Confusing Situation

Hi All,

I have been seeing a cap guy for about a year and a half now.

When we are together it is amazing and he treats me really well, he does however, work all the time.

I have asked him if he would like to meet up to spend time with me but he replies back to me telling me how busy he is and that he will see me soon.

He texts me at night when he is not at work telling me that he wishes we were together, how he can not wait to see me and we end up having hours of conversation via text message which is really nice.

My problem is - Does Mr Cap really like me or is he playing games with me??

Reason I ask is because I think if he really does care for me then he would make more of an effort to see me.

I appreciate that he is very very busy and I will give him all the space he needs, however as it has been going on for such a long time I am slightly concerned I am being strung along by him............

Can i please have your comments - thanks all

That is an excellent analysis/approach, SimplyMe! I think there is only a very very small percentage of "sick/twisted" individuals who are out to purposely play "mind games". In most cases, it's simply miscommunication, lack of communication, fear, uncertainty, etc.