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Leona87
@Leona87
8 Years

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Hi I am Leo and I've been dating Capricorn guy for almost 7 months. We had a lot of ups and downs. We fight a lot in the past that finally ended u with break up a week ago. I thought that's it. It's over forever I'm not gonna see him ever again. But since I work late night just few days later I got message from him that he's gonna pick me up to my work and drive me to my family house which is over a hour ride. I accepted. Day later I was working again and again he offer him self to drive me. But this time on our way there he told me u can sleep at my place but we never gonna be together again. Next few days while I was working every night I will come to hes place to sleep over. He will act very strange. In one moment I will feel that I will get him back again cuz he's nice but in other I will think he will never get me back as he's girlfriend. What to think what to expect. I am not sure why he's doing all this. Does he still cares.. please help me I really care for him and I can't let it to go easy..
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Capricornwoman
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8 Years

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Im a capricorn, i dont know your partner every cap is different. But i can tell you why i would act this way towards someone, firstly caps find it really hard letting people go. He could be keeping you around because letting you go is to hard, if this was me i wouldnt be offering lifts just staying in contact a little. My opinion is that he does still care, he might be hurt from your break up and worried that you arent bothered its over. I definitely would not have a sleepover with someone i really thought it was over with, maybe this is him giving you an opening he could be testing to see if you try fight for him. If i felt unsure but im still there, thats me giving you a chance to fight for me. Caps find that leos can steal the attention sometimes and forget about that we have feelings too, tell him how you feel put yourself out there and try to get him feeling comfortable to tell you his true thoughts on everything. Dont talk alot just ask a few questions, wait and listen. We find feelings hard to talk about, sometimes being mean is easier because we hate to admit our pain, if he opens up and goes into abit of detail and you have remained calm then whatever he says is most likely true. We hate wasting our time on people we dont see in our future, time is very important to us. Hope this helped 🙂
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Leona87
@Leona87
8 Years

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It was he's routine,while we were together I will stay to he's place all the time. And he will always pick me up but since we broke up he knows I can go to my family's house that's why I'm confuse. Does he do this cuz he still cares and there is still chance just taking the time to see are the things gonna be better between us or doing this cuz he want me to get this break up easy. I don't know I swear. I love him so much but I'm very confused.after break up first he said I'm never gonna see him again and than two days later show up and start picking me up from my job. First time he picked me up he said that was last time I'll ever see him,and than next day he came again. Now when he said we never gonna be together I don't know should I have hope or just to accept fact that is over
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Leona87
@Leona87
8 Years

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Posted by AquariusBeauty
Sounds like he cares or at least misses the routine but do you honestly want to be with a man who doesn't want you as his girlfriend? I know you love him and all but I think you're just perpetuating the feeling of him not wanting to get back together.

How long ago was the breakup?

Last Saturday was fight . I thought I'm never gonna see him again but than he came back. And I don't know reason why he came back if he doesn't want me in he's life.
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Leona87
@Leona87
8 Years

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Posted by AquariusBeauty
Sounds like he cares or at least misses the routine but do you honestly want to be with a man who doesn't want you as his girlfriend? I know you love him and all but I think you're just perpetuating the feeling of him not wanting to get back together.

How long ago was the breakup?

Last Saturday was fight . I thought I'm never gonna see him again but than he came back. And I don't know reason why he came back if he doesn't want me in he's life.
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Capricornwoman
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Yeah we dont express are feelings well, i would probably say somethibg upsetting or mean because im hurt and i want you to feel how i feel because thats easier then explaining it. We dont mean to be this way we just really don't express our selves well, like i said he does still care or he would be gone. He would be so cold and could cut you off and move on like you was nothing, we are cold people we dont like you then we wint help you at all!
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Leona87
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8 Years

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Posted by Capricornwoman
Yeah we dont express are feelings well, i would probably say somethibg upsetting or mean because im hurt and i want you to feel how i feel because thats easier then explaining it. We dont mean to be this way we just really don't express our selves well, like i said he does still care or he would be gone. He would be so cold and could cut you off and move on like you was nothing, we are cold people we dont like you then we wint help you at all!

It's so hard to understand him,one day he's normal over the phone like we are together when I sleep over at his place he's nice but than at other moment he curse me out over the phone saying we never gonna be together and many other things. I am really confused I don't know what to do any more. I can't let it to just like that but it's hard holding on. I don't know if he still cares or he really don't care any more and going to finish this.
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Leona87
@Leona87
8 Years

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Posted by ladylibra21
Was this in his routine to pick you up from work ? Do you not have a car right now ? Because he could be doing this out of what he feels is obligation to help until you find another solution
It was he's routine but it's not that he still picking me up he's bringing me to he's apt everyday I've been working. One day he's nice I giving me hope things going to fix between us but other day he's just evil telling me we never going to be together. I don't know if he's bipolar,if he still cares or he doesn't care. I am so confused