Caps, do you have feelings like jalousy?

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Not really. I'm pretty trusting....BUT, my venus is in scorpio...soooooo, it rises its ugly head every now and then.
I feel like if a man is making an effort to make you jealous, then there's a problem in a relationship.

As far as wanting what other people have as in material items...no, not at all. I live withing my means. If it's something I want, I'll just save up and work toward achieving getting the same things.
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Posted by HappyCapper
I hide it and hide it and hide it(because I know it's stupid, and I don't want to act on stupid things) until I explode. Mature, huh? 😉

Luckily, it doesn't happen very often.
I was like that when I was younger. I finally figured out to speak up right at the get go when something bothers me - before it gets to that point of explosion. Know what? Life is much easier since I've learned to address things at the first indication of something that doesn't feel right.
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Posted by truecap
Not really. I'm pretty trusting....BUT, my venus is in scorpio...soooooo, it rises its ugly head every now and then.
I feel like if a man is making an effort to make you jealous, then there's a problem in a relationship.

As far as wanting what other people have as in material items...no, not at all. I live withing my means. If it's something I want, I'll just save up and work toward achieving getting the same things.
Agreed. I don't buy into those games - I don't even get jealous, just pissed.

Agree with the last paragraph as well.
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I hide it and hide it and hide it(because I know it's stupid, and I don't want to act on stupid things) until I explode. Mature, huh? 😉

Luckily, it doesn't happen very often.
I was like that when I was younger. I finally figured out to speak up right at the get go when something bothers me - before it gets to that point of explosion. Know what? Life is much easier since I've learned to address things at the first indication of something that doesn't feel right.
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Even if you know you're just being stupid? I usually speak up when I feel there is something to address, but in most jealousy cases...there has really not been anything to bring to the table - it's just me being stupid.
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I have been through your situation...with a leo, so I don't know if you're even interested in my answer, but here it goes anyway. In my case, I have come to the conclusion that my leo was jealous, but wasn't thinking that I was trying to make him jealous...and in his clothes, I would probably have felt the same way.

I think it's a case of being jealous ...while feeling that you really shouldn't be. But it's a feeling and has nothing to do with logic, so it happens anyway.
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She may understand it and not really be jealous. She knows it's nothing to worry about. It could be a couple of different things. Maybe she doesn't ask questions because she doesn't want you to think she's jealous. Or maybe she just doesn't like hearing it (like its ok for her but not you kinda thing). Or maybe she plain ole doesnt know what to say (you provided all the info she needs to know). Or maybe she doesn't care you do this with your friend. Or maybe she just doesn't realize she's not showing interest. I think I've done all the above at one time or another