@ladylibra21
11 Years1,000+ Posts
I just want to rip his fucking clothes off
Understanding Unreciprocated Attraction in Relationships
Feeling intense desire for someone who may not feel the same is common and can stem from emotional attachment or karmic connections. Recognizing these feelings helps in moving forward healthily. Focus on self-care and clarity about your needs to avoid regret or confusion.
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Posted by DickButt
Rip them around black friday, that way he can buy news ones at a low low cost.
Lol
Posted by Candicorn
I'm in a similar space*hugs*
Seriously though it's like i'm afraid I'll do something impulsive at this point. Are you still dating the Scorp?
Posted by ladylibra21
But I know I would regret it and he might not want that sigh ?we have never even kissed but even though I am trying to move on I can't stand him being in my face without seeing our whole future flash before my eyes or one big argument and the back breaking sex that follows. This must be some karmatic shit.This is a case of loving a Cap more then they cate about you.
Just venting...
Can you post your synastry?
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Posted by ladylibra21
But I know I would regret it and he might not want that sigh ?we have never even kissed but even though I am trying to move on I can't stand him being in my face without seeing our whole future flash before my eyes or one big argument and the back breaking sex that follows. This must be some karmatic shit.This is a case of loving a Cap more then they cate about you.
Just venting...
Can you post your synastry?
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Basically
Him
Rising- Sag
Sun-Cap/Sag cusp
Moon- Taurus
Venus- Sag
Mercury Sag
Mars- Scorpio
Uranus- Sag
Neptune- Sag
Saturn- Sag
Me
Rising- Leo
Sun- Libra Scorp cusp
Moon- Cancer
Venus- Sag
Mercury- Libra
Mars- Libra
Uranus- Cap
Neptune- Cap
Saturn-Cap
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda ?
Posted by Shadowcat
Tbh, going by strictly synastry(which I do not recommend) it looks like he would be more affected than you, if that helps any.
That's what I thought but he tries to hide it. He did tell me once that I make him depressed because I make him think about gongs he ignores so maybe that's why he runs.
Posted by Candicorn
I'm in a similar space*hugs*
Seriously though it's like i'm afraid I'll do something impulsive at this point. Are you still dating the Scorp?
No too many lies
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Aww I'm sorry! Things didn't work out with me and that cancer jerk either! I'm sooooooo over relationships!!
But at least you girls already have kids. If I had kids, I don't think I'd care so much about dating. Men suck.
Posted by Candicorn
I'm in a similar space*hugs*
Seriously though it's like i'm afraid I'll do something impulsive at this point. Are you still dating the Scorp?
No too many lies
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Ugh I'm sorry love *hugs* I bet he is kicking he hell out of himself but the good thing is you won't be later
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda ?
Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda ?Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much
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Have you ever talked to him about sexual things? Have you ever sent him a lingerie picture?
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda ?Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much
Have you ever talked to him about sexual things? Have you ever sent him a lingerie picture?
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I think they get scared by this unless you are in a relationship. lol
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda ?Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much
Have you ever talked to him about sexual things? Have you ever sent him a lingerie picture?
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We went to a strip club and a sex shop after our company Christmas party and he got shy and mad at me afterwards then we went separate ways in the car. I wouldn't be able to have casual sex with him though I would want more.
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda ?Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much
Have you ever talked to him about sexual things? Have you ever sent him a lingerie picture?
I think they get scared by this unless you are in a relationship. lol
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They've been a thing for like two years.
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda ?Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much
Have you ever talked to him about sexual things? Have you ever sent him a lingerie picture?
We went to a strip club and a sex shop after our company Christmas party and he got shy and mad at me afterwards then we went separate ways in the car. I wouldn't be able to have casual sex with him though I would want more.
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Sending pictures is not sex! Get him excited. Show him what you got! It will make him happy. Haha. But I totally understand if you don't want to.
Posted by Distilled
If it's what you truly want and can handle then go for it.You have nothing to lose if he's already running away.
If you can handle it at least it will a moment for the mental keep box.
We work together the most sexually we have ever gotten is him putting money down my shirt and laying it across my crotch so a stripper could grab it and a rare butt slap once or twice. But I feel like if nothing happens soon my vagina is going to fall off or my heart might explode whichever comes first
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda ?Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much
Have you ever talked to him about sexual things? Have you ever sent him a lingerie picture?
We went to a strip club and a sex shop after our company Christmas party and he got shy and mad at me afterwards then we went separate ways in the car. I wouldn't be able to have casual sex with him though I would want more.
Sending pictures is not sex! Get him excited. Show him what you got! It will make him happy. Haha. But I totally understand if you don't want to.
