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10 Years
Is this capricorn into me
Sure why not. Seriously. Even if it doesn't work possible friendship is cool. No pressure.
I am a pisces.
Yeesssssss. 🙌
He's into you!
He's into you!
Best wishes 😄
If I was in your place, I'd let time take care of us. I wouldn't ask out on a date.... Do what your heart says though.
IME, when a Cap is ready he will do everything in this world to make you his gf.
Based on what you wrote, I'd say, let him take his own time. Enjoy the sweet journey 🙂
If I was in your place, I'd let time take care of us. I wouldn't ask out on a date.... Do what your heart says though.
IME, when a Cap is ready he will do everything in this world to make you his gf.
Based on what you wrote, I'd say, let him take his own time. Enjoy the sweet journey 🙂
I actually am in school to do "bigger and better things".
He knows this. I think it scares him.
I had the option of finishing school in 2 and a half weeks... i asked his thoughts and it was *deep breath* "Thats scary" followed by a laugh....
Maybe he's scared of losing me?
Or scared that i am going up the success scale and hes stuck at the bottom?}
I dont know.
But overall, the ways things seem to be going, we will not be working with each other for much longer.
He knows this. I think it scares him.
I had the option of finishing school in 2 and a half weeks... i asked his thoughts and it was *deep breath* "Thats scary" followed by a laugh....
Maybe he's scared of losing me?
Or scared that i am going up the success scale and hes stuck at the bottom?}
I dont know.
But overall, the ways things seem to be going, we will not be working with each other for much longer.
Posted by cheekyfaerieYou didn't see the two fish swimming in opposite directions? 🤗 cyber hug!
Curious. What's your sign?
Love,
Eva
Uh, she Piscean
I just recently put that picture. I just opened my account when i wrote this. 😆
Posted by courtcourtv
Soooo i have a coworker. He is a capricorn. I cannot tell you how much i have googled about capricorn, and im still confused about him.
Weve known each other for over a year and have become close friends. I have visited his family, as his siblings work with me as well, and i have become very comfortable with his family.
I have told this capricorn I have a crush on him. He did not respond much to it. I did not want to force him to tell me about his own feelings, so i just said how i felt and left it as that.
Hello fellow Piscean:
Why does this beautiful friendship have to have a "title"? You mean you want an "official date" fellow Piscean? Isn't this the same thing without a title? I would LOVE to have a beautiful friendship relationship like you and the Cappy have. So to answer your question, Cappies are the shy type. They don't say much; but observe. I betcha he has moon, Venus, or even other planets "Pisces". Let him to continue to hunt you down. That's the name of the game! Have him come to you and not vice versa. So no, don't tell him again how you feel about him because you already have. He is attracted to you and continues to do things with you, go to movies, buy you dinner, etc. So why again, do you need an "official date?". To hold hands, kiss, yes, I know you and I are the romantic type and we wear our hearts on our sleeves. But trust me, in 10 years from now when you're more than an official couple you will look back and say, "I feel in love with my best friend!" Those are the ones that do make it together for a long, long, time. Lucky you!
Do you want to lose him? Refrain from telling him again and again how you feel about him. He has two ears and heard you the first time. If he is curious he will come and ask you about it. But he hasn't. Has he? And again don't stop your dreams for this Cappy man. Go to school, go get that career. If he's THAT into you, he will follow you and/or agree to a long distance relationship (I myself do not believe in the latter).
Love,
Eva
🤗 cyber hugs
Good luck
Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by courtcourtv
Soooo i have a coworker. He is a capricorn. I cannot tell you how much i have googled about capricorn, and im still confused about him.
Weve known each other for over a year and have become close friends. I have visited his family, as his siblings work with me as well, and i have become very comfortable with his family.
I have told this capricorn I have a crush on him. He did not respond much to it. I did not want to force him to tell me about his own feelings, so i just said how i felt and left it as that.
Hello fellow Piscean:
Why does this beautiful friendship have to have a "title"? You mean you want an "official date" fellow Piscean? Isn't this the same thing without a title? I would LOVE to have a beautiful friendship relationship like you and the Cappy have. So to answer your question, Cappies are the shy type. They don't say much; but observe. I betcha he has moon, Venus, or even another planet(s) in "Pisces". Let him to continue to hunt you down. That's the name of the game! Have him come to you and not vice versa. So no, don't tell him again how you feel about him because you already have. He is attracted to you and continues to do things with you, go to movies, buy you dinner, etc. So why again, do you need an "official date?". To hold hands, kiss, yes, I know you and I are the romantic type and we wear our hearts on our sleeves. But trust me, in 10 years from now when you're more than an official couple you will look back and say, "I feel in love with my best friend!" Those are the ones that do make it together for a long, long, time. Lucky you!
