Cappy guy and his career ? especially want to hear

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by peachcow_ on Thursday, May 26, 2005 and has 12 replies.

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@peachcow_
21 Years

I have read one of Cap traits that for them career is number one priority over anything ? it holds true with my Mr. Cap. Is that true for you?

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@peachcow_
21 Years

Good prospects won?t come by that often, thoug. For me I like career-minded guys. I never date those who don?t have a solid career?so it works for me. But do they care when a quality prospect is in front of their eyes?

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@OLD JAKE
21 Years1,000+ Posts

No we can't, we are never happy, we work, we get something, after a very short time we are board with it and we want something else. It doesn't matter if its a house a auto a woman its only something we want until we get it.

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@gemgem
21 YearsGemini

Some can as long as they get what they need out of life. Some can't because they aren't greatful for what's right in front of them. They're always worried about the other side of the street. My friend is doing that now...once she gets her new job she'll probably end up getting bored and want to do something else. It's a vicious cycle. However, when it comes to love...I found that once they find the ONE they become happier. Goats need companions more than they let on, but they're quite confusing in the process.

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@peachcow_
21 Years

They *are* pretty darn confusing! I am not used to pursing a guy; normally guys pursue me...talking about pushing my ego down😉 My cap says he is careful because of the last relationship?which means he is extra careful?! Anyway, as he suggested I am going to see three different guys this weekend?should I let him know about it? If so, maybe he?d think that he may loose me and become bit more attentive?

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@AcousticGod
21 YearsCapricorn

Maybe. I'm a Cap guy too. We can get possessive, but we are also experts at putting on a strong face, so if you try gloating you may find his indifference grows.

Caps are always going to be careful regardless of the last relationship we were in. We want THE ONE. Your best course is to work on gaining his trust. Not only does he want to be able to trust you emotionally, but also your capabilities as an adult. We don't like flaky people.

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@peachcow_
21 Years

Thanks a lot AcousucGod.
I probably won?t tell him?I again instinctively knew that it won?t help (is it the reason why they say Taurus woman and Capricorn man are made for each other?!). Well, it is good to know that he is not seeing me for just a short time thing ? since I am also looking for *the one* ? just sometimes difficult because I want to see him so bad and he is so darn busy with his work. He says sometimes he looks for clients and finds nobody and sometimes like now everybody wants his at the same time. So it just happened to be right now just when we started to date😢 I haven?t shown any sign of my desire or need yet since I think that is the last thing he wants to see after a super busy day trying to keep his clients happy. I do hope that things will move forward bit more soon otherwise I may explore telling him all of my feelings?.well maybe it is a good thing, I don?t know.

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@OLD JAKE
21 Years1,000+ Posts

WHOOOOOOO AcousucGOD you must remember every step she takes ever move she makes she belongs to me, OHOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO can't you see she belongs to me. or something like that.

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@yaline
21 YearsCapricorn

Peachcow, I agree with AcousticGod here. Gaining his trust is a good option. I am not sure why you should not tell him meeting these guys you mentioned since he suggested it. There is nothing to hide, is there? But, why do you actually want to date them?

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@peachcow_
21 Years

I see your point. Do I date them to make him jealous or to meet guys for a prospect? Or just to have fun? How do I gain his trust? What makes a cap guy to trust someone? Being accountable? Keep my words?