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Oh I want to put I don't wanna get rejected either. He is a very weird about people touching him and he has let me touch him a couple of times and I think he's comfortable touching me but actually taking it there Idk
Just do it then
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda ?Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much
Have you ever talked to him about sexual things? Have you ever sent him a lingerie picture?
I think they get scared by this unless you are in a relationship. lol
They've been a thing for like two years.
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yeah but they haven't even kissed. I think a picture in lingerie will shock him.
@ladylibra21 might be his Taurus moon and afraid of rejection. My Taurus friend is very slow when it comes to romantic relationships.
if I were you, since this has been going on for too long I'd tell him that you want to talk to him. and see from there, maybe seeing you alone again might make him feel comfortable. 🙂
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda ?Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much
Have you ever talked to him about sexual things? Have you ever sent him a lingerie picture?
We went to a strip club and a sex shop after our company Christmas party and he got shy and mad at me afterwards then we went separate ways in the car. I wouldn't be able to have casual sex with him though I would want more.
Sending pictures is not sex! Get him excited. Show him what you got! It will make him happy. Haha. But I totally understand if you don't want to.
Oh I want to put I don't wanna get rejected either. He is a very weird about people touching him and he has let me touch him a couple of times and I think he's comfortable touching me but actually taking it there Idk
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Every time he sees you at work, he will think of you naked! Lol no guy is going to turn that down. Especially one that already likes u
Posted by Gob_Shite
*yawns*What are you like when pursuing someone or in a relationship??
I don't pursue someone I hardly know. Fuck that!
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So how long should you know someone to start pursuing?
Posted by pinkbird03
Girl, just do it. Give him the most amazing sex lol. Jkkk kinda ?Can never get him alone well I just don't ask to hang out anymore and Summer is coming so he is gonna be stuck working sooo much
Have you ever talked to him about sexual things? Have you ever sent him a lingerie picture?
We went to a strip club and a sex shop after our company Christmas party and he got shy and mad at me afterwards then we went separate ways in the car. I wouldn't be able to have casual sex with him though I would want more.
Sending pictures is not sex! Get him excited. Show him what you got! It will make him happy. Haha. But I totally understand if you don't want to.
Oh I want to put I don't wanna get rejected either. He is a very weird about people touching him and he has let me touch him a couple of times and I think he's comfortable touching me but actually taking it there Idk
Every time he sees you at work, he will think of you naked! Lol no guy is going to turn that down. Especially one that already likes u
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Problem here is that 99.9% are judgemental, he wouldnt turn her down but he already got what he wanted, let him work for it. At least that's what most of the guys say
JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES!
Posted by Gob_Shite
*yawns*What are you like when pursuing someone or in a relationship??
I don't pursue someone I hardly know. Fuck that!
So how long should you know someone to start pursuing?
'Pursuing', to me, equates to pushing for a desired result. I don't do that - I prefer both parties to make it happen, even if that entails a larger proportion of the effort coming from me.
In the past, I've 'pursued' the odd woman, based on nothing more than lust-ridden blind faith, only to later discover what a fucked-up and deplorable person they were. Never again!
Any woman expecting me to 'pursue' them can fuck off, as far as I'm concerned. During my periods of singledom, my porn stash will provide far more satisfaction...
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Posted by Gob_Shite
*yawns*What are you like when pursuing someone or in a relationship??
I don't pursue someone I hardly know. Fuck that!
So how long should you know someone to start pursuing?
'Pursuing', to me, equates to pushing for a desired result. I don't do that - I prefer both parties to make it happen, even if that entails a larger proportion of the effort coming from me.
In the past, I've 'pursued' the odd woman, based on nothing more than lust-ridden blind faith, only to later discover what a fucked-up and deplorable person they were. Never again!
Any woman expecting me to 'pursue' them can fuck off, as far as I'm concerned. During my periods of singledom, my porn stash will provide far more satisfaction...
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Pretty smug coming from a woman...
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Don't assume all women are the same "man"
Posted by LillyPetal
JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES!
I would if I could
Cap men are dark...vicious. I'm running from em from now on
Posted by Gob_Shite
*yawns*What are you like when pursuing someone or in a relationship??
I don't pursue someone I hardly know. Fuck that!
So how long should you know someone to start pursuing?
'Pursuing', to me, equates to pushing for a desired result. I don't do that - I prefer both parties to make it happen, even if that entails a larger proportion of the effort coming from me.
In the past, I've 'pursued' the odd woman, based on nothing more than lust-ridden blind faith, only to later discover what a fucked-up and deplorable person they were. Never again!
