confused with cappy lady friendliness/flirty?

Hi, first thing first just want to tell u that I was a femme lesbian. I being good friends with my cap supervisor since I was still in a relationship with my ex gf (she had already left me 6 months ago). This cap lady was already married & she didnt knew I'm gay. So everytime I talk to her about my ex gf, I say "ex bf" at her. Previously when my ex gf makes me feel happy, I spread the happiness at my cappy friend such as smiling/laughing alot at her, cheering her up & gently touching her (I have no intenton to seduce her, I was just too happy).



My cap friend somehow always compliment I'm beautiful, lovely smile & touching me too. Any good/bad news, I'm the first person she informed. She always treat me, and I'm always the one whom she gave souveniers everytime she's back from vacation. She sometimes invite me along to wherever she wants to go.



I dont know its just my lesbian sense or its just normal cappy friendliness/craziness that she ever shown to me obvious signs such as calling me "honey" once thru texts (she didnt do that again becuz I told her my "ex bf" always checking through my phone), and then asking me question like "how do lesbians having sex?"...she even asked me to copy the look from the transsexual female-to-male celebrity photo that she sends to me.



I'm asking coz I think I have a crush on her, recently, lol lol lol...or maybe she suspect that I'm gay therefore she's just testing me? Thanks 🙂

Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
She's probably just being friendly.

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I see. So why did she asking lesbian-y questions at me? At the time she's having that kind of conversations with me...I replied as I was a "straight lady", lol. I want to tell her that I was gay coz we both always heart-to-heart talk, but then I remember she was my supervisor & very close with my boss & other co-workers too.

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Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
She's probably just being friendly.

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I see. So why did she asking lesbian-y questions at me? At the time she's having that kind of conversations with me...I replied as I was a "straight lady", lol. I want to tell her that I was gay coz we both always heart-to-heart talk, but then I remember she was my supervisor & very close with my boss & other co-workers too.

Exactly, you've been portraying a heterosexual person, so that's how she's relating to you. She's married, right? Capricorns, both males and females, are very conscious of their public image. Because she's a supervisor, I'm fairly certain she wouldn't put herself in a predicament like that with one of her subordinates. She might be genuinely curious about 'lesbian-y' things, but not because she wants to engage in lesbian sex or relationships.

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Yeah, she's married but live alone here because of her job while her husband & daughter live far at their hometown. They're rarely seeing each other.

Got it now! So if she's asking lesbian-y questions to me again in the future...should I just comfortably being my 'gay' self answering them or pretending "gross" again at those questions? Hahaha?



I better trying to 'un-crush' on her after this, lol.?

Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88

Posted by zoe gonzales

Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88

Posted by zoe gonzales

Posted by Metaphysicalreciprocity88
She's probably just being friendly.

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I see. So why did she asking lesbian-y questions at me? At the time she's having that kind of conversations with me...I replied as I was a "straight lady", lol. I want to tell her that I was gay coz we both always heart-to-heart talk, but then I remember she was my supervisor & very close with my boss & other co-workers too.

Exactly, you've been portraying a heterosexual person, so that's how she's relating to you. She's married, right? Capricorns, both males and females, are very conscious of their public image. Because she's a supervisor, I'm fairly certain she wouldn't put herself in a predicament like that with one of her subordinates. She might be genuinely curious about 'lesbian-y' things, but not because she wants to engage in lesbian sex or relationships.

Yeah, she's married but live alone here because of her job while her husband & daughter live far at their hometown. They're rarely seeing each other.

Got it now! So if she's asking lesbian-y questions to me again in the future...should I just comfortably being my 'gay' self answering them or pretending "gross" again at those questions? Hahaha?



I better trying to 'un-crush' on her after this, lol.?

Tell her the truth in confidence.

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I'll try my best to be honest & direct anytime soon. Thank you sweetheart for making things clear about my confusions. ☺