and do a great job managing it. I was born with great management like a lot of Caps when they feel something is worth their time. If you ever see a Cap really depressed it may be because they have to manage something that they really know isn't worth their time. Simply will not waste short life on wastefulness and degression, know this. Hope I wasn't too uninteresting.
Posted by Gingerscorp
That's quite funny! A Virgo telling a Cap that they are depressing. Ironic isn't it that Virgo didn't see complaining/whining to be negative. *shakes head*
I'm becoming very turned off by Virgos. I once considered them one of my favs but they are just too much. Demand demand demand. What's with the "I can do what I want and you will abide by my rules or I turn into a big poopoo head" attitude? I'm really opening my eyes when it comes to Virgos. They will bitch all day long to you while you quietly listen with a sympathtic ear but if you say one thing that can be construed as "negative" it's YOU not them that is the depressing person. Yet they are the ones that will complain about a hair on the bathroom floor til the cows come home.
I'm starting to see that Virgos take no personal responsiblity for their own actions/words. They're "perfect" and we sould be grateful that they are there to perfect our "inperfections" according to Virgo. Bluntly put I'm starting to see the glaring hypocrisy of their ways.
For the record I don't think Cappies are depressing. I think they are realistic people that like to be prepared for the "worst case senerio". No harm in that. It's just planning and being smart. At least they are deep enough to comprehend there is more to life then happy go lucky all the fucking time. 🙂

Posted by ArticleL
Damm I wish I was here for this thread nice and Super Cap doesn't post anymore it seems.
Posted by virgokingPosted by ArcherPosted by virgoking
Wow they should call this the virgo hate thread lol the only virgos i know that are real depress are the ones with virgo moons. any who im one of those who don't say anything when i see people are fucking up i just let them fuck up(i blame this on my cap moon lol). so there is always two types. word to wise the ones that tell u about ur self are the nice ones. peace=)
lol.. your cap moon saving grace for virgo sun... oh no chance for virgo mooners with cap sun—?
Lol i say that bc the caps i know are selfish and i thank god i have a cap moon it give me the ablity to not be step on. i only help people that really need help. other virgos seem to help everyone even those they should not. sum learn over time to not do this. but i was born with it. i guess a cap sun virgo moon would be less selfish than a normal caps lol. but the virgo im talking about has a virgo moon i guess he is not depress but u get depress by looking at him if that makes since.click to expand
Posted by glamourPosted by Gingerscorp
For the record I don't think Cappies are depressing. I think they are realistic people that like to be prepared for the "worst case senerio". No harm in that. It's just planning and being smart. At least they are deep enough to comprehend there is more to life then happy go lucky all the fucking time. 🙂
That's right! And in a constant state of analysis, lol. I also think we tend to pick up easily on other people's moods, which can reflect back on us. Though I have learned to not sweat the small stuff as much, I'm also very serious in my thinking. I evaluate my atmosphere probably more so then others and people's words and actions won't be as easily disregarded. My bubbly pisces can be very moody depending on how his day went, and with Virgo moon he can be a total nit picker. Of course he's just being protective, hahaha right! I guess what I'm saying is set the mood and you'll more then likely get one. Reap what you sew!click to expand

Posted by Gingerscorp
For the record I don't think Cappies are depressing. I think they are realistic people that like to be prepared for the "worst case senerio". No harm in that. It's just planning and being smart. At least they are deep enough to comprehend there is more to life then happy go lucky all the fucking time. 🙂


Posted by taurus35
i cant believe a virgo said that everything that comes out of their mouth is negative

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Im constantly being accused of being negative and depressing by my housemate (he's a Virgo)
I dont see it, i think ive got a fantastic sense of humour and im not a "down" person at all.
Im starting to think that how we see ourselves, and how others see us, are definately NOT the same thing!!
I know that us Caps get a bad rap for apparently being all doom and gloom
Do we really live happily in our own little world, totally oblivious to how we come across to others ??