how caps express love?

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by merima on Tuesday, May 3, 2016 and has 24 replies.

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@merima
10 YearsAquarius

I'm interested how caps express love? In the beginning our relationship he told me that he loves meand that he wants to marry me.We got married,but he stopped saying that he loves me.In the meantime,he is still as sweet as in the beginning:full of care,gentle,loving...everything that a woman wants.but why he doesn't want to say "I love you?" he says acts are greater than words...Caps,is that true? Does he love me?

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Posted by merima
I'm interested how caps express love? In the beginning our relationship he told me that he loves meand that he wants to marry me.We got married,but he stopped saying that he loves me.In the meantime,he is still as sweet as in the beginning:full of care,gentle,loving...everything that a woman wants.but why he doesn't want to say "I love you?" he says acts are greater than words...Caps,is that true? Does he love me?

Anybody can say I love you but not show it. Caps are action oriented. Our actions should indicate how we feel about you. Aquas are the same way aren't they?

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Posted by merima
I'm interested how caps express love? In the beginning our relationship he told me that he loves meand that he wants to marry me.We got married,but he stopped saying that he loves me.In the meantime,he is still as sweet as in the beginning:full of care,gentle,loving...everything that a woman wants.but why he doesn't want to say "I love you?" he says acts are greater than words...Caps,is that true? Does he love me?

Anybody can say I love you but not show it. Caps are action oriented. Our actions should indicate how we feel about you. Aquas are the same way aren't they?

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@merima
10 YearsAquarius

Posted by Gobshite
And would you be happy if he did the complete opposite? Are you that insecure to hear three words, which are mostly used meaninglessly by the general population?

He's putting his money where his mouth is and you're still not content?

Actions speak louder than words. I know it can sometimes be inconceivable for an air sign, which over intellectualises and never knows when to shut the fuck up...


I fucking love you cappies!!! 😆

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10 YearsAquarius

Posted by truecap
Posted by merima
I'm interested how caps express love? In the beginning our relationship he told me that he loves meand that he wants to marry me.We got married,but he stopped saying that he loves me.In the meantime,he is still as sweet as in the beginning:full of care,gentle,loving...everything that a woman wants.but why he doesn't want to say "I love you?" he says acts are greater than words...Caps,is that true? Does he love me?

Anybody can say I love you but not show it. Caps are action oriented. Our actions should indicate how we feel about you. Aquas are the same way aren't they?

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not always...we love to say "I love you"...

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10 YearsAquarius

and another question.how about cheating?when cappies start to cheat?I knew only geminis..this is a whole new world for me...or do they actually cheat or remain fatefull?

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Posted by merima
and another question.how about cheating?when cappies start to cheat?I knew only geminis..this is a whole new world for me...or do they actually cheat or remain fatefull?

à toi de le découvrir

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10 YearsAquarius

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Posted by merima
and another question.how about cheating?when cappies start to cheat?I knew only geminis..this is a whole new world for me...or do they actually cheat or remain fatefull?

à toi de le découvrir
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quite difficult to discover by myself,n'est pas?

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If i cheat its mean i never been serious since the beginning, or the relation doesnt worth any interrest and i'm to lazy to broke up

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10 YearsAquarius

Posted by ElleDuMonde
@merima

I was reading your old posts....

you both have cap in venus, right?

if it's not broken, don't try to fix it.

It's a stable and steady relationship......why are you looking for reasons to shake the snow globe?

cap in venus is what it is what it is what it is....no matter what angle you look at it from, it doesn't change.

a bit boring.....*yawn*.....but find other ways of entertaining yourself instead of pelting him with your (self-admitted) insecurities.

Enjoy the man, FFS!!!!!!!!!

Tell him you love him a million times a day, he doesn't care.....it won't bug him. He'll show you in more practical ways.....and that has to be enough and you should accept it. Everyone's love language is different.


thank u so much...I read this to my capp,and he told me "God damn it woman,how didn't u realize that by yourself!YES it's true,
everything that they've said! Tell me that u love me thousand times a day,it's all right!"

