Capricorn Man/Taurus Woman...Need Help ASAP!!!

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by taurusgirl24 on Tuesday, January 5, 2010 and has 4 replies.

Met a great capricorn man at a party, danced, laughed, and talked the entire night!!! Had several long conversations on the phone for three days and went out on casual date for late night coffee. During discussions he learned that I dated one of his friends over 20 years ago. He stated that he is having a hard time dealing with this, so I advised him that I would give him space to figure things out. Thus far, he has DISAPPEARED with no communication for two weeks.

Any suggestions on my next steps, as I really like this guy and would like to get to know him more—?

Signed,

Confused Taurus gal!!!!

@taurusgirl24

16 Years

I'm still trying to decide, as everything is so new and was just so great (for the three (3) days). It's confusing but I believe he is worth it.....for whatever reason! (smile)

@snowball543

16 Years

"He stated that he is having a hard time dealing with this, so I advised him that I would give him space to figure things out. Thus far, he has DISAPPEARED with no communication for two weeks."

Hmm not good sweety for a couple of reasons.

1. He is not emotionally invested after such a short time together so it is really easy for him to walk away at this point.
2. He flat out told you he is having a hard time dealing with this and if this is what he says then that's what it is.
3. Myself as a cap, my ex cap, and just about every cap I know wouldn't disappear for 2 weeks on someone unless either we aren't really into them, are having significant issues at the moment and I mean significant (and even then you would get a text or email something but not absolutely NOTHING), or are seeing several people and are weighing our options and their qualities.
4. Depends on how good a "friend" this friend is. We are usually incredibly loyal and generally would never step over a friend for a romantic interest.

You never know but I wouldn't invest any more emotional energy into this guy.