Cap Woman Hating on Scorp Women!!

Im in North Catolina for work right now; been here the last five days leaving today. During my conference, I met a few women who I clicked with right away. I am so thankful I met them because they have helped this trip to be great! Last night, we were all at dinner. One of the women and I click a little more than me and the others. We seem to think a lot alike, have these passionate convos about race, religion, politics, etc. Well last night one of the girls asked me when my bday is. When they figured out I was a Scorp, the woman who I have clicked with more says, I can't believe it. She shares that she's a cap and she typically cannot stand Scorp women bc they are self absorbed and fake. I told her not to hate on us Scorp women!! Ah ha ha.

There is no real point to this. Lol. I just found it interesting that she had developed this preconceived notion about scorpio women, not knowing I am one. Lmao.

Lol. What are some of the similarities that you have noticed within Scorps?

She was extreme saying that she cannot stand Scorp women and little did she know, she had been kicking it for the last 5 days with one! Lol.

I agree about them trying to control. There's a Scorpio at my job, who is about three years younger than me btw, and they needed help in the department she's in so a few of us in our department went over and helped. Why was she like "this is what I'm going to need you all to do." She came over and gave orders to us like she was our boss, and of course that didn't sit too well with me. I was cool but a little irritated inside because I felt she was out of her lane, and I've always noticed a little tension between us. It's like we like and respect eachother, but there are boundaries there.

My Scorpio friend is also controlling, which is why I hardly speak with her. She's a nice person, and thank goodness I'm easy-going, but she really be pushing it at times.

QS, I wouldn't call Scorpios superficial, as in shallow, but I've noticed that Scorpios front A LOT. For example, when the Scorpio at my job would be around me she would pretend, in a way, to be this spiritual godly person. Now granted, she probably was, but one day she heard me listening to a rap song and she was like "your listening to that, I thought you were unorthodox." It was like since that day, that front faded, and again, this example is what I mean when I say people are curious about us Cappies, who we are, what we represent etc.. The Scorpio male I liked put on the same front, pretending to be someone that he thought I wanted or would be attracted to. That's why I feel I can never really trust a Scorpio male.

"but I'm smart enough to know when someone is trying to use me for their benefit and that's what I don't like about them."

Yeah, it definitely feels like your being used to benefit them in some way, especially with the men imo. It's a feeling that as soon as they've gotten what they wanted or needed from you are dismissed, which is why it feels like such a power struggle with Cap/Scorps because we are holding on to ours. That's why I've called Scorpios leeches before. Its like they suck whatever it is you have that they want right out of you. I guess I'm talking about the unevolved Scorpios here.

You know what, now that I think about it, y'all are right! I have a Scorp female friend, born in November. I have never really allowed myself to get too close to her because she is supportive when it's only convenient for her. Also her support is on a very shallow level. I remember I was in the middle of a very difficult situation, I was really upset. I decided to confide in her about the situation, I took a pause and before I could finish the story she interupts and starts talking about herself!! I was so upset with her and had to tell her about herself. she had done this before and that was the last straw. We are still cool but I will never make that mistake again.

It pissed me off so much because I had always been there for her like I am with all my friends. I tske a sincere and ginuine interest in my friends lives. I really don't try to control them. In fact, I can't stand when my friends try to act like my man and control me!

I think alot of Scorps tend to have a very mysterious and secretive nature about themselves which may rub an observant person the wrong way.

Oh and yes, we all are paranoid! Lol. I tend to get paranoid from time to time. When I do, I have to catch myself.

See, I actually wish I could be more elusive. Lol. I'm the kind of person who wears her heart on her sleeve. When it comes to friendship, I have never had a hiddeem agenda expect to be friends. Lol. However, this is not the case with men. Lmbo. I have definitely had hidden agendas with men before.

Lol @ Elle!