saggyrl
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Dumped via Text
Bravo me! In the other thread I suggested that travel can serve as express test for relationships. Now you see.
Posted by DwellingOnMove
time. I agree.
or you travel with them. there you find it sooner.
Posted by saggyrl
[...] I always felt like I was on the back burner....whenever he had a new opportunity, he would up and go and I'd be home waiting.
[...] Just wanted to vent.
If your gut feeling is right, then be happy this break-up happened. If not he'll regret.
What are his other planets?
Posted by cheekyfaerieCompletely done. I normally have too much fire to be cold, but if I ever saw him, I would walk pass like I didn't. The sad thing is that I'm really close with his family.
Are you done done? Part of me would wanna throw a shoe and the other part of me wouldn't even acknowledge the text. Welcome to Antarctica mf'er.
What a coward.
Posted by GobshiteWrong answer. I honestly didn't care who did the dumping. It's just how he went about. We were just on the phone 5 mins earlier.
Please, just curb your Cancer moon. You already saw the writing on the wall.
What REALLY pisses you off is that you didn't do the dumping...
Posted by Gobshite
Please, just curb your Cancer moon. You already saw the writing on the wall.
What REALLY pisses you off is that you didn't do the dumping...
pissed off? b1tch where?
read her original post. this is one of the most polite and cool threads on dxp ever where OP admits it's just venting.
then again maybe I'm sugarcoating.
Posted by DwellingOnMoveMoon: AquariusPosted by saggyrl
[...] I always felt like I was on the back burner....whenever he had a new opportunity, he would up and go and I'd be home waiting.
[...] Just wanted to vent.
If your gut feeling is right, then be happy this break-up happened. If not he'll regret.
What are his other planets?click to expand
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Pisces
Mercury: Cap
That's all I can remember
Yeah, I think it was for the best.
I think due to these two placements:
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Pisces
there will be a next round with you both.
And due to these two:
Moon: Aquarius
Mercury: Cap
most likely that would mean nothing. Everything would stay the same way it was.
When I first read about the on-off years of Lewis Hamilton and Nicole Scherzinger the first thing I did was to check if he has Cap placements. He has. Sun, Jupiter and Neptune. You know also the story of Miley and her Hemsworth.
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Pisces
there will be a next round with you both.
And due to these two:
Moon: Aquarius
Mercury: Cap
most likely that would mean nothing. Everything would stay the same way it was.
When I first read about the on-off years of Lewis Hamilton and Nicole Scherzinger the first thing I did was to check if he has Cap placements. He has. Sun, Jupiter and Neptune. You know also the story of Miley and her Hemsworth.
Posted by GobshitePosted by saggyrlSo, no need to vent then... 🙂Posted by GobshiteWrong answer. I honestly didn't care who did the dumping. It's just how he went about. We were just on the phone 5 mins earlier.
Please, just curb your Cancer moon. You already saw the writing on the wall.
What REALLY pisses you off is that you didn't do the dumping...click to expand
in your system.
other people other reaons.
for example losing a friend. or convenience.
Posted by GobshitePosted by DwellingOnMoveJust saying, your sugar-coating highness! 😉Posted by GobshitePosted by saggyrlSo, no need to vent then... 🙂Posted by GobshiteWrong answer. I honestly didn't care who did the dumping. It's just how he went about. We were just on the phone 5 mins earlier.
Please, just curb your Cancer moon. You already saw the writing on the wall.
What REALLY pisses you off is that you didn't do the dumping...
in your system.
other people other reaons.
for example losing a friend. or convenience.click to expand
I have many different talents. I can sugarcoat. And I can see different nuances.
Also it can happen that I abuse the likeliness of different nuances to sugarcoat one nuance I don't want to admit. But what's the payment?
Posted by DwellingOnMoveI don't think I could do another round. Over 16 months, I thought I sort of knew him. I turned my head to certain things, but that text was my final confirmation.
I think due to these two placements:
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Pisces
there will be a next round with you both.
He had some many opportunities to end it.. why wait like that?
At least you got a direct goodbye... My cancer sun leo moon sent me a meme and a "I told you I didn't want a relationship" (lies) with a "it doesn't have to be over"... Over text. Confusing ass. I went off on him and have been on no contact. It hurts!! Why not fight! Why not work out what's bothering them? Why not give us enough respect to talk it through properly? I don't think you guys are over though. You didn't respond and he hasn't contacted. I think he just needs time. Good luck. As for me..... I prepared to never see him again.
Posted by DMVYeah I was initially confused by that. Things seemed off, that's why I suggested the break. And even when we decided to end the break, I asked if he was sure. Maybe the argument was his confirmation.
He had some many opportunities to end it.. why wait like that?
Posted by BlackMambaPisces. Mercury went direct Friday afternoon.Posted by BlackMambaor PiscesPosted by Koniuchasomething pussy, probably Virgo
What is his moon sign?
Posted by Blood ft. WaterPossibly. But I would have simply said, "ok" and hung up the phone. If you want out, I won't stand in front of the door.
The good thing is he knew he didnt want you so he dumped you by any means necessary.
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Posted by BlackMambaI'm sorry, not a Pisces moon. His moon is in Aquarius. His Mars is in Pisces.
oh god a cap with pisces moon, my brother has the same placements, i feel sorry for any chick he'll end up with, if he actually ends up with a girl.
girl you got lucky. count your blessings. you do not want that.
Posted by Blood ft. WaterI never once mentioned "talking it through". There's nothing to talk through.
"Talking it through" just adds to the headaches and delays actions from being taken.
JUST DO IT!
Break up with you via text or break up with you via phone convo
What difference does it make—??
