come in or get out!!!!

Cap men, what is this bullshit with comin around testin the waters then disappearing and ignoring. FUCK OFF!!!! I can see through all those fuckin facades, so knock it the fuck off!

ok, i'm a little steamed.

i feel like i'm dealing with a child, although i see the man inside. and WOW!
but what good does that serve if the Aries moon in this man wants all and gives nothing. wants fame but fears success-in all aspects. i want to be patient, but i get so pissed. how do you know what is worth waiting for? (impatience again, i know)

If he's giving nothing, then he's not worth it, find someone that can appreciate you and treat you the way you deserve, your looking at his potential and loving that wow factor of potential he carries but he's obviously smart to give you a glimpse of his good qualities in order to get you hooked but also showing you who he is right now which is the childish man he is so you either accept it, deal with it or you can walk away, he's a challenge and maybe you wanna play that out with him but expect the unexpected, expect selfishness, expect to be ignored, expect the worse and once you do that you can deal with it if you choose to. You can encourage him to be more of what you see in him, its not hopeless but that takes practice and patience.

If he's still around, try to beat him at his own game or just ignore/move on/cut off, etc.

i understand him very well, which is the sucky part. ..he's a lot like me.
i know that if i'm not ready to get involved, than no one can get through.
i know how to get through to him, but right now i don't have the time, energy, or patience. turning 30 has shown me not to relive my 20's.
he'll come calln round again, hopefully a little more prepared. if not....keep on goin.

I'm telling you. Those men have issues.