Cappys Getting Over Their Past

Cappys how did you get over a hurtful past relationship? Are you really over it? Do you have or had commitment issues?

Posted by DeadInside

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I'm here for ya

all the cappys i know remain in contact with past flames...even if there is someone new in the picture. i dont think they ever let go completely. my ex from 5 years still contacts me.

Was never really over stuff

Takes me a year at least to properly move on from stupid crushes in school (I only had one relationship and I still haven't moved on from my Pisces ex yet)

When I'm over it - I'm over it... And nothing can bring me back to that person. I usually notice it happen on it's own, you know I suddenly don't think every day about that person anymore and then I realize I feel nothing when I think about them. Or feel nothing when I see them with other people. That's how I know I'm over them. I probably won't message them either just because I don't really feel like doing it. For example my ex Sagitarius just texted me recently something completely random even without saying hi or anything, he's engaged and I don't really care about him (he does this from time to time) so I just ignored it... I even stopped following him on instagram because I was like what's the point : D But when I really have feelings for someone it can take me at least a year to really get over that person, but I'm talking super in love feelings, not like I like you kinda crush things, I can get over that in one week if it doesn't work out. ; )

Time but not just time. As a Cappy, It takes years for me to get over an ex lover if i really did love him. So what I do is cut all the communications between us. I leave him in the dark. Once i get hurt, i don't go back to an old flame. I move on with my life and focus on my goals. It takes alot for me to give up on someone so when I do, I assure you that I thought about the pros and cons of my decision for a long time. The thing is when we get our heartbroken, trust is also gone. Even if I love the person so much, if I can't trust him with my heart anymore, it just won't work. I would rather let him go than deal with the fear of uncertainty. I love with all my heart but I am no fool either. Not gonna burn myself twice. Goodluck!

A while if I really cared for the person. I used to scorch Earth before, but now, I accept and end professionally. But the feelings are always there.

Life goes on but it still hurts.