Capricorn crush knows i like him

My office friend told my crush that one of her friends like him. She has very few friends at work and we hang around whenever we get time. So i am pretty sure that he knows it's me.

What do i do now? How do i react? I have no clue as to what his reaction is coz she will be out of town for the next week and we are not able to talk right now.

I am not angry at her, rather she has done me a favor as i can atleast know what he is upto!

Was it a wrong move on a capricorn guy? Or is it fine?

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Posted by PoloChat

My office friend told my crush that one of her friends like him. She has very few friends at work and we hang around whenever we get time. So i am pretty sure that he knows it's me.

What do i do now? How do i react? How do i behave around him? I have no clue as to what his reaction is coz she will be out of town for the next week and we are not able to talk right now.

I am not angry at her, rather she has done me a favor as i can atleast know what he is upto!

Was it a wrong move on a capricorn guy? Or is it fine?

Keep going as you were. He will probably do something if the feeling is mutual, imo.

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I am nervous coz what if he makes fun of me with his gang of friends.

Posted by dilettante

how do you behave?

just be yourself. if he doesnt like it, fuck him.

Did i say behave? Right, editing that out.

Yesss wanting these kind of confirmations!

If he doesn't like you he will act uncomfortable and then you have to act totally chill to balance it out.

If he likes you he will put you through a crap ton of mental tests before he decides if you are worth pursuing or not.

Posted by capgirl5

If he doesn't like you he will act uncomfortable and then you have to act totally chill to balance it out.

If he likes you he will put you through a crap ton of mental tests before he decides if you are worth pursuing or not.

What do you mean by mental tests?

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Posted by capgirl5

If he doesn't like you he will act uncomfortable and then you have to act totally chill to balance it out.

If he likes you he will put you through a crap ton of mental tests before he decides if you are worth pursuing or not.

What do you mean by mental tests?

He force you to play Sudoku and time it.

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Well then it's a good thing coz i rule at Sudoku!

I would agree with the others saying to be yourself. But don't hide the fact you like him. He will be watching you. If your body language don't match your thoughts you'll be scratched off as in-congruent. Caps are attracted to the mystery of the mind, not mind games even though we have mastered it.

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Posted by capgirl5

If he doesn't like you he will act uncomfortable and then you have to act totally chill to balance it out.

If he likes you he will put you through a crap ton of mental tests before he decides if you are worth pursuing or not.

What do you mean by mental tests?

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Like observe anything you say. I'd also bring up like controversial topics and see the reaction of the other person. We are very opinionated so we need someone very openminded

Posted by Erinelda

It's not a mind game not to throw yourself at someone who isn't making an effort though. It just makes someone feel very pathetic if they misread things. You have to see it from her side.. if you like her so much, why are you just standing back watching for? You are watching her instead of acting interested, while she hides she is interested to not make a fool of herself.. It just sounds like a couple idiots that never plan on getting laid again.

You want my attention? Show me attention.

Because I don't ever feel watched, I feel like I don't exist to them.

Attraction in Capricorns moves in steps. You go, I go. Once you stop, I stop. It can escalate to bliss, but insecurities force people to stop. By showing shes not interested because of her insecurities tells me nothing but she's not interested. How can I move forward if I do not know? I can try to confirm, but also don't want to look stupid or misread.

A woman is supposed to show interest to provoke him to pursue her. If he does not, hes not interested. Women choose men, it's not the other way around.

How old are you people??

Making fun of each other?

Gang of friends?

Friend told him you have a crush??

I’m so glad I’m not 14 anymore. Gosh.

Posted by Erinelda

You say that but I emailed you last and you didn't reply for 17 days.. lawyered lol.

Your email was a statement, thus not requiring a response. Asking questions shows interest. 😄

You don't have to throw yourself at someone to show interest. Capricorns really don't ask questions because words lie. We get our answers based on your actions to certain situations and what we are unsure of we ask, just like Scorpios do. 😄

Posted by but_didyoudie

women cannot read minds either...

But should be masters of controlling and reading body language. Women are supposed to secretly control the dynamics of the interaction. The body reveals the thoughts of the mind. What the mind manifest will become reality.

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Posted by Erinelda

It's not a mind game not to throw yourself at someone who isn't making an effort though. It just makes someone feel very pathetic if they misread things. You have to see it from her side.. if you like her so much, why are you just standing back watching for? You are watching her instead of acting interested, while she hides she is interested to not make a fool of herself.. It just sounds like a couple idiots that never plan on getting laid again.

You want my attention? Show me attention.

Because I don't ever feel watched, I feel like I don't exist to them.

Attraction in Capricorns moves in steps. You go, I go. Once you stop, I stop. It can escalate to bliss, but insecurities force people to stop. By showing shes not interested because of her insecurities tells me nothing but she's not interested. How can I move forward if I do not know? I can try to confirm, but also don't want to look stupid or misread.

A woman is supposed to show interest to provoke him to pursue her. If he does not, hes not interested. Women choose men, it's not the other way around.

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"Women choose men" - Interesting!

You mean to say that guys will like anybody who gives them attention?

And then what happens if 2 girls are giving him attention, how will he choose - physical appearance? Coz personality comes way later!

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Posted by Erinelda

You say that but I emailed you last and you didn't reply for 17 days.. lawyered lol.

Your email was a statement, thus not requiring a response. Asking questions shows interest. 😄

You don't have to throw yourself at someone to show interest. Capricorns really don't ask questions because words lie. We get our answers based on your actions to certain situations and what we are unsure of we ask, just like Scorpios do. 😄

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Wow i am getting good insights on a Cap. Care to share more?

Posted by PoloChat

"Women choose men" - Interesting!

You mean to say that guys will like anybody who gives them attention?

And then what happens if 2 girls are giving him attention, how will he choose - physical appearance? Coz personality comes way later!

Close, someone that can capture their attention. <--Charm

He will choose the one that will raise his worth or life quality in one way or another.

Posted by PoloChat

Wow i am getting good insights on a Cap. Care to share more?

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Thank you. I sure would.

Posted by SureShotCap

I would agree with the others saying to be yourself. But don't hide the fact you like him. He will be watching you. If your body language don't match your thoughts you'll be scratched off as in-congruent. Caps are attracted to the mystery of the mind, not mind games even though we have mastered it.

I want to know if he will ever make a move.

He keeps stealing glances at me, but won't do anything more than that. And to top that, few of his friends keep their eyes on me whenever he's around.

The ball is in his court now and i hate that!