Cap Ex Man Whore!!!

Well I found out the cap i was dating (the one who claimed to be so in love with me, wanted to marry me, etc.) is a whore. i found a whole list of women he planned to "Smash" I dumped him and he denied it nut its ok, ill get over it.

A whole list? How'd you find out?

Posted by yaya08
i am in love with him not going to deny it. its hard for me to not be with him or to stop talking to him i just have some issues but he's sweet for the most part. and I'm going to see him for the first time in 2 years next month. he claims he hasn't been with anyone else and i kind of believe him. maybe because i want to or maybe because i haven't caught him red handed in a lie and i hope i never do. He says i over analyze everything he says. he stayed with me after i had a kid on him so that must mean something. to me that means a lot. but friends tell me he's just using me for sex and he sleeps with other people.but they dont know him.

So this was a long distance relationship and you hadn't seen each other in two years.

So, how did you find the list? Are you sure it is a current list and not an old one? Are you sure it's his list and not a friend's? Are you sure it is an "I-want-to-bang" list?

Is it possible that this list was created before you got back together.

And, is it possible that your were snooping, hoping to catch him red handed?

I'm sorry, I'm not trying to be mean, it's just that he may not have been ready to commit so soon. And, I'm just trying to suggest some other possibilities other than what you assumed (and it likely could be true). Just wanted to throw out some questions for you to consider before you jump the gun and have your mind made up before he was even questioned about it.

That said though, I will add that if your gut is telling you something, then you should listen to it.

Love the last statement, @truecap!

its okay. my gut has been telling me he's no good for a long time. I'm trying to get over it, it will take time. i think it has nothing to do with his sign and everything to do with who he is as a person. he told me that it was a game he played with his friends then a couple days later he wrote it cuz i left him so he's a liar. its alright ill get over it.

i know i shouldn't have gone through his stuff but if i didn't id still be holding on to a piece of crap.