Capricorn woman interested in me? Should I tell her soon that I like her?

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So I'm crushing on a amazing Capricorn woman, I wonder if she's interested in me when we are just seeing each other for like almost 2 weeks:

-We went out 4 times already and almost all our meet ups lasts until dawn. (I'm the one who invited her for the 3 meetups while she invited me once to have dinner.)
-We would laugh all the time when we are together and She would tell me stories about her family, friends, office, POVs and any random things.
-Sometimes we would just pause from talking and just stare at each other, most of the time I'm the who looks away.
-She bought me a souvenir from her recent trip. When I gave her a chocolate during our 1st meet up, she gave me her favorite flavor. (I know it's not a big deal but we just met that's why I put this here.)
-She told me that we should go to a vacation together, and she plans to bring me to one of her favorite restaurants.
-We constantly texts each other even she told me she's not a texty person (She texts first sometimes like "Good morning, what she's doing, etc." but she was the one who texted me first after we went out for the first time.)
-She told me thru text "Thanks to our trip I met someone like you", "I enjoy the time we are together.", "I like sharing my stories with you because I don't feel I'm being judged.", "I'm happy when I'm with you."

I have a crush on her and I know I'm starting to like her more, I wanted to tell her but I just want to be sure and isn't it too early? I don't want her to scare her away.

I need your advice Capricorn friends. Thanks in advance. ๐Ÿ™‚
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-"She told me that we should go to a vacation together, and she plans to bring me to one of her favorite restaurants."

**You can learn alot about a person while on vacation you know.... For her to even suggest this, you're in. She likes you, so why not tell her you like her. Im sure she alresdy knows. Lol

Just don't be toooo sappy about it, we pay more attention to the actions that back up the words.

Good luck with your Cappy, I'm sure you picked a keeper.
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Posted by Greentea
-"She told me that we should go to a vacation together, and she plans to bring me to one of her favorite restaurants."

**You can learn alot about a person while on vacation you know.... For her to even suggest this, you're in. She likes you, so why not tell her you like her. Im sure she alresdy knows. Lol

Just don't be toooo sappy about it, we pay more attention to the actions that back up the words.

Good luck with your Cappy, I'm sure you picked a keeper.
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@Greentea you think so? Isn't it too early? I mean we're just seeing each other for almost 2 weeks lol. Thank you! Thank you so much!
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-"She told me that we should go to a vacation together, and she plans to bring me to one of her favorite restaurants."

**You can learn alot about a person while on vacation you know.... For her to even suggest this, you're in. She likes you, so why not tell her you like her. Im sure she alresdy knows. Lol

Just don't be toooo sappy about it, we pay more attention to the actions that back up the words.

Good luck with your Cappy, I'm sure you picked a keeper.
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@Greentea you think so? Isn't it too early? I mean we're just seeing each other for almost 2 weeks lol. Thank you! Thank you so much!
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The Cancer guy I dated told me in a subtle way.

He walked me to my car after our 5th or so date, and of course we had great conversation and jokes he walked me to my car but as he was going to kiss me good night, he looked down at my necklace and got a little coy...and proceeded to tell me how amazing he thought i was, and that he's been having a great time with me, getting to know me, and that he wanted me to know that he thinks about me a lot when we're not together..

If that's how you feel with her, then say something like that. Btw, he always looked away first too when staring.
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-"She told me that we should go to a vacation together, and she plans to bring me to one of her favorite restaurants."

**You can learn alot about a person while on vacation you know.... For her to even suggest this, you're in. She likes you, so why not tell her you like her. Im sure she alresdy knows. Lol

Just don't be toooo sappy about it, we pay more attention to the actions that back up the words.

Good luck with your Cappy, I'm sure you picked a keeper.
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@Greentea you think so? Isn't it too early? I mean we're just seeing each other for almost 2 weeks lol. Thank you! Thank you so much!
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About the vacation, I'm sure it won't be tomorrow lol..we plan for these things. But yes, vacation is a good indicator if we can stand eachother during this trip, then it's another step. I would not be asking someone to go on vacation with me if I wasn't interested or comfortable with them.

And you're welcome.
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-"She told me that we should go to a vacation together, and she plans to bring me to one of her favorite restaurants."

**You can learn alot about a person while on vacation you know.... For her to even suggest this, you're in. She likes you, so why not tell her you like her. Im sure she alresdy knows. Lol

Just don't be toooo sappy about it, we pay more attention to the actions that back up the words.

Good luck with your Cappy, I'm sure you picked a keeper.
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@Greentea you think so? Isn't it too early? I mean we're just seeing each other for almost 2 weeks lol. Thank you! Thank you so much!
The Cancer guy I dated told me in a subtle way.

He walked me to my car after our 5th or so date, and of course we had great conversation and jokes he walked me to my car but as he was going to kiss me good night, he looked down at my necklace and got a little coy...and proceeded to tell me how amazing he thought i was, and that he's been having a great time with me, getting to know me, and that he wanted me to know that he thinks about me a lot when we're not together..

If that's how you feel with her, then say something like that. Btw, he always looked away first too when staring.
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So Cappy woman doesn't entertain someone they're not interested with?. haha! okay maybe after our 5th date I'll tell her. I'm just scared that If I'll tell her I like her this early she might runaway. @Greentea thank you so much, what happened between you and the cancer guy?
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-"She told me that we should go to a vacation together, and she plans to bring me to one of her favorite restaurants."

**You can learn alot about a person while on vacation you know.... For her to even suggest this, you're in. She likes you, so why not tell her you like her. Im sure she alresdy knows. Lol

Just don't be toooo sappy about it, we pay more attention to the actions that back up the words.

