Aries woman who is falling for a very handsome (sexy) Capricorn man.Would love some Advice!

I wrote everything on my tumblr. It is very looong. so yeah... There are a lot of events that are not mention that made me and the capricorn man become really close. But i would be writing a novel lol xD

http://myheartshacked.tumblr.com/post/165209003410/capi-man-and-aries-woman

Please I would love some advice on this situation

Hmm... Same thing happened to me long ago. I was frequently ghosted for about 4 months and after a while, my pride got in the way. Needless to say, i haven't heard from him ever since.

I don't know why it's so hard for us arians to get a hold long term on Cap guys.

Hope you can figure this out with your guy.

Keep us updated.

I have never had someone come into my life and show so much respect and care towards me, and opened up my eyes to love someone again, and that I could be happy. He makes me very happy and lucky to even have him as a friend in my life that cares about me. I never open up to just anyone i am very caution when it comes to online friendships and who i talk too. With him i could trust him and he wouldn't judge me, but at the same time i was very nervous and kept a wall up at times. Especially when we would talk on teamspeak with our voices and not through text.

I will keep you Updated for sure, and thank you 🙂

"On the 6th i had told him that i someone had asked me on a date. So, being me after this i did message him asking if he was okay if i were to start seeing other people. He told me “ Yeah,sure go ahead. My life is too complicated right now.” But then i told him i wasn’t interested in anyone else but him and he knew how i felt about him."

This was a major misstep here. At the very least he is looking at you with new eyes and stepping back a bit (hence the silence on his end). At the very worst he has now downgraded you and will not pursue you for a relationship if that was his endgame.

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"On the 6th i had told him that i someone had asked me on a date. So, being me after this i did message him asking if he was okay if i were to start seeing other people. He told me “ Yeah,sure go ahead. My life is too complicated right now.” But then i told him i wasn’t interested in anyone else but him and he knew how i felt about him."

This was a major misstep here. At the very least he is looking at you with new eyes and stepping back a bit (hence the silence on his end). At the very worst he has now downgraded you and will not pursue you for a relationship if that was his endgame.

I always ask for advice from him, and i wanted to asked how he would feel about it. I even told him i wasn't interested in anyone but him so i made it clear (i hoped did) that my feelings towards him will never changed. This is why i'm so confused and frustrated with myself.

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"On the 6th i had told him that i someone had asked me on a date. So, being me after this i did message him asking if he was okay if i were to start seeing other people. He told me “ Yeah,sure go ahead. My life is too complicated right now.” But then i told him i wasn’t interested in anyone else but him and he knew how i felt about him."

This was a major misstep here. At the very least he is looking at you with new eyes and stepping back a bit (hence the silence on his end). At the very worst he has now downgraded you and will not pursue you for a relationship if that was his endgame.

I always ask for advice from him, and i wanted to asked how he would feel about it. I even told him i wasn't interested in anyone but him so i made it clear (i hoped did) that my feelings towards him will never changed. This is why i'm so confused and frustrated with myself.

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If that was true and you had no intention of going on the date why bring it up tho??

Yes, I know but i also told him it was a group date with my brother and his wife. The guy is a friend of his from work so i have talked to him when i do see him over at our house.This "date" was not a one on one. We went bowling, and dinner. At dinner he was flirting with the waitress, even had the nerve to asked for her number. I knew of him and his reputation of being very flirty with other women. But i went anyways, because i did, my brother was hounding me about it.

It kills me to know that could be a possibility, that he might not think of me anything more.

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I have never had someone come into my life and show so much respect and care towards me, and opened up my eyes to love someone again, and that I could be happy. He makes me very happy and lucky to even have him as a friend in my life that cares about me. I never open up to just anyone i am very caution when it comes to online friendships and who i talk too. With him i could trust him and he wouldn't judge me, but at the same time i was very nervous and kept a wall up at times. Especially when we would talk on teamspeak with our voices and not through text.

I will keep you Updated for sure, and thank you 🙂

What are your placements?

Me being an Aries also dating a Cap/Aquarius man all I can say is back off a little. I think you might be smothering him and just expecting too much too soon.

In dealing with my Cap, I'm just letting him lead right now. You should not be the one saying "good morning" every day. My Cap tells me good morning every day and when he doesn't I don't freak out I don't even text him. I give him space and the next day he's back to normal. I might initiate once or twice during the week and it's always something random, or funny nothing serious asking "why this or that".

Just be patient. And when you guys get together face to face just talk about what you want out of life and see if he is on the same accord.

Caps work hard but they also rest a lot. You can't blame everything on work.

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Me being an Aries also dating a Cap/Aquarius man all I can say is back off a little. I think you might be smothering him and just expecting too much too soon.

