Capricorn male silent and ignoring me

A mutual friend introduced me to a capricorn man 8 months ago whilst I was on holiday overseas. I am back in my own country halfway around the world, and we were chatting online. There Was a mutual and instant attraction n chemistry n he said he really liked me after the meeting so our friend gave my number to this guy. Anyways when I flew back home every few days we would chat and he would sometimes initiate a chat to see if I had lunch yet and pretty much how my day was. And about 4-5 months thru the friendship/relationship I felt like I was the one always having to initiate contact becoz he wouldn't
I let 2 weeks go by and messaged him n he said he had been busy with work. Then I told him it would be nice every now n then that he initiate contact n he responded with a smiley face. So I let 4 weeks go by n nothing and I just sent him a message asking why he was being such a loner. He responds with that he has been do busy with work and forgot. I felt insulted then becoz he had lots of time to post n respond to his random friends on Facebook but I bit my
Tongue then and just kept things inside me.

Now we r 8 weeks on and he has not bothered to message me. Only 5 weeks after last contact he only liked one of my newly posted Facebook pics of what I made for dinner. He is a very traditional capi guy n Loves a woman who could cook. I never responded to it becoz I felt u know what, he could have messaged me
To find out why I had been so quiet. Last week messaged our friend that introduced us to ask her what is wrong with this guy, he is just so silent and ignoring N I cannot handle this anymore n simply advised her that I refuse now to message him or respond to his message (if he bothers to send one) as I feel I am wasting my time energy n effort on him.

I really like this guy but I just cannot tolerate this kind of behaviour... Well since then no response or message from this guy n he knows I am flying to his country In 2 months time for a holiday.

Can anyone help offer suggestions or opinions on why this guy is like this?
I don't know if he just feels confident about me that I'll get the message or if he likes me becoz I dun feel it. He seems like a guy that prefers a face-face interaction but initially we made do with instant messaging and chatting etc.

I made myself a target now to not message or respond to any contact to or from him till when I go on holiday. I guess I wanna see what happens then. Is this normal behaviour for a cappy guy?