Capricorn Man Distancing

Fast and furious relationship.. He said he was falling in love. Then we hit a roadblock.. major upset. He became furious, wouldn't speak for several days. Then saturday he sent IM I guess to test the water. Then he called. We chatted on the phone for about a half an hour and he said he was leaving to go eat. We did not discuss our upset at all. about an hour and a half later he called and we talked for two hours. Fun, light conversation. A lot of laughter. I felt that we were back on track. Didn't hear from him Sunday, but not a big deal.

Today, we talked, but he seemed distant. He said..is there something you want to talk about? I said.. Any chance of working things out with you? He said, "not sure." I said do you want to try, or no? He said, "well, let's try being friends.. and see."

Is it done? What is a capricorn saying when he says let's be friends and see. He seems very distant. Should I move on or is there hope here?

OOOPS! With capricorns, its best to address the situation that causing chaos. Tip-toeing around stuff with us is not a good idea. This has happened to me with both friends and others. I'm totally aware that they KNOW whats wrong and I get the impression that they don't want to acknowledge the problem if its not brought up. So yeah, I'll play along and adapt to our conversation ... whatever it may be, but deep down, I feel this person is not serious about something that I'm REALLY serious about.

That's a level of disrespect I cannot deal with so I start distancing myself.

If he says lets just be friends, then it means that the relationship is on a different level now and he doesn't want what he had before with you.

What happened to make things this way? You said you two hit a roadblock ... what happened? Depending on what the roadblock is will determine whether or not you two will get back together.

What was he mad about? What was the roadblock?

I read a little of the history in a different post but want to see what specifically happened to make it seems like he is distancing himself.

I'm a cap male dealing with a scorpio female currently.

oh i hate to admit the roadblock. I know I will get slammed on here, and I guess I deserve it. But here goes. We became an item.. and he was telling me he was falling in love and talking about the future. I found out he was seeing a married woman. I confronted him, and he said he was distancing with her because he didn't want to break up a family. He said he would make a clean break. A week later, he was spotted with her still. So I took matters into my own hands, contacted her and told her the score. She did not know about me. She then confronted him and made him feel that I was making decisions for him and going behind his back. Yes, I was wrong. Yes, I am sorry. Yes, I have told him I reacted out of jealousy, and that I should not have handled things this way.

We talked this morning. He sent me an email that said, "I'm not sure I can stay mad at you. But it will take some time to get to know you again."

Not sure what to expect at this point. Any clues?

it's just not possible for me to be serious with a person who does not take what i seriously have a problem with seriously. i don't take brushing off issues well at all.

Oh yeah, I hate that. If I can't sit back and listen to you, I believe you can listen to me. Brushing me off is a BIG no-no. I start acting really aloaf to the one who does that to me.

It can hurt someone's feelings too

Its simple. Make it clear who you are, what you want, what you DONT want and let him make up his mind.
Going "round the houses" doesnt work with us cap guys, youve got to be direct.

Totally, you have to be direct with cap men.