Help me you mysterious Capricorn Men!(I'm Pisces)

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Heres the story about a Capricorn man and Pisces woman. We met in middle school where he admitted to me he was crazy for me, later in high school the tables turned and I was crazy for him. Now we are headed to college and we still are on this never ending cycle. He took my virginity during high school, we always argued because I would always get