Good luck with your Cappy, I'm sure you picked a keeper.
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@Greentea you think so? Isn't it too early? I mean we're just seeing each other for almost 2 weeks lol. Thank you! Thank you so much!
The Cancer guy I dated told me in a subtle way.

He walked me to my car after our 5th or so date, and of course we had great conversation and jokes he walked me to my car but as he was going to kiss me good night, he looked down at my necklace and got a little coy...and proceeded to tell me how amazing he thought i was, and that he's been having a great time with me, getting to know me, and that he wanted me to know that he thinks about me a lot when we're not together..

If that's how you feel with her, then say something like that. Btw, he always looked away first too when staring.
So Cappy woman doesn't entertain someone they're not interested with?. haha! okay maybe after our 5th date I'll tell her. I'm just scared that If I'll tell her I like her this early she might runaway. @Greentea thank you so much, what happened between you and the cancer guy?
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It just didn't work out, there were things about him that didn't fit. I dated a couple cancers, he was a good guy just not for me...another was a bit batshit crazy lol.
I almost had to get a restraining order, fatal attraction thing going on with him.
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Listen, she really likes you, all the signals are there, I'm just surprised about the fact you too just met 2 weeks ago, everything is happening a little to fast from a Cap, but maybe she is above 30, usually caps over 30 are a bit more faster with their intentions. It could be that she saw potential on you straigh away, it's rare but could happen, Caps have good intuition and rarely fail.

She asked you to go on vacations with her, consider that a HUGE step, that's something serious and important.
They only do that with people they trust and feel comfortable with.

Don't worry about her losing interest, you are doing very well, if you keep being yourself, if she enjoys your company, then there is no reason for her to lose interest, don't worry and relax...when caps choose someone they know exactly what they are doing, and they date only one person at a time, they don't jump from one relationship to another like you change your shirt, they are extremely loyals and keepers once the connection is there. They only focus one one single person, relationships and love are serious business for these lovely creatures.

She seems to be in a vulnerable stage, so be careful here, don't hurt her...

She knows you like her, and you know she likes you. You can mention this while you are in vacations, but don't be too emotional, just be cool with it, but to be honest, I don't think you need to tell her you like her, it's pretty obvious... I would give more time and then without scaring her touch the subject to make sure where you guys stand, that's what I would do.

Listen to Greentea, she gives good advices.
Thank you so much @Secret for the advice. I'm glad to hear something like this. I just have to take my time and enjoy. Actually, she's 22 haha! but I was really surprised that things are happening fast, I dated a capricorn woman before and oh boy it took me 3 months before I was able to invited her out.
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-"She told me that we should go to a vacation together, and she plans to bring me to one of her favorite restaurants."

**You can learn alot about a person while on vacation you know.... For her to even suggest this, you're in. She likes you, so why not tell her you like her. Im sure she alresdy knows. Lol

Just don't be toooo sappy about it, we pay more attention to the actions that back up the words.

Good luck with your Cappy, I'm sure you picked a keeper.
๐Ÿ™‚
@Greentea you think so? Isn't it too early? I mean we're just seeing each other for almost 2 weeks lol. Thank you! Thank you so much!
The Cancer guy I dated told me in a subtle way.

He walked me to my car after our 5th or so date, and of course we had great conversation and jokes he walked me to my car but as he was going to kiss me good night, he looked down at my necklace and got a little coy...and proceeded to tell me how amazing he thought i was, and that he's been having a great time with me, getting to know me, and that he wanted me to know that he thinks about me a lot when we're not together..

If that's how you feel with her, then say something like that. Btw, he always looked away first too when staring.
So Cappy woman doesn't entertain someone they're not interested with?. haha! okay maybe after our 5th date I'll tell her. I'm just scared that If I'll tell her I like her this early she might runaway. @Greentea thank you so much, what happened between you and the cancer guy?
It just didn't work out, there were things about him that didn't fit. I dated a couple cancers, he was a good guy just not for me...another was a bit batshit crazy lol.
I almost had to get a restraining order, fatal attraction thing going on with him.
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@Greentea Oh Gosh, that's horrible! how long did you last with these cancer guys? and please answer me truthfully what trait/s cancer guys makes you turn off?

I just really like this capricorn woman and I really wanted her to be in my future so I don't to mess this up. Do you have any comments regarding gifts? I gave her a book and a donut during our 1st week meet ups, I have the donuts delivered in her work. Is that ok giving capricorn women gifts? I'm planning to sent her a slice of chocolate cake tomorrow. What do u think? Thanks again!
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I just really like this capricorn woman and I really wanted her to be in my future so I don't to mess this up. Do you have any comments regarding gifts? I gave her a book and a donut during our 1st week meet ups, I have the donuts delivered in her work. Is that ok giving capricorn women gifts? I'm planning to sent her a slice of chocolate cake tomorrow. What do u think? Thanks again!

You shouldn't go thinking you can buy a woman. Either she's genuinely interested or she isn't.

Christ, you don't even know if she's actually worth it!



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Oh no no that's not what I meant. I just want to give her a slice of chocolate cake because it's her favorite. I haven't bought her any material things yet mostly food.
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The one thing that irritated me about the one I had problems with was he tried to start controlling, and manipulating me. Not gonna happen. I saw right through it.

The other one that I did like, it wasn't anything personal...there were just things abut him that didn't fit my lifestyle, amd as I got to know him I just got a friendly vibe for him.

It's ok to give gifts, we do like them, just don't use it as a way of getting to her heart. As Gobshite pointed out, we can't be bought. We don't want to fall for the IDEA of you, we want to get to know YOU.