capricorn women ... have feelings too

Recently, I've just started reading my astrologic profile. The capricorn woman has a very hardcore depiction. Indeed, like most signs I can be strong in certain aspects of my life, but I can be very emotional (ultra-emotional). I also read that most capricorn women have a tendency to attract weak men and are unlucky in love ... wow that sucks for someone like me, jeez I'm only a 21 year old college student. In all honest I wouldn't mind having someone with alittle backbone, but if needed me to be his "rock" (so to speak) I wouldn't mind that either. And since I'm supposely unlucky with men (aka cancer man ... darn him, I haven't heard from him in three weeks), then why do I love them so much! LOL. But seriously, I think most cappy females(and maybe the others too) want realness from the opposite sex. Most guys that I've had relationships with (not counting that cancer "friend") just can't be honest ... I'm not your "good time" girl, like a solid relationship with love, stablity, and compromise. I don't think that difficult for any women to ask for. What do you think?

heelloooo.... would anyone like to post on my thread? instead of going over old hat, that can be found in any astrology site?

Wow, thank you so much sb and branh0913 for the feedback and the support 🙂 I really needed different points of views on this situation. Well, I'm 21 but he's older then me by three years. Last time we had a serious conversation (4 weeks ago), he spoke about not losing my virginity until I was married (along wih teling me that my virginity should be shared with my husband; along with telling me that I shouldn't focus on guys right now, instead focus on my education (when I told him about my career plans, he has been suportiv every since). It sort of felt like he was acting like my father, until he told me that if we were living with each other that my "cherry" would be history :o He said that our feelings for each other are too strong for things not to happen between us -- there would be no place for me to run. In the past, he also referenced that I should've have so many guy friends ... just because I don't know there motives. He told me that he cared for me and he didn't want to see me taken advantage of by men. Keep in mind, I don't bring up all this emotional stuff because last summer we agreed to be friends ... whatever that means. Since he hasn't spoken to me in three weeks, I don't know what to think.

Yes, you are exactly right. LOL, but he told me that he use to be a player and tat he was trying to change because he had been doing it for so long. He told me about his other "female friends", I told him that I didn't like the way he treated them. All he could tell me was "They're not like you". What!!! Oh my goonness, what in the heck makes me so different. It certainly can't be the virgin thing because most guys don't like virgins. He blames his behavior on two bad relationships, but whatever. I just wonder why doesn't he just stick those women he's messing around with and just keep me as a friend and a friend only; he wants to jump the fence too much for me. I told him to stop but he didn't listen ... Well, maybe now he is. I can't completely stop talking to him because he his three items that belong to me and I need them back ... but he's keeping them away from me. I have no clue. Maybe we should've met later in life.

Okay, question. Why would he come back to me after he's done being with the other girls? He's having a good time with them, he should stay with them. Yes, I know I'm alittle naive, but please humor. I haven't dealt with a guy like this before. He says that he wants us to take care of each other. He said this three weeks ago, before he got his meal from me (that he begged for me to cook) and now he is good. He has also shared personal inforamtion with me to, like SSN, Driver's license #, and income info, tax info, but his mother told me that he is very private. He told me that I was a good girl and he wouldn't share anything unless he had trust in me... see what I mean, he can get really randomly wierd on me. I wonder if he is that free with everyone else. He can definiately trust me because I have integrity and I would do anything to hurt but still ...

No sb,

After the way he's been acting for the pass three weeks, I'm scared to have any relationship with him ... honesty. Even before I was unsure because he's 24 years old, most guys maturity is still in elementary development at that age. That's why I appreciate the feedback. I've been hurt before by guys and I really don't want to get hurt again. But if he calls me, I should voice my opinions to him, I think.

Wow!!! Thanks Branh0913 and you too sb.

I really didn't look at it that why

Branh0913: Also another HUGE game is to have a woman's personal posessions so when he does ditch your ass and some other woman slams in the face he has you as a backup. This is a good game, because he has something you value, and he knows that everytime he talks to you he can remind you he has "item A and item B" of yours. This way he can claw his way back into your life, with enough ass kissing and excuses of course.

Wow, so that's what he is doing. He done this before. He kept my backpack, although he knew I needed. Wow, I feel like a moron

Branh0913,

The longhaul? So I should ... keep him at bay (wow that sounds really bad), to see if he is true to me? Explain what you mean exactly, because we haven't together but he does ask me to cook for him, among other things ...

hmmm, okay Thank you both 🙂 I still have questions, but those can be for later. Thank you for the feedback. I will definiately make sure things are slow. He brings up sex, so maybe I should just continue changing the subject. And maybe I should stop the cooking? I will continue to be there for him, because we are suppose to be friends ... guess. But I will listen🙂 Thank you, I've learned so much tonight. Don't worry, I won't e stupid. Hopeful this is the age where he does stop being a player.

night

Well I think it's important that you express yourself to him -- if you're not interested in sex at this time and he brings it up - tell him so. Why not? Life is going to be hell if you don't put this boy in his place. Then again, I'm the kind of girl who is out for the chase. I'm always predator & I want to be in control (funny how I always end up with controlling types). I have a yucky feeling about this guy, capsweetie. Try to open up and tell him he's acting like a wad (with tact, maybe firmness of course). Somebody's got to do it and he may very well respect your words.

Thank you frokenvin, I will definiately let him know how I feel when we(or if we ever) speak again. You are absoluately right, life will be chaos if I choose to keep him in my life without his know how I feel verbally. I maybe naive, but I'm not stupid. Thank you for your support 🙂

Yah no problem! I'm happy to chat with you. & I know it's hard to open up sometimes... I also know about the anxiety that goes along with doing so. I've been smacked around by males a few times in my life.. the last thing I want to see is another lovely gal experience the same thing. Take care! : )