He's breaking up with you as in end of contact so what difference does it make?
I'm cordial and still friends with most of my exes. Breakup happens, ppl have the right to change their minds. I think it's a respect thing for me. And maybe this just goes to show it meant little to him...idk
It's awkward...I'm close with his sister. I'm planning an event for her later this month and I don't even want to attend.
Posted by saggyrlMars in Pisces that's how he goes about war his aggression level pisces manipulative did it by text to duck with Ur soulPosted by DwellingOnMoveMoon: AquariusPosted by saggyrl
[...] I always felt like I was on the back burner....whenever he had a new opportunity, he would up and go and I'd be home waiting.
[...] Just wanted to vent.
If your gut feeling is right, then be happy this break-up happened. If not he'll regret.
What are his other planets?
Venus: Scorpio
Mars: Pisces
Mercury: Cap
That's all I can remember
Yeah, I think it was for the best.click to expand
Moon in Aqua I hate Aquarius they need no one n are flighty to have moon there wld be constant juggle btwn loving n leaving
Mercury cap ugh communicates like a cap I wld Google this aspect for a clear innerstanding krschannel on YouTube shod have a vid on this aspect
Venus in Scorpio that's wat he's attracted to. Think Scorpio women traits passive go getters all bout their bread extravagant n patient
Posted by cheekyfaerie
This is the world we live in now? It's not like they were just fuck buddies or whatever. They proper dated for over a year. Ended that via text is some pussy shit.
I read they went through steps towards separation. She did suggest a pause, I read. He distanced himself through these steps. So writing the text may come from that cold place.
But I don't trust Venus in Scorpio. They play too much. Let her fall and catch her in the last nano second. Am I dreaming and sugarcoating again?
Posted by DMVBc his mars is in Pisces
He had some many opportunities to end it.. why wait like that?
Posted by cheekyfaeriePosted by DwellingOnMoveThat makes more sense, but it's still rude. There's no communication anymore. There's no real courtships anymore. All the lines are blurred and I fail to see how we're better for it. If we were, there'd be a lot less threads on DXP.Posted by cheekyfaerie
This is the world we live in now? It's not like they were just fuck buddies or whatever. They proper dated for over a year. Ended that via text is some pussy shit.
I read they went through steps towards separation. She did suggest a pause, I read. He distanced himself through these steps. So writing the text may come from that cold place.
But I don't trust Venus in Scorpio. They play too much. Let her fall and catch her in the last nano second. Am I dreaming and sugarcoating again?click to expand
ya, you're right.
It's amazing how the high tolerance of Sagittarian girls is not a big help to their own benefit.
Posted by KoniuchaThat's the thing....it was always something different. A new opportunity here. A new opportunity there, that didn't have anything to do with his profession. And he hated coming home. He said the town was boring. So after a while I grew annoyed.
So how exactly were you not supporting his lack of a job?
Posted by DwellingOnMoveRight, but he had no actual plan for success. It was whatever opportunity that came up. He wanted to be in the big city with his friends. And home was like the back up plan and so was I, at least that's how I felt. I was always the last to know.Posted by saggyrlPosted by KoniuchaThat's the thing....it was always something different. A new opportunity here. A new opportunity there, that didn't have anything to do with his profession. And he hated coming home. He said the town was boring. So after a while I grew annoyed.
So how exactly were you not supporting his lack of a job?
But you know that Caps go a very slow and steady path towards success, don't you?click to expand
From what I read this break-up is to your benefit.
Feeling that one is on back burner is one thing. Seeing the day that man is with somebody else is another thing. that would kill you.
Feeling that one is on back burner is one thing. Seeing the day that man is with somebody else is another thing. that would kill you.
Posted by GreyWizGet the fuck off the pua forums dear. They're rotting your brain.Posted by cheekyfaerieI feel women say this because they will have a chance to win him back if he breaks up in person. He has already made up his mind and wants to end it without any emotional interference at the time of his decision. Perhaps after weeks he may come and strike a convo to lighten the blow of his decision.
This is the world we live in now? It's not like they were just fuck buddies or whatever. They proper dated for over a year. Ended that via text is some pussy shit.
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Posted by GreyWizMaybe that's based from your experience, but I wouldn't generalize. I remember I tried to break up with a Scorp, each time he would beg to make things work. One time he even went out for a walk in the rain for an hour...he would always make me feel so bad about it. But I eventually did it and stuck by it and as hard as it was I respected him enough to tell him in person. We're still cordial to this day.
what is wrong i what i said? it is kinda true actually. chicks tend to hang on and guys just want to move on.
I suggested a break with the Cap. I told him maybe he needed to find out if he truly wanted to be in a relationship. There was no hanging on. When you love someone you don't.
Posted by BlackMambaLmao!Posted by Koniuchasomething pussy, probably Virgo
What is his moon sign?click to expand
Posted by saggyrlYou're better off without him. He has no direction and no future. Plans on sliding through life with his "jock" status. I betcha in ten years, he'll still be the same.Posted by DwellingOnMoveRight, but he had no actual plan for success. It was whatever opportunity that came up. He wanted to be in the big city with his friends. And home was like the back up plan and so was I, at least that's how I felt. I was always the last to know.Posted by saggyrlPosted by KoniuchaThat's the thing....it was always something different. A new opportunity here. A new opportunity there, that didn't have anything to do with his profession. And he hated coming home. He said the town was boring. So after a while I grew annoyed.
So how exactly were you not supporting his lack of a job?
But you know that Caps go a very slow and steady path towards success, don't you?click to expand
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Really sucks sometimes... always struggling and working hard while others breeze by or are just naturally lucky. ''
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Just wanted to vent.