Cap woman possessive?

Any opinions from ladies here?

Is it possession or cap woman just territorial?

I'm possessive in a romantic relationships when unsure of other person's feelings/somehow feeling threatened - it's a low functioning Cap. If everything is allright, either territorial or not even that.

Posted by Liriell
I'm possessive in a romantic relationships when unsure of other person's feelings/somehow feeling threatened - it's a low functioning Cap. If everything is allright, either territorial or not even that.

She says, all male the same, and make false accusations on the daily basis. I am very loyal and committed so not at all appreciate such behaviour and comments. I am very patient though and rather consider as I am important for her. I read caps are territorial and controlling.

Ah, also she makes marks on me every time we having sex. I kinda like that though 🙂

Posted by Sheever

Posted by Liriell
I'm possessive in a romantic relationships when unsure of other person's feelings/somehow feeling threatened - it's a low functioning Cap. If everything is allright, either territorial or not even that.

She says, all male the same, and make false accusations on the daily basis. I am very loyal and committed so not at all appreciate such behaviour and comments. I am very patient though and rather consider as I am important for her. I read caps are territorial and controlling.

Ah, also she makes marks on me every time we having sex. I kinda like that though 🙂

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Yeah, marking is a thing 😉 Good luck with your Cap

Posted by RooSagicorn
Well my bf is a Cap. He is territorial and well he tries not to be controlling because I don’t put up with that.. anyway, in the beginning of the relationship he was insecure & made comments, and it came to the point of accusations. We split for 3 months, got back together & he’s not insecure anymore ( problems were solved) and doesn’t make comments anymore either.

Maybe you should find out why she’s insecure?

I think it comes from her insecurity, also jealousy of my previous partner. Very annoying. Yep, same story as yours how it began. These stuffs doesn't make any sense to me. It's not enough reason for someone that I am with her and not with someone else? It's really just so simple. Why all these dramas? 🙂

To be perfectly honest, I think her previous partners couldn't handle a strong woman. (stands up, even stubborn) Neither tried to understand her. She is improving though. I have proven enough, even so I don't have intention to prove anything to anyone but myself. So I made lots of exceptions on her case as I realised she need to see a good example how things could be like. I have good sarcastic humour so I treat her with that, so things not going to offensive side but deliver the message always. She is very intelligent and she understands things from half sentence instantly. That's why I am so surprised when I have to repeat myself constantly, just hate wasting time and energy on anything makes no sense at all🙂

Thanks for replies

Don't look at the sun as the tell it all sign - always consider other placements as well! Look up her moon and venus and how they aspect

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Don't look at the sun as the tell it all sign - always consider other placements as well! Look up her moon and venus and how they aspect

There’s much truth in this. My default is to be jealous and possessive in almost everything. Something I attribute to my moon. Thankfully, my other placements know better and age/life/experience has taught me how unattractive and unhealthy that is.

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Posted by AquaNextDoor
Don't look at the sun as the tell it all sign - always consider other placements as well! Look up her moon and venus and how they aspect

There’s much truth in this. My default is to be jealous and possessive in almost everything. Something I attribute to my moon. Thankfully, my other placements know better and age/life/experience has taught me how unattractive and unhealthy that is.

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Thanks, also for your honesty 🙂

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Don't look at the sun as the tell it all sign - always consider other placements as well! Look up her moon and venus and how they aspect

Moon scorpio, venus sagittarius

The ones I know are more protective, not possessive or jealous. Just like the male Caps. I love that about them.

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Posted by hippiecrite

Posted by AquaNextDoor
Don't look at the sun as the tell it all sign - always consider other placements as well! Look up her moon and venus and how they aspect

There’s much truth in this. My default is to be jealous and possessive in almost everything. Something I attribute to my moon. Thankfully, my other placements know better and age/life/experience has taught me how unattractive and unhealthy that is.

Thanks, also for your honesty 🙂

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We share the same moon. 🙂

It’s definitely one you have to grow into. With every pro to a Scorpio moon also comes a pretty big con... light and dark, exacerbated by it being a fixed sign. For example, we’re highly intuitive, but the shadow side of that is paranoia and once that seed is planted, it’s the devil to get rid of.

Gotta learn to rein that stuff it. Learn to evolve and not be steered by the negatives. It doesn’t happen over night and it’s an ongoing battle. I’m sure her moon finds itself at odds with her Sag Venus as well. Sounds like a confusing pair, all being filtered through her Cap sun.

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Posted by AquaNextDoor
Don't look at the sun as the tell it all sign - always consider other placements as well! Look up her moon and venus and how they aspect

There’s much truth in this. My default is to be jealous and possessive in almost everything. Something I attribute to my moon. Thankfully, my other placements know better and age/life/experience has taught me how unattractive and unhealthy that is.

