My Cap friend

Disappeared again ... we're talking every other day then poof gone.. been 2 weeks .. he's dec 21 Cap/sag cusp taurus moon .. I don't know which placement to blame (kidding) ? Anyone else experience this with Caps? I don't know any other Caps that do this

Oh yea? he has Sag Venus .. now that I think of it, no other signs have done this to me except for maybe one Gem & one Scorp but not to this extent lol

The Sag/Cap I know with Taurus moon who was born on the 22 does the same he needs lots time to himself. At the same time letting new people in is not his strong suit. He says it is hard to implement new people in your life, but I think this is mostly out of a need to constantly control every thing. But honestly /if you feel a need to do something then do it. We get so caught up on rejection that it makes us second guess everything. If you miss let him know that. It can be a simple " hey I hope you are well just thinking about you." Or a random funny meme to get conversation going. If he doesn't respond go back to linving your life. We want to be accepted so badly so why no do or say how we really feel. Genuine attitude brings in genuine people into our life games are exhausting.

Posted by SofiaV87
Oh yea? he has Sag Venus .. now that I think of it, no other signs have done this to me except for maybe one Gem & one Scorp but not to this extent lol

Although hes on the cusp, technically he's a Sag right?

Posted by ladylibra21

Posted by SofiaV87
Oh yea? he has Sag Venus .. now that I think of it, no other signs have done this to me except for maybe one Gem & one Scorp but not to this extent lol

I'm guessing he was born in 85 does he have Scorpio Mars?

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He was born in '77 & has Leo Mars

Posted by Capz
in two weeks i'll be better

Do u do this Mr Capz?

Posted by lnana04
Although hes on the cusp, technically he's a Sag right?

Well when I did his birth chart he comes up as a Cap , but yes he's still on the Cusp.. he has a lot of Sag traits but I don't know if that's cuz he's Sag Merc & Venus

He's just so confusing .. I'm not typically confused about anyone or any sign hmm

Posted by ladylibra21
The Sag/Cap I know with Taurus moon who was born on the 22 does the same he needs lots time to himself. At the same time letting new people in is not his strong suit. He says it is hard to implement new people in your life, but I think this is mostly out of a need to constantly control every thing. But honestly /if you feel a need to do something then do it. We get so caught up on rejection that it makes us second guess everything. If you miss let him know that. It can be a simple " hey I hope you are well just thinking about you." Or a random funny meme to get conversation going. If he doesn't respond go back to linving your life. We want to be accepted so badly so why no do or say how we really feel. Genuine attitude brings in genuine people into our life games are exhausting.

I told him if he needs his space I understand cuz I need & love my space as well.. he didn't respond to that .. I can't stand games.. I don't play games , doesn't matter with who-friends, boyfriends, fam, acquaintances.. cuz if someone wants to play games with me that badly , I will play them better lol this Cap/Sag friend of mine isn't playing a game though .. still sucks he won't answer my texts lol

Posted by youngali

Posted by SofiaV87
He's just so confusing .. I'm not typically confused about anyone or any sign hmm

? people say this about me all the time. very hard to read.

must definitely be the placements tho.

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Yea maybe , what are your placements ? I know you're a Sag

Posted by youngali
he sounds like me to be honest...

i do this to my friends, family, someone i'm interested in...

he also has similar placements, except i'm full sag.

it's nothing personal though, he might be going through something or just simply need space. i go for 2-4 days without contact, sometimes for more depending.

just reach out, it changes everything.

i find the only people that can snap me out of it are aries. lol they always message me in a way where i have to respond. lol

2-4 days is ok , even a week .. but 2 weeks? That's a little overboard, no? Lol

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Posted by SofiaV87

Posted by youngali
he sounds like me to be honest...

i do this to my friends, family, someone i'm interested in...

he also has similar placements, except i'm full sag.

it's nothing personal though, he might be going through something or just simply need space. i go for 2-4 days without contact, sometimes for more depending.

just reach out, it changes everything.

i find the only people that can snap me out of it are aries. lol they always message me in a way where i have to respond. lol

2-4 days is ok , even a week .. but 2 weeks? That's a little overboard, no? Lol

yea, that's overboard to many. lol i can definitely go two weeks and think of it as no big deal tho.

he must either be going through something, or because y'all talk so often, he must need space to re-energize.

just reach out.

