He doesn't get it

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After realizing that I won't accept an inconsistnat capricorn, I decided to call it quits with my on-again-off-again 'relationship' with the 'mature' cappy man.
We have met over 2 years ago, and went out very intermittently. Nothing intimate though. Now I want to move on, and he doesn't seem to know why? I started playing dumb, and ignoring his calls, and acting 'bit rude...!
What else can a woman do? He doesn't seem to be going for the long-run/term, the way it is going, but how can I be blunt, and say I want to meet my FUTURE HUSBAND-TO_BE so Buzz Off, and give me a break?
Anyone?
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I didn't have the chance to talk to him for a while, that is mainly because he didn't contact me, or so I thought ; until it was my birthday, and he sent me an e mail greeting , and paged me at least 8 times. I ignored all of his gestures. A day later he still pages me . Now, I want to tell him, I am not interested, but it seems he doesn't get it. So I am ignoring him ONE MORE TIME. He wants me at HIS OWN TIME and PACE. Well, sorry, it doesn't work that way. Anyone knows how to say goodbye, and good riddance, making sure no further contact takes place. For us capricorn it is either black or white, no in-between. I wonder if he is a true capricorn. He won't get it any which way.
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Don't ignore him, or else he'll just keep wondering your acting this way. Be straight forward and tell him, that you just can't see the two of you together till death do us part. But then again, if he's truly as inconsistent as you say, then continue the rude attitude, maybe he'll get the hint. But honestly I suggest you sit him down and explain yourself. And do it as soon as possible, don't keep him around just becuse you haven't found Mr.Right yet. make sure you know what you want before acting on it.