Capricorn mars/venus (Aqua sun)

Boyfriend: Aqua sun, Taurus moon, with Capricorn in mars & venus.
Me: Scorpio sun, Taurus moon, with Scorpio in mars & Libra in venus.

We are having PROBLEMZZZZZ. Fuck man, since I met this man my mind is on OVERLOAD. I am so exhausted lol..

Our sex life is hopeless I swear! He has the horn-dog typical male hornyness to him, but the actual act happens maybe once a week. Yeah I have done my research and confirmations - their focus is elsewhere, I get that. But when we start inching closer to the actual ACT, bring on the awkwardness and misunderstandings.

Im an expert at sex, this one I CAN NOT crack 😢

On this topic only thing I was able to get out of him was that he really likes when we "play" which we wrestle and he loves being aggressive and really rough (which I fucking LOVE) but when we have sex its so boring and the same thing.

I am so confused and anytime I try to initiate he has an excuse or looks at me like I am totally crazy. He also said he doesn't get how I can just be turned on?

😢 I feel like dying lol, as a scorpio, sex is literally everything, my world is shutting off I HATE IT.

Of fucking course... Before I accepted this aqua as a boyfriend I was getting laid like 6 times a week, but by fucking assholes. His love is so nice I don't want to let him go, I need help. I am a complete nympho, this isn't working 😢

Posted by ladyscorpio91
Boyfriend: Aqua sun, Taurus moon, with Capricorn in mars & venus.
Me: Scorpio sun, Taurus moon, with Scorpio in mars & Libra in venus.

We are having PROBLEMZZZZZ. Fuck man, since I met this man my mind is on OVERLOAD. I am so exhausted lol..

Our sex life is hopeless I swear! He has the horn-dog typical male hornyness to him, but the actual act happens maybe once a week. Yeah I have done my research and confirmations - their focus is elsewhere, I get that. But when we start inching closer to the actual ACT, bring on the awkwardness and misunderstandings.

Im an expert at sex, this one I CAN NOT crack 😢

On this topic only thing I was able to get out of him was that he really likes when we "play" which we wrestle and he loves being aggressive and really rough (which I fucking LOVE) but when we have sex its so boring and the same thing.

I am so confused and anytime I try to initiate he has an excuse or looks at me like I am totally crazy. He also said he doesn't get how I can just be turned on?

😢 I feel like dying lol, as a scorpio, sex is literally everything, my world is shutting off I HATE IT.

Of fucking course... Before I accepted this aqua as a boyfriend I was getting laid like 6 times a week, but by fucking assholes. His love is so nice I don't want to let him go, I need help. I am a complete nympho, this isn't working 😢

If you're not satisfied at this stage, you never will be. You can always go back to frequenent sex with the a-holes.

Caps believe in in quality over quantity.

*frequent*

Never seen a girl brag about being an expert at sex before.....


My, oh my, at how times are a-changin'.

Hi there 🙂

I'm a Leo with moon and mars in Capricorn. Let me tell you when it comes to sex for mars in Capricorn, the disadvantage is that we can never full relax to anything sexually intimate. We will come across awkward as if we don't know what the heck we're doing. We're also traditional but once we're comfortable and secure with a partner we can fully let go to enjoy sex.

Perhaps you're making him uncomfortable without realising? Intimidating him in a sexual department will make his timidness worse. We mars in Capricorns can get pretty insecure when our partner seems overly confident than we are.

Most Scorpios are great people but you being one intimidate me to be honest lol

And also to add*

Underneath that shy and reserved face of Mars in Capricorns we have high sex drive but we can only relax and let themselves go when we fully trust you.

With your partner being an Aquarius sun they can sometimes go aloof and want their own space without you bothering them. When it comes to sex we should be looking at mars signs but his Aquarius in sun will play the part at only wanting sex once a week etc like you said he's focus can be some where else due to his friendly and adventurous nature. Sex isn't the most important thing for people with Sun in Aquarius unless they have many Scorpio or other powerful placement in their charts. They get aroused by mental stimulation more than a physical one. And also with him having Taurus moon they like to take things slowly and sensually.

You're lucky he doesn't have Mars in Aquarius because they're well known for having the lowest sex drive,

Actually, the Aqua im seeing with moon and ven cap and mars aqua, sex is pretty much on the regular. that could be just the honeymoon stage, idk. we see each other 2-3 times a week and sex is more often than not, always on the menu but we always have a long foreplay (prolly due to his earth moon and venus) either by cuddling, touching each other and/or hours of just pure TALKING - I kid you not, it still is mindboggling to me how we can do that for hours on end! and thats such a turn on for me (and maybe him too?)

sometimes we 'snuggled'more than once per session so I dont know if its something to do with the placements or our charts together. However, if LM16 is right and that mars aqua people having the lowest sex drive, its okay by me because of my ven is in aqua, craving more mental stimulation than physical, though my scorpio mars will demand intensity when we DO get it on hehe

Posted by LittleMiss116
Hi there 🙂

I'm a Leo with moon and mars in Capricorn. Let me tell you when it comes to sex for mars in Capricorn, the disadvantage is that we can never full relax to anything sexually intimate. We will come across awkward as if we don't know what the heck we're doing. We're also traditional but once we're comfortable and secure with a partner we can fully let go to enjoy sex.

Perhaps you're making him uncomfortable without realising? Intimidating him in a sexual department will make his timidness worse. We mars in Capricorns can get pretty insecure when our partner seems overly confident than we are.

Most Scorpios are great people but you being one intimidate me to be honest lol

Thank you SOOOOOOO MUCH. This is incredibly helpful. If I were rich I would seriously send you money lol!!!

:-)

Posted by Diora_Capri
Actually, the Aqua im seeing with moon and ven cap and mars aqua, sex is pretty much on the regular. that could be just the honeymoon stage, idk. we see each other 2-3 times a week and sex is more often than not, always on the menu but we always have a long foreplay (prolly due to his earth moon and venus) either by cuddling, touching each other and/or hours of just pure TALKING - I kid you not, it still is mindboggling to me how we can do that for hours on end! and thats such a turn on for me (and maybe him too?)

sometimes we 'snuggled'more than once per session so I dont know if its something to do with the placements or our charts together. However, if LM16 is right and that mars aqua people having the lowest sex drive, its okay by me because of my ven is in aqua, craving more mental stimulation than physical, though my scorpio mars will demand intensity when we DO get it on hehe

Very helpful thank you!!!! Question.... I need ideas for metal stimulation, or at the least would really appreciate if someone could help me understand it..

I have so much scorpio in my chart, so I apparently don't know how to think with anything other than my genitals lol hahhaah

I SUCK!

Posted by ladyscorpio91

Posted by LittleMiss116
Hi there 🙂

I'm a Leo with moon and mars in Capricorn. Let me tell you when it comes to sex for mars in Capricorn, the disadvantage is that we can never full relax to anything sexually intimate. We will come across awkward as if we don't know what the heck we're doing. We're also traditional but once we're comfortable and secure with a partner we can fully let go to enjoy sex.

Perhaps you're making him uncomfortable without realising? Intimidating him in a sexual department will make his timidness worse. We mars in Capricorns can get pretty insecure when our partner seems overly confident than we are.

Most Scorpios are great people but you being one intimidate me to be honest lol

Thank you SOOOOOOO MUCH. This is incredibly helpful. If I were rich I would seriously send you money lol!!!

:-)

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Haha it's my pleasure 🙂 I had to answer it since he's got Mars in Capricorn like myself and because of this I felt like I can understand his point of view.