Cap woman - Virgo man what is keeping us together?

Hi there and can anyone shed any light on this for me—

I currently have a Virgo man who drives me up the wall (ultra tidy)and I can't get rid of him because there is something that keeps pulling us together. Have now got to the sit down stage and saying "what is it that I do which keeps you comming back and I will stop it" and he just smiles??

We are both very strong and assertive, confident people and its annoying me that everytime that I make a decision to leave him and start again, that I am drawn back in.

What is it about us Cap women that gets us hooked up with these virgo guys—

HELP PLEASE!!!

you know how cappy able to read all the moves and games..... well, put it this way, a virgo knows how to play and read all your moves... they know how to get you to talk, how to get u to tick... its like once your in... they basically wins... because what they give you amazes you... while they think its funny, you think wtf... but what can i say, virgo reads people as well as you do, and b/c of that they can lie to you and you still dunno you are being lie too.