In dealing with my Cap, I'm just letting him lead right now. You should not be the one saying "good morning" every day. My Cap tells me good morning every day and when he doesn't I don't freak out I don't even text him. I give him space and the next day he's back to normal. I might initiate once or twice during the week and it's always something random, or funny nothing serious asking "why this or that".

Just be patient. And when you guys get together face to face just talk about what you want out of life and see if he is on the same accord.

Caps work hard but they also rest a lot. You can't blame everything on work.

Thanks for the advice, I will step back, i'm not very good with patience i am gonna work on myself and focus on other things. I haven't "talked" to him since Sept 8/9 so im going to do what you suggest to text him once/twice a week i will do that and see what happens. Again thank you for the advice 🙂

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I have never had someone come into my life and show so much respect and care towards me, and opened up my eyes to love someone again, and that I could be happy. He makes me very happy and lucky to even have him as a friend in my life that cares about me. I never open up to just anyone i am very caution when it comes to online friendships and who i talk too. With him i could trust him and he wouldn't judge me, but at the same time i was very nervous and kept a wall up at times. Especially when we would talk on teamspeak with our voices and not through text.

I will keep you Updated for sure, and thank you 🙂

What are your placements?

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I'm not really sure about placements. I'm new to all this xD

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Posted by FireChild
Me being an Aries also dating a Cap/Aquarius man all I can say is back off a little. I think you might be smothering him and just expecting too much too soon.

In dealing with my Cap, I'm just letting him lead right now. You should not be the one saying "good morning" every day. My Cap tells me good morning every day and when he doesn't I don't freak out I don't even text him. I give him space and the next day he's back to normal. I might initiate once or twice during the week and it's always something random, or funny nothing serious asking "why this or that".

Just be patient. And when you guys get together face to face just talk about what you want out of life and see if he is on the same accord.

Caps work hard but they also rest a lot. You can't blame everything on work.

Thanks for the advice, I will step back, i'm not very good with patience i am gonna work on myself and focus on other things. I haven't "talked" to him since Sept 8/9 so im going to do what you suggest to text him once/twice a week i will do that and see what happens. Again thank you for the advice 🙂

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No problem is this a LDR

Yes, we are both in Canada but He is in Edmonton and Im in Vancouver so the time difference is 1 hour. Which isnt a big deal. But we are less than a 1000 miles away. We met in a Gaming Community on Steam.

Update

My Capricorn, talked to me again last night (Sept 13). We sorta talked, which was really nice 🙂

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Update

My Capricorn, talked to me again last night (Sept 13). We sorta talked, which was really nice 🙂

Did you guys sort your worries out?

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Update

My Capricorn, talked to me again last night (Sept 13). We sorta talked, which was really nice 🙂

Did you guys sort your worries out?

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I'm not really 100% sure at this point :/ I asked him if he still wanted to do our Question Game - we started with this when we first talked and he had promise a month ago another but we didn't end up doing it, so i thought i would asked if he was still interested in doing the question game with me since he did promise and he usually keeps his promises.No reply yet.

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Update

My Capricorn, talked to me again last night (Sept 13). We sorta talked, which was really nice 🙂

Did you guys sort your worries out?

I'm not really 100% sure at this point :/ I asked him if he still wanted to do our Question Game - we started with this when we first talked and he had promise a month ago another but we didn't end up doing it, so i thought i would asked if he was still interested in doing the question game with me since he did promise and he usually keeps his promises.No reply yet.

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I hope you find your way with your guy. Right now he sounds a little distant.

It could work with a lot of work. If you are thinking short-term happiness than alright, but in the long run this relationship is based on a difficult (but not impossible 🙂 elemental compatibility... Simply Fire and Earth do not go the best together. You would find more harmony, success and ease with a Leo, Sagittarius, Aquarius, or Gemini man. Never your same Sun sign nor your opposite sign, although the latter could be a possible 4th alternative. So, you basically have 4 of 12 signs (1/3, not bad odds!) of the zodiac to choose from and stay away from the rest. THIS IS ONLY MY OPINION. xoxojunemoonchild

Thank You, i really appreciate all the reply's and advice really helps

This is a very difficult combination of signs when it comes to sexual compatibility. Rulers of Aries and Capricorn are Mars and Saturn. These planets are considered archetypal or karmic enemies. When it comes to sexuality, it is mostly signified by Mars and its contact with Saturn may result in all sorts of physical and objective obstacles on the way to a healthy sex life. Saturn puts too much pressure on Mars and takes a lot of its energy. Their relationship will result in lack of sexual desire, the mutual feeling of incompetence or even impotence of one or both included parties.

http://www.astrology-zodiac-signs.com/compatibility/aries-capricorn/

http://www.vedshastra.com

A very handsome and sexy capricorn?

Pics.

PICS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

He did send me a new one of him this year, but it was on Snapchat 😢 so i couldn't save it lol sorry. But trust me he is very handsome and veryyy sexy he has a deep voice and ahh it just amazing 😄