Aries woman who is falling for a very handsome (sexy) Capricorn man.Would love some Advice!

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Thank You, never had anyone say that they like my energy before 😄

I know i felt so weird talking about it and the thought of asking him about going on one date with someone else was really confusing to me, telling me he enjoys my company, loves that i'm so understanding and supportive. Which i am with him because i understand that life does get in the way, and it can get stressful so i try my best to make his day less and positive as possible.

That's why i am here for any advice 🙂
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tell him everything (your thoughts and fears) and then breathe and take a step back and see what he does - at least you won't regret telling him in order to know completely where you stand with him in order to either move on or be happy with where you are

- he is very busy and can't give you what you want/need - so that is that as well and that has done it for me in the past - I can appreciate the fact that people are hard workers but there has to be a balance in life - if you spend time with me in the beginning, then sort of start to inch out of the picture always working and barely able to get together, then to me there is something wrong - you don't want to spend time with me - even though you are telling me you do but that you have all this work first - again, there has to be a balance and that person has to know how to balance or else, I guess I'm not that important enough to you so "bye"
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Posted by tcta
tell him everything (your thoughts and fears) and then breathe and take a step back and see what he does - at least you won't regret telling him in order to know completely where you stand with him in order to either move on or be happy with where you are

- he is very busy and can't give you what you want/need - so that is that as well and that has done it for me in the past - I can appreciate the fact that people are hard workers but there has to be a balance in life - if you spend time with me in the beginning, then sort of start to inch out of the picture always working and barely able to get together, then to me there is something wrong - you don't want to spend time with me - even though you are telling me you do but that you have all this work first - again, there has to be a balance and that person has to know how to balance or else, I guess I'm not that important enough to you so "bye"
Thank you so much for the advice, i really do appreciate what you have said. I will definitely think about what to say to him, before i do anything. I wanted to wait just a day to really think about how i feel so he could understand where i'm coming from. Again thank you
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I just realize apart of the first post didn't show all of what i was trying to say.

"This is a LDR he lives in Edmonton and I'm in Vancouver and he had mention that he has never done the online relationship before. But he was thinking about it for awhile! so i still have hope 🙂"

also he did say he thinks of me more than a friend.

this should be under "Please I would love some advice on this situation." I don't know why it keeps cutting it out :/
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So easy for fire signs to fall for Caps... they fall for us right back fairly quickly and when they start to get feelings they shut down and become distant. They can't figure out how they fell for you so fast so it makes them question why because they don't usually fall so quickly. This ends up driving them nuts so they start to put us through a series of "tests" to figure it all out