Any woman expecting me to 'pursue' them can fuck off, as far as I'm concerned. During my periods of singledom, my porn stash will provide far more satisfaction...
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Pretty smug coming from a woman...
Don't assume all women are the same "man"
I don't assume, I know - especially when it comes to changing the goalposts whenever it suits.
Besides, I think we've been down this road before, so let's just agree to disagree.
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But we haven't been down this road I want to see what it looks like. Are their flowers? Is there pond we can catch tadpoles in ? Lol. It but seriously I am sure you will find someone who will want the same thing that you want one day don't give up ?
JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES!
And then bitch about how he ghosted you, a few months later...
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Yes and this is why I won't last lines were completely clear but it doesn't mean that I don't really really want to
JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES!
And then bitch about how he ghosted you, a few months later...
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NO! None of that!
Posted by Gob_Shite
*yawns*What are you like when pursuing someone or in a relationship??
I don't pursue someone I hardly know. Fuck that!
So how long should you know someone to start pursuing?
'Pursuing', to me, equates to pushing for a desired result. I don't do that - I prefer both parties to make it happen, even if that entails a larger proportion of the effort coming from me.
In the past, I've 'pursued' the odd woman, based on nothing more than lust-ridden blind faith, only to later discover what a fucked-up and deplorable person they were. Never again!
Any woman expecting me to 'pursue' them can fuck off, as far as I'm concerned. During my periods of singledom, my porn stash will provide far more satisfaction...
Key word equal
Pretty smug coming from a woman...
Don't assume all women are the same "man"
I don't assume, I know - especially when it comes to changing the goalposts whenever it suits.
Besides, I think we've been down this road before, so let's just agree to disagree.
But we haven't been down this road I want to see what it looks like. Are their flowers? Is there pond we can catch tadpoles in ? Lol. It but seriously I am sure you will find someone who will want the same thing that you want one day don't give up ?
One day, I will send you a detailed map... 😛
Ah, well, good luck with the dude. As long as we're living and breathing, there's always hope.
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Dude! You can be such the flirt! If you don't have a girl by now, you are destined for bigger things! Put yoself out there.
JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES! JUMP HIS BONES!
And then bitch about how he ghosted you, a few months later...
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This is why the cap in my life hasn't gotten "it" and I'm holding off as long as I can. No judgement to anyone else that would've given it up already, but I need pure emotional connection even though my body says otherwise LOL! Summer is definitely going to be challenging for me. Ay..
Posted by Paranoid
From what I've learned Capricorns are attracted to Scorpios. They are very forth coming.... and well they take what they want .Be like the scorpio. Go with your passion. Rip his clothes off. Just DO IT! aha.... I've seen cap men on here commenting on how they love a woman who can take charge.
Don't believe that. I was the woman who took charge and I had a lot of fun doing it, but we kept bumping head to head because he would want to take control over me and we kept arguing. No, doesn't work. they like submissive women when it comes to building a home. I believe.
Posted by Gob_Shite
*yawns*What are you like when pursuing someone or in a relationship??
I don't pursue someone I hardly know. Fuck that!
So how long should you know someone to start pursuing?
'Pursuing', to me, equates to pushing for a desired result. I don't do that - I prefer both parties to make it happen, even if that entails a larger proportion of the effort coming from me.
In the past, I've 'pursued' the odd woman, based on nothing more than lust-ridden blind faith, only to later discover what a fucked-up and deplorable person they were. Never again!
Any woman expecting me to 'pursue' them can fuck off, as far as I'm concerned. During my periods of singledom, my porn stash will provide far more satisfaction...
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I thought you meant in general.
Me as a woman if I don't go after you then I don't like you. I don't waste my time on waiting on guys to make moves all the time. show interest on both sides.
Posted by ladylibra21
But I know I would regret it and he might not want that sigh ?we have never even kissed but even though I am trying to move on I can't stand him being in my face without seeing our whole future flash before my eyes or one big argument and the back breaking sex that follows. This must be some karmatic shit.This is a case of loving a Cap more then they cate about you.
Just venting...
Been there done that burnt the t-shirt. It aint worth it, stay away-although if this is karmic shit what can ye do! You're in for a ride girl! Brace yourself and focus on the light LOL.
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But I know I would regret it and he might not want that sigh ?we have never even kissed but even though I am trying to move on I can't stand him being in my face without seeing our whole future flash before my eyes or one big argument and the back breaking sex that follows. This must be some karmatic shit.
This is a case of loving a Cap more then they cate about you.
Just venting...