Capricorn man/Libra woman/Taurus woman

I am a Taurus girl living in USA. My senior is a Cap guy and we are neighbors. Even though we knew each other from 2 years we never talked. Him being a senior, I had to ask somethings related to my studies and we started talking. First time we talked we talked 6 hours straight. It was purely magical to find that much good chemistry and understanding in first talk. Well after a week, we went out for a date and just after 3 days he told me he is still in love with his ex who lives in London now. They broke off in early 2013. I was shocked to hear that in addition to feel really sad for him that he is still suffering. He told me he see me only as a friend for now. I just know that they faced a lot of problems and are totally incompatible. The guy is still in love with her but she does not care as such. I think, its because of their LDR majorly and then their incompatibility. He wants stability, quick family but she is too much social and care-free for him.

We started fighting very bad after this news. He only said that he does not want me to leave his life and I only said that there's no point in me being in his life when I know that I have a huge crush on him and he does not care. We continued fighting and still fight. Between, he was once on a business trip and I don't know why he bought me a surprise gift ! He still tries me to take the gift but I don't accept it as if he is not interested, there's no point in taking anything from him. I don't know what makes him so angry about it that I am not accepting his gift. You guys tell me, am I doing wrong here by not accepting his gift?

Anyway, we again went out, last week. I was pretty sure not to touch him at all and just behave like a friend. But I guess universe did not want to. It was the most romantic day ever for me. Light rain, evening time, mountain and woods, visiting different lakes and scenic place, away from the city and a long drive. We actually spent about an hour in his car, parked somewhere in the mountain because it had started raining very bad. He was just looking at me. I was pretty sure not to give him any hints that I am still into him but he started holding my hand 😐 He hugged me when he was dropping me off. Now you guys tell me what should I do? I like that guy but he is not ready to even look at anyone else. But whenever we meet, he just want to be closer to each other. And that gift is still an issue between us.

Comments, suggestions are completely welcome.

Chase? May I know whom do you think is chasing whom?

Anyway, 3 days ago I wrote him an encouragement letter, he was struggling a lot and I was worried about him. We fight most of the time over texts so I thought to write him an email. He was very happy to know I am there for him 🙂 He appreciated my time and effort towards him and told me that most of the things now are under control.

Thanks!

all i saw on the thread topic was a LOVE TRIANGLE: TWILIGHT!!

ha ha, It should not be a love triangle now. 🙂 @lisabethur8

@FrenchKpricorn : I have no idea what's happpening 😐

@FrenchKpricorn : Yes, most of the time we argue without any reason. He also says the same - there is no reason then why do we still fight?

Literally, our argument started when he told me about his love towards his ex. Matter is not solved yet. He knows I like him a lot but he still does not stop talking to me. He is very sweet, he did say that he does not want me to go away. I feel like he is confused, hence taking his time. But at the same time, I don't want to land myself in an indefinite wait.

It's becoming way too complicated. 🙂

-Taurus born

I am understanding what you are trying to say. We probably need an excuse to talk to each other every time, if not love, then we are only arguing. I have HOTS for that guy. I have started feeling for him, even when I try to avoid and deny it. His presence makes me feel so happy! Nothing like this happens to him. 😄