Thanks, also for your honesty 🙂

We share the same moon. 🙂

It’s definitely one you have to grow into. With every pro to a Scorpio moon also comes a pretty big con... light and dark, exacerbated by it being a fixed sign. For example, we’re highly intuitive, but the shadow side of that is paranoia and once that seed is planted, it’s the devil to get rid of.

Gotta learn to rein that stuff it. Learn to evolve and not be steered by the negatives. It doesn’t happen over night and it’s an ongoing battle. I’m sure her moon finds itself at odds with her Sag Venus as well. Sounds like a confusing pair, all being filtered through her Cap sun.

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Great comment thanks. Indeed, very confusing sometimes... Even though I am pretty good in sensing, monitoring also very caring.

Posted by intergalacticplanetary
What's her rising?

Where can I find that, you mean Ascendant maybe? Pisces

I think CAPS just love hard.

Posted by Cataleya
I think CAPS just love hard.

Just so aries 🙂))

Posted by intergalacticplanetary
She's an onion. Yes to all of the above,and there's nothing you can do about it..save doing what your doing, consistency yada yada..It changes as we get older..when we realise our value.

My advice is to use humour..it's the most effective way to disarm us. Target it towards how ridiculous her fears are..rather then at her..the later won't be appreciated..😂

What's your placements?

I have good amount of sarcastic humour and she get it immediately and break out laughing lately. Interestingly when she speak about me to her mom she always speaks of me highly so it's clearly just her protective nature as far as I understand now over time. Caps definitely need patience and great amount of understanding and loads of attention to figure them out. Actually it makes them extremely exciting creatures even its can be annoying in the same time. Never boring! We both believe are soulmates, have a connection is out of this world and sense each other smallest bits. She is the strongest woman I ever known, and have high respect towards her, in the same time the most sensitive too. I just Adore it. We are mirrors of each other.

I am aries sun, moon, venus, and Mars with gemini Ascendant

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Posted by intergalacticplanetary
She's an onion. Yes to all of the above,and there's nothing you can do about it..save doing what your doing, consistency yada yada..It changes as we get older..when we realise our value.

My advice is to use humour..it's the most effective way to disarm us. Target it towards how ridiculous her fears are..rather then at her..the later won't be appreciated..😂

What's your placements?

I have good amount of sarcastic humour and she get it immediately and break out laughing lately. Interestingly when she speak about me to her mom she always speaks of me highly so it's clearly just her protective nature as far as I understand now over time. Caps definitely need patience and great amount of understanding and loads of attention to figure them out. Actually it makes them extremely exciting creatures even its can be annoying in the same time. Never boring! We both believe are soulmates, have a connection is out of this world and sense each other smallest bits.

I am aries sun, moon, venus, and Mars with gemini Ascendant

It sounds like your on the right track, clearly you enjoy a good mystery..lol yep definitely protective if we value you. Interesting your an Aries..she's must have fire bits in her chart..I have the same sun moon and Venus but my rising is in Aqua..

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She is scorpio moon, sagittarius venus and pisces Ascendant.

Yes very interesting, I read that everywhere aries and caps not good match, but she is the woman from my dreams and she says also she was waiting for me in her entire life. She was cautious by reading aries are not faithful that could been also make her controlling however I never cheat my partner, I rather break up and loyal to fault. Would give both my kidney for her any day 🙂

Thanks for all comments

territorial

As a Cap female I can tell you I've struggled with jealousy throughout my life. I've been in relationships where I felt so uneasy that my last resort was ugly displays of jealousy but I've also been in relationships where the man made me feel so solid about us that I didn't have a care in the world about jealousy, territory, etc. Women could hit on him in front of me and it would be laughable.

My best and longest relationship very early on, I stood my ground after the guy I was seeing made an inappropriate comment about a girl to me. Something about this guy, but he got where I was coming from and he didn't give me any reasons to be jealous until 9 or so years down the road.

Other men I've dated had been shoddy, faulty liars at best. My jealousy came out big with these ones.

I would say a lot is dependent on you. As always, Caps are slow to trust and maybe even slow to "win over." If you want to prove you are worth something to this girl, see it through with her (unless it just keeps getting horrible, then she has her own issues to work out) but she should ideally be trusting you little by little (SLOW CLIMB) until you guys are solid. If you reach that solid spot with her, your Cappy won't ever falter.... You will have a loyal lover for life or until you want to separate. I would say the slow climb is worth it...

As I get older, I'm really working on nixing this trait from myself.. I hate it.. It's been very difficult!

Posted by hazeofpixiedust
As I get older, I'm really working on nixing this trait from myself.. I hate it.. It's been very difficult!

Interesting.

I kinda get used to it by now, I took more seriously before. now is a sort of repeating pattern.

Problem with cap woman, the more confident and trust the relationship the less they keep and respect boundaries. Add the scorpio moon possession to it, and short fuse is something really challenging for any sign no matter how compatible.