Does this Cap guy like me or am i just a fling?

So i met this Capricorn guy in work about 6 months ago, a couple of weeks before he joined our staff. I thought he was cute and we chatted well but he mentioned his gf in casual conversation and i left that at that. So cut to just before Christmas when me, my cap and a co-worker were closing the bar but decided to have a relaxed few drinks while we did it. He didn't eat much so was a tad more drunk than us and ended up putting his hand on my back and legs - took me very much be surprise...Then he walked me home (we live close by) and he hugged me (our first hug) and almost went to kiss me but i broke off. He apologised the following day if he did anything bad lol. So that night i put down to drink and maybe him wanting his gf okay > Cut to January (staff night out). Everything was fine, innocent, until the remaining few of us were in the casino where he somehow changed seats to sit beside me and hooks my leg over his putting his hand on my thigh under the table. Once we were the last one's in our taxi home he kept actively trying to kiss me and actually said "can i get a kiss?" To which i replied no because he has a gf and that isn't right. And once again, you guessed it, he apologised for inappropriate behaviour a few days after > Cut to a few nights ago! (getting to the worse/more confusing stuff now folks) I basically pop into work to get quiet time but end up having a few beers with my Co's and him and i go to a pals place for a wee while. Once we leave and start walking home, im freezing and he puts his arm around my waist, pulls me close and smiles at me - i (without thinking) interlock one of my hands into his on my waist. I go into his because it's not that late and he's been having a bit of a tough time with a friend recently and i guess he can talk to me about it? But once the chat starts to wind down he starts giving me the eyes that i seen both before Christmas and in January and before i know it he dang swoops and gets me on the mouth:o I didn't last very long, like no making out or anything, but also not just a peck. At this point i could feel us both lose control a little so thought it best i go home and he chooses to walk me. We're both pretty silent...until he asks me to sit on these steps just round from my house and he puts his arm around me. He tells me that he loves my faith, confidence, optimism and thinks im gorgeous....all this while i can't get my mind off his gf of 2 years (I'm 20 and he's just tuned 23 btw). But then he actually says that he fancies me and that he has for a wee while but tried to hide it (i said he did too good a job at that haha) When i say to him that he only wants me when he's had a drink he says that's not true and that it only seems that way because we're never alone when people aren't drinking. I also asked why we keep coming together like we do and he said that he wasn't sure, but he couldn't help it and asked if it was just him....i was honest and said that no, it wasn't just him. As the sun began to rise, reality set in that we couldn't do anything and he just kept staring at me intensely, putting his head on my shoulder/biting my shoulder in frustration cause he couldn't kiss me. And joked asking if I've ever just wanted to bash my head into a wall haha Nearly at my house I say that the bottom line is that he isn't single to which he just looked at me and sighed...We hugged a few times at my door quite tightly and he kept kissing my cheeks and neck😢 So last night, he was working but having a few pints and i was next door having drinks with friends. We all came into work and a few of us decided to go to a friends and a few went home - leaving only the Cap and i in work listening to music, talking...Just about to phone a taxi to the friends when the work phone goes (its half past midnight at this point) so we assume the friend is phoning to prank us - he answers it and his face just drops. 20 minutes pass and he returns saying he has to go to his gf's....im pretty tired and get the picture so get my stuff and head for the door but he stops me and says he wants to get me home. Taxis. We're in one again. My house is less than a 5 minute drive away and the whole time im getting that same look I've seen too many times, and again he puts his head on my shoulder and my hand in his hair:/ We hug goodbye.

Now im not looking for judgement, i know he's not single and honestly im trying to do the right thing here. Im not pursuing him, i have had/got other dates lined up, but i can't deny our pull to one another. I have never met his gf but i don't think they see each other all that often and folk say they argue on the phone when he's in work. She's bipolar so maybe that's something to note (?) I'm just confused... He not as upfront as guys that are usually interested so from my pov he only likes me when we're out at night but he says that's not true "we have chat during shifts" - so maybe that is him showing interest? If he just wanted sex then why would he keep coming to someone who wont do that with him yknow... I'm not waiting around for him, but don't want him to think i don't like him either because i read that Caps are actually quite insecure and want to know theie feelings are reciprocated before doing anything.

Thoughts? Advice? Any Capricorn guys that can tell me where his head is at?

He's a Capricorn and im an Aries with a Rising Leo and Capricorn Moon^^

He sounds really immature to be honest with you. You should tell him to kick rocks until he's really single cause that is not cool.

Also, to keep his hands off of you. Thats crossing boundaries..

But that's just my opinion! 🙂 GL

Who cares. He's taken. Shut him down all the way. How can you like a guy that does his gf dirty behind her back?!

You think you're special and he would be diff with you? Nope! He's a dog and you will be too if you pursue this.

And if he liked you so much he would be with just you.

Posted by RamOnFire1
He sounds really immature to be honest with you. You should tell him to kick rocks until he's really single cause that is not cool.

Also, to keep his hands off of you. Thats crossing boundaries..

But that's just my opinion! 🙂 GL

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If he could cheat his gf of 2 years he could cheat you as well. before 2 years he must be same with his gf as he is with you today. just do yourself a favor by distancing yourself from him