Im a cap female and have a cap male interested in me. First cap ever romatically interested in me. Thing is I dont feel the same way back. Im not attracted to him while he is very attracted to me and I feel he has nothing to offer me that will help us grow as a couple. He smokes and has codependency issues with weed and while he is intelligent I am not going to take a step back ya know? He doesnt drive meaning I always have to come see him and he has no career goals he wants to make music and become a rap artist. I however work 2 jobs I go to school full time to get my bachelors and I drive my own car. I was honest being a cap and told him how I felt but surprisingly he still thinks there is hope. Are there any successful cap/cap stories and what do you find attractive about one another? I feel like we are too much the same in all ways . I have only dated water signs (3 cancers) so you can see how the personalities are vastly different..... the crazy thing is when i do our compatbility for birthdays it says me and him are basically perfectly compatible with all positive aspects...so am I asking too much or should I pass up on this guy because I honestly dont feel anything for him ....any advice is helpful!
