female cap behavior help :S

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Brittfuzz
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I don't know to much about cap's, But ive recently been crushing on a girl who is one. I'm a taurus myself - we got on like fire, it was amazing - it felt so natural and easy. I went on holiday all of last week so I couldn't speak to her much, but as soon as I got back she hasn't spoken to me much at all. she said before the holiday she had a crush on me - but now I hear nothing. she told me she needs to deal with depression and sort herself out before she could even consider dating and I supported her with that decision she said she wanted to just be friends until she's better then we could try dating. But ever since she told me that has been distant, Ive sent her messages but not response and she has been online, we live around an hour or so apart via train - is it because she's scared of letting me in? or has she just lost interest?
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truecap
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Caps just get in dark places sometimes. Call it depression, a funk, dark place, whatever. The only thing we can do is analyze it, figure out the cause of it and make a plan to climb out of it. We always climb out and can only do it ourselves. Knowing you're there is appreciated and although you're not getting much feedback, just realize she knows you care. Maybe send her something humorous every so often that will make her smile, but don't be offended if you don't get a response. There are several threads about the capricorn dark side if you want to go searching.

She'll come around. Me, as a cap, won't feel like it's fair to date someone while I'm in such a situation, so it's fair to you that she was honest with you about it.

I don't think she would tell you she likes you, then change her mind like that. It takes a lot of courage to tell someone that. Now if you've done something to make her rethink it, well...... Only you know whether you did or not.