controlling narcissist cap boyfriend

This topic was created in the Capricorn forum by smiler on Thursday, June 8, 2017 and has 6 replies.

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@smiler
9 Years

He has insulted me a lot for something I am not and never done! I am too hurt and upset. that's why I want him to suffer. Am an aquarius with too much empathy which I hate about myself 😢

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@LadyNeptune
10 Years25,000+ Posts

Posted by LadyNeptune
The best revenge is indifference. Walk away and do you, don't look back.

This is the advice I'd give anyone who asks this question. But the fact that he's controlling and narcissistic will make your indifference even more painful to him. It'll be a tremendous blow to his ego.

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@librasunwoman
9 Years

As hard as this is, completely ignore him. Do not text him. Do not seek answers or closure. Just walk away. I promise you this will work. Narcissist use something called the silent treatment and it is very cruel. I had it done to me and it hurt really bad. This is the only thing that they can understand.

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@netpower
10 Years

Posted by smiler
He has insulted me a lot for something I am not and never done! I am too hurt and upset. that's why I want him to suffer. Am an aquarius with too much empathy which I hate about myself 😢

Your empathy is not bad....it should only be given to those who deserve it