Do you want to lose him? Refrain from telling him again and again how you feel about him. He has two ears and heard you the first time. If he is curious he will come and ask you about it. But he hasn't. Has he? And again don't stop your dreams for this Cappy man. Go to school, go get that career. If he's THAT into you, he will follow you and/or agree to a long distance relationship (I myself do not believe in the latter).
Love,
Eva
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Posted by EvatheDivaPosted by courtcourtv
Soooo i have a coworker. He is a capricorn. I cannot tell you how much i have googled about capricorn, and im still confused about him.
Weve known each other for over a year and have become close friends. I have visited his family, as his siblings work with me as well, and i have become very comfortable with his family.
I have told this capricorn I have a crush on him. He did not respond much to it. I did not want to force him to tell me about his own feelings, so i just said how i felt and left it as that.
Hello fellow Piscean:
Why does this beautiful friendship have to have a "title"? You mean you want an "official date" fellow Piscean? Isn't this the same thing without a title? I would LOVE to have a beautiful friendship relationship like you and the Cappy have. So to answer your question, Cappies are the shy type. They don't say much; but observe. I betcha he has moon, Venus, or even other planet(s) in "Pisces". Let him to continue to hunt you down. That's the name of the game! Have him come to you and not vice versa. So no, don't tell him again how you feel about him because you already have. He is attracted to you and continues to do things with you, go to movies, buy you dinner, etc. So why again, do you need an "official date?". To hold hands, kiss, yes, I know you and I are the romantic type and we wear our hearts on our sleeves. But trust me, in 10 years from now when you're more than an official couple you will look back and say, "I feel in love with my best friend!" Those are the ones that do make it together for a long, long, time. Lucky you!
Do you want to lose him? Refrain from telling him again and again how you feel about him. He has two ears and heard you the first time. If he is curious he will come and ask you about it. But he hasn't. Has he? And again don't stop your dreams for this Cappy man. Go to school, go get that career. If he's THAT into you, he will follow you and/or agree to a long distance relationship (I myself do not believe in the latter).
Love,
Eva
🤗 cyber hugsclick to expand
He may well be interested, but is not yet ready. Keep hanging out with him and let it flow - I wouldn't make a move just yet, unless you find the perfect opportunity.
Good luck! This may have potential, imo.🙂
Good luck! This may have potential, imo.🙂
Posted by courtcourtvYou had me until you started making excuses for his being "scared". That's the biggest lie women tell themselves.
I actually am in school to do "bigger and better things".
He knows this. I think it scares him.
I had the option of finishing school in 2 and a half weeks... i asked his thoughts and it was *deep breath* "Thats scary" followed by a laugh....
Maybe he's scared of losing me?
Or scared that i am going up the success scale and hes stuck at the bottom?}
I dont know.
But overall, the ways things seem to be going, we will not be working with each other for much longer.
Of all signs, I think capricorn would be the least scared by a successful partner. I also don't think capricorns operate based on fear. If he loves you, he won't let you get away, regardless where your school/job takes you.
My advice: go have drinks together. Make a move. Worse case scenario is he turns you down and you can blame it on the alcohol.
@Truecap
I guess his tone of voice made me feel like he wasn't super excited. He did encourage me to do it and told me "You got this", but when i first told him he paused with a deep breath..... like it was a lot for him to take in.
I guess his tone of voice made me feel like he wasn't super excited. He did encourage me to do it and told me "You got this", but when i first told him he paused with a deep breath..... like it was a lot for him to take in.
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Weve known each other for over a year and have become close friends. I have visited his family, as his siblings work with me as well, and i have become very comfortable with his family.
I have told this capricorn I have a crush on him. He did not respond much to it. I did not want to force him to tell me about his own feelings, so i just said how i felt and left it as that.
We spend plenty of time together. He runs errands with me, i help his family with things, we go hang out, grab food, go hiking, movies, etc...
He seems to slowly be opening up to me lately. He tells me things that irritate him or that piss him off. He tells me about family drama. Sometimes i catch him about to tell his feelings on a specific topic but he stops himself beforehand and says "OHHHH! You know how to get into my brain."
Lately hes trying to find things to spend money on me for. I liked a perfume and he wanted to buy it for me. but i declined. I also misplaced my headphones and he offered to buy me new ones. I declined but thanked him.
Sometimes when we go out to eat, he will pay for my food, or he will say "Don't worry, i got you." Sometimes i let him pay, but i always return the favor.
He acts extremely silly with me. I feel like we are little kids again and i love it. Sometimes i feel like his sillyness matches my sillyness and hes the only one who makes me feel young again.
He has been opening my car door for me, after i jokingly said it was the gentleman thing to do.
At work, he always somehow finds me. I will purposefully hide in a corner of our work area, and he will search for me, I hear him secretly snooping around and i love it.
I stare at him. He hates it but he is so beautiful. When he looks at me back, only sometimes do i get eye contact from him, it is so intense it melts me.
I want to know what i should do. Should i ask him on a date and make it known i want it as more then just "hanging out"? Is he interested? What is my next step?