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Posted by merima
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Posted by merima
I'm interested how caps express love? In the beginning our relationship he told me that he loves meand that he wants to marry me.We got married,but he stopped saying that he loves me.In the meantime,he is still as sweet as in the beginning:full of care,gentle,loving...everything that a woman wants.but why he doesn't want to say "I love you?" he says acts are greater than words...Caps,is that true? Does he love me?

Anybody can say I love you but not show it. Caps are action oriented. Our actions should indicate how we feel about you. Aquas are the same way aren't they?


not always...we love to say "I love you"...
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It took my aqua a year and a half to tell me he loved me.

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Posted by merima
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Posted by merima
I'm interested how caps express love? In the beginning our relationship he told me that he loves meand that he wants to marry me.We got married,but he stopped saying that he loves me.In the meantime,he is still as sweet as in the beginning:full of care,gentle,loving...everything that a woman wants.but why he doesn't want to say "I love you?" he says acts are greater than words...Caps,is that true? Does he love me?

Anybody can say I love you but not show it. Caps are action oriented. Our actions should indicate how we feel about you. Aquas are the same way aren't they?


not always...we love to say "I love you"...
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It took my aqua a year and a half to tell me he loved me.

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Posted by merima
I know!! but what's the reasin for them? I was with geminis and for them the reason for cheating was boredom.

Once committed, caps are committed. We don't take vows lightly. Things would have to be really really bad for a cap to cheat.

Gemini's are fickle. Caps are not. Please don't ever, ever, ever compare a cap to a gemini again. They're too different animals.

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@merima
10 YearsAquarius

Posted by truecap
Posted by merima
I know!! but what's the reasin for them? I was with geminis and for them the reason for cheating was boredom.

Once committed, caps are committed. We don't take vows lightly. Things would have to be really really bad for a cap to cheat.

Gemini's are fickle. Caps are not. Please don't ever, ever, ever compare a cap to a gemini again. They're too different animals.

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ok,I'm sorry if I offended someone :-) yes they are soooo different,thnx God!!!

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Words become superficial. People say I love you and not really mean it. Actions is where it's at. We make sure you're taken care of, quality time is spent together.

The other caps pretty much covered it.

Oh and,
I don't cheat. Pathetic losers who cant make up their minds, do that.

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10 YearsAquarius

Posted by Greentea
Words become superficial. People say I love you and not really mean it. Actions is where it's at. We make sure you're taken care of, quality time is spent together.

The other caps pretty much covered it.

Oh and,
I don't cheat. Pathetic losers who cant make up their minds, do that.


you're like my husband :-))

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I am a cap female but if it helps, I express my love through touch..
Eg.lots of cuddles, kisses and affection. Always holding hands when we go out, even if just shopping for groceries.

I do say I love you but I don't like saying it too often as it can start to sound commonplace rather than special..

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10 YearsAquarius

Posted by pooface222
I am a cap female but if it helps, I express my love through touch..
Eg.lots of cuddles, kisses and affection. Always holding hands when we go out, even if just shopping for groceries.

I do say I love you but I don't like saying it too often as it can start to sound commonplace rather than special..

yes,he always loves to hold hands anywhere we go...he lovs to cuddle,to kiss,touches,etc.

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Be wary of your thoughts, they become your actions and thus your destiny. Nothing good to be found in sick mind, it creates problems that are not originally there.

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10 YearsAquarius

Posted by angel43
Posted by merima
I'm interested how caps express love? In the beginning our relationship he told me that he loves meand that he wants to marry me.We got married,but he stopped saying that he loves me.In the meantime,he is still as sweet as in the beginning:full of care,gentle,loving...everything that a woman wants.but why he doesn't want to say "I love you?" he says acts are greater than words...Caps,is that true? Does he love me?

Sounds like he loves you very much.. My cap and I are getting married soon, but he does say "I love you" more that I do lol. He is moving me and my children into his home and he is completely remodeling it for us.. That is one example of how a cap shows his love. I love Cap's as well, I have a few male friends that come to me so I can brighten their day lol.

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wonderfull :-))

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11 Years

He sounds like a typical Cap -- "Gee, I told you once I loved you when we got married. Isn't that enough for you?"

They are men of few words. You'll have to show him gently how to court you. Promise him a BJ or something in exchange for being more verbal. That's something a Cap will really understand 😉