
Hooking up at first meeting? Why should he date you?


Posted by littleloveI say contact him, he gave you his number right? Why would he exchange numbers with you if he didn't want to hear from you again? Let us know how it goes!Posted by busyeyes88I have that in mind.
Blimey! If you Met at a party and already booked up, don't you think he would have pursued you further if he was interested?
But why should it always be the guy who initiates contact?
Maybe he is afraid to be rejected. Maybe he is waiting for me to text him.
I don't know. I think it's worth a try at least.click to expand
Posted by busyeyes88We libe in the 21st century! This isn't the 50's..... They've hooked up already, she's already shown she's not a traditional woman....Posted by cancerroseOnly desperate women chase or pursue!!? Oh well!! Good luck OP.Posted by littleloveI say contact him, he gave you his number right? Why would he exchange numbers with you if he didn't want to hear from you again? Let us know how it goes!Posted by busyeyes88I have that in mind.
Blimey! If you Met at a party and already booked up, don't you think he would have pursued you further if he was interested?
But why should it always be the guy who initiates contact?
Maybe he is afraid to be rejected. Maybe he is waiting for me to text him.
I don't know. I think it's worth a try at least.click to expand

Posted by littleloveDid you guys sexually hook up or just make out? I would say that if you guys made out, invite him for lunch. If sex was involved, reach out to him and wait to see how he responds to the initial contact before inviting him out. If he doesn't respond, then you have your answer...and give it some time. Caps are known for getting involved in their work and honestly, since you guys aren't in a relationship, he's not likely to make you a priority until you are. So responses from him MIGHT come later than usual. Cap men are cool, even when they do like someone, so...I mean, it's just something you'll have to measure over time UNLESS he just doesn't respond after a day or two or he responds right away. Sometimes they can play games, which in that case, he's not serious about getting to know you. A Cap energy man that is serious about really getting to know you, will waste NO time and there will be romance involved in his pursuit. It won't necessarily look like a friendship only. I don't know a Cap sun, moon, or venus man who has ever pursued a woman by treating her ONLY like a friend. It doesn't mean that it won't happen...I've just never seen it.
I am interested in a capricorn man, and would like to get to know him better, and ask him out for lunch. We've only met once, at a party (and we hooked up).
He has venus in capricorn, mars in saggitarius, and most probably moon in scorpio.
I have sun in scorpio, moon in virgo, asc in virgo, venus in capricorn, mars in cancer.
How do you approach capricorn men? Is it a bad idea, asking him out for lunch?
Should I play hard to get with a guy like this, or should I be pretty straight forward?

Posted by cancerroseCaps like traditional.Posted by busyeyes88We libe in the 21st century! This isn't the 50's..... They've hooked up already, she's already shown she's not a traditional woman....Posted by cancerroseOnly desperate women chase or pursue!!? Oh well!! Good luck OP.Posted by littleloveI say contact him, he gave you his number right? Why would he exchange numbers with you if he didn't want to hear from you again? Let us know how it goes!Posted by busyeyes88I have that in mind.
Blimey! If you Met at a party and already booked up, don't you think he would have pursued you further if he was interested?
But why should it always be the guy who initiates contact?
Maybe he is afraid to be rejected. Maybe he is waiting for me to text him.
I don't know. I think it's worth a try at least.click to expand
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