Just watch your tone, cause we are sensitive, and tell her. My Virgo sis is a pro at getting her message clear thru a joke....like "um, the last time I checked you had zero kids boo" and she'll laugh but Ill understand. If thats not your personality then just tell her straight., or say "it makes me feel a certain way...like you are bossing me around or giving orders when you tell me to do things." Change may not happen overnight, but she'll make effort.
Know that if the shoe was on the other foot we wouldn't tolerate it for too long, so you shouldn't feel bad about not tolerating it either.
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Know that if the shoe was on the other foot we wouldn't tolerate it for too long, so you shouldn't feel bad about not tolerating it either.