TaurusMom41
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Cappy Friend but love interest
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homewreckers??
i saw this on youtube on James Spader who is married to a Taurus younger woman, and the commentors were saying that she's a homewrecker and she stole Spader from other women or something lke that.lol
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=
Hey, I have a question, been seeing a Taurus woman and had three dates, another one lined up. It’s been going well, she talks a lot. Just going to nice restaurants and bars, she works nights in a bar, so it’s usually before she goes to work. We went out l
A few that I know of I'm starting to see a pattern, they tend to befriend shitty people that sabotage their skills, hurt them emotionally and they do bitch about it to me but.. cant seem to stand up for themselves and continue to follow this horrible 'fri
I'm having a crush on a taurus woman. She also seems to have a crush on me (if you don't believe me, just take it for granted). I've spent a lot of time communicating with her and try to prove to her I'm a competent and caring and tough person etc,... And
hi all
this is the first time I post here, hope someone can give me some advice especially Vigro man or anyone who know Vigro man.
We are both married and have children of our own.
I know this Vigro guy a few years ago and recently related to some i
First I hope everyone had a great holiday and is looking forward to the New Year..
So I have been dating my Taurus woman for several months now and she is for the most part a dream come true. So feminine--beautiful--dresses to impress--smells so good a
Hi, I'm a Pisces man and I've been dating this really sweet Taurus girl for almost 6 months now. We went through an argument phase until about a month ago when we actually broke up because she felt suffocated by the daily fights. But an hour after, she ca
I'm getting married to a cancerian where he comes from a close-knit family. I come from an estranged family, and find it hard to have a mother daughter relationship despite all of my efforts in the past. I have now learned to live on my own and not emotio
Since my previous question was too long and unclear, here's a short version that is more straight to the point.
I'm a Taurus woman - 24 , The guy I'm interested in is a Virgo, also 24.
Had the best time together first two dates. Kissed passionately,
I have been friends with a Capricorn man for the past 10 years. A little background.... I'm a Taurus female, and I met him through a project (he's a photographer, amongst many other things). He was very driven, and serious, and I was super intimidated for the most part until halfway through the photoshoot, when he let his guard down and showed his human side. Anyway, I was married at that time, and he and I only networked professionally for a little while. We became friends through social media, and would check in on each other every so often. There was always a very open and kind friendship between us and he would always say how much he missed me, and wished we could hang out. ( I live an hour away) After I got divorced, I ended up in another relationship almost immediately, but my cappy friend and I maintained contact.
At one point, I ended up facing a very scary situation with my health and was to have a difficult surgery, and I let him know about it. He right away was concerned, and asked if I needed anything or anyone, as he wanted to be there for me at my surgery. I never told him when I had it, because I didn't want him to see me that way. He was the only person besides my Grandparents who were there for me. Through the passing years he would write to me or I would write to him to check on each other. Once he even wrote "I've missed you. I from time to time wonder where you are and what you're up to." After not hearing from me for a year and a half. That message broke my heart.
Fast forward to last December... I got out of my relationship (of 6 years) and wanted to reconnect with my Cappy friend. We started making plans to hang out.We finally set a quick meet up at a coffee shop last month. We saw each other and you could feel the happiness and relief that we could finally see each other after all those years. (It was 7 years, the last time I saw him) He just opened right up and told me everything that had been going on in his life, from his health to his family and his future plans. He even said he couldn't believe how much he was telling me, because he hadn't vocalized many of the things he had been talking about. All felt right in the world, and I was completely at ease in his company, as was he. We have met up 2 more times since (the last one was his idea) but the meetups are usually between 45 minutes to an hour, and he usually meets with me before he picks up his kids from school.
I think I was really starting to like him more than a friend, because of the feelings I get when I'm around him. After we hung out, this last time (Wednesday) he was in a lot of pain because of work injuries, I was really wanting to make him feel better (I'm a natural nurturer) but I kept control of myself and just sat with him. I later messaged him that I feel him, when I'm around him (I'm a damn empath too) and I had urges to just massage his shoulders to make him feel better, but my wording was a bit on the questionable side. He read the message and took a little while to respond, but he replied by saying that he had to really think about how to respond because he didn't want to be presumptuous and didn't know if he was off track.
I freaked out and didn't know how to respond and now I feel like an ass. I love our friendship and how I feel when I'm around him and I don't want to lose him but now he isn't responding to me or opening my messages. Should I worry?
ON a side note, I live in a dangerous small town, and he knows how bad I want to move, he offered to help me fix up my house so I could sell it, and that meant a lot to me. How do I decipher this man? Is he feeling something or is this his way of being a friend.... I'm dying because I don't want to bother him too much.