Cap Got Me...Almost

Ok, Im a Taurus female, for those who dont know me. I met this Cap guy, with a Taurus rising and a Pisces moon. He is wonderful, funny, and very accomodating. He recently got married and unmarried very quickly and unbeknown to me I was his "reintroduction" into the single world. I was really upset with him when I learned that he was married because I didnt know about him being subsequently unmarried. Anyway, Im really sensitive to the serious nature of marriage and although he is a great guy and I would like to spend more time with him (as a friend just hanging out) I dont want to think that he may be hurting as a result of the recent breakup of his marriage and I almost want to push him to give it another try. Only knowing myself as deeply as I do, I know that I would be really hurt if I was him and it wouldnt be so easy for me to let someone whom I loved so deeply to marry walk away and Im wondering if he could or is he really just using me as a distraction? How do you think he would feel if I did kind of push him to try to try again with his ex?

lol I dont want to say Im this ultra wonderful woman, but I think the funlovingness of the time we spend mixed with its noncommittal tone of friendship seems to make it sweeter than making it work with his ex even if he does love her. Its like 24/7 party whereas his marriage was real work and effort, so if I do just chill with him as a friend that could be destructive in the long run if he's trying to go with the party and not with business.

How did you find out his rising?

I asked him what time he was born and put it in a site for a chart.