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He just moved & got a 8 week old puppy , I know he's busy with that

Posted by youngali
he sounds like me to be honest...

i do this to my friends, family, someone i'm interested in...

he also has similar placements, except i'm full sag.

it's nothing personal though, he might be going through something or just simply need space. i go for 2-4 days without contact, sometimes for more depending.

just reach out, it changes everything.

i find the only people that can snap me out of it are aries. lol they always message me in a way where i have to respond. lol

Yes Aries have a knack for getting a response haha

Posted by SofiaV87
Disappeared again ... we're talking every other day then poof gone.. been 2 weeks .. he's dec 21 Cap/sag cusp taurus moon .. I don't know which placement to blame (kidding) ? Anyone else experience this with Caps? I don't know any other Caps that do this

It could also be his Taurus Moon. I'm a Taurus Sun and I do this all the time 😢 It might come weird to other people I suppose, but Taurus is actually a very free loving sign. Therefore we need our space from time to time.

Posted by SofiaV87

Posted by ladylibra21
The Sag/Cap I know with Taurus moon who was born on the 22 does the same he needs lots time to himself. At the same time letting new people in is not his strong suit. He says it is hard to implement new people in your life, but I think this is mostly out of a need to constantly control every thing. But honestly /if you feel a need to do something then do it. We get so caught up on rejection that it makes us second guess everything. If you miss let him know that. It can be a simple " hey I hope you are well just thinking about you." Or a random funny meme to get conversation going. If he doesn't respond go back to linving your life. We want to be accepted so badly so why no do or say how we really feel. Genuine attitude brings in genuine people into our life games are exhausting.

I told him if he needs his space I understand cuz I need & love my space as well.. he didn't respond to that .. I can't stand games.. I don't play games , doesn't matter with who-friends, boyfriends, fam, acquaintances.. cuz if someone wants to play games with me that badly , I will play them better lol this Cap/Sag friend of mine isn't playing a game though .. still sucks he won't answer my texts lol

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Ugh this is so annoying! The worst part is he will be just as inviting the next time you see him so that you forget about the whole thing but don't LOL

Posted by Mered1th

Posted by SofiaV87
Disappeared again ... we're talking every other day then poof gone.. been 2 weeks .. he's dec 21 Cap/sag cusp taurus moon .. I don't know which placement to blame (kidding) ? Anyone else experience this with Caps? I don't know any other Caps that do this

It could also be his Taurus Moon. I'm a Taurus Sun and I do this all the time 😢 It might come weird to other people I suppose, but Taurus is actually a very free loving sign. Therefore we need our space from time to time.

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I love Taurus ?

Cap with aqua Venus here. I do disappearing acts sometimes. It usually for a couple of reasons. 1. My life is just not going in the direction or pace I'd like it to so I check out from everything and focus on that. 2. If you see me on social networks being social but not responding to you, it usually means I'm not into you. 3. I thought that there was a lack of effort from the other person so I just am not going to keep pestering them. 4. If I'm blatantly ignoring you then you've hurt me pretty badly and I'm trying to keep from saying something hurtful that I don't mean . Even though I'm not a man , I'm a lesbian and I mentally thing and process things very guy like .

Posted by Shadowcat
It isn't personal

Yea I don't think so either .. he's still in hiding lol

Posted by MissLadyIceQueen
Cap with aqua Venus here. I do disappearing acts sometimes. It usually for a couple of reasons. 1. My life is just not going in the direction or pace I'd like it to so I check out from everything and focus on that. 2. If you see me on social networks being social but not responding to you, it usually means I'm not into you. 3. I thought that there was a lack of effort from the other person so I just am not going to keep pestering them. 4. If I'm blatantly ignoring you then you've hurt me pretty badly and I'm trying to keep from saying something hurtful that I don't mean . Even though I'm not a man , I'm a lesbian and I mentally thing and process things very guy like .

Male & female responses are welcome .. speaking of social media , the last time we spoke he told me he's deleting his FB cuz he's too addicted to it & it's a distraction .. haven't heard from him since, his FB is still deleted

I do disappearing acts. Cap here. It's either because I am super busy with stuff, not that into you, I am into you but feel it isn't mutual, you did something that made me standoffish. Don't come off too needy to a cap it makes us nuts , not in a good way. You have to be strong, independent , and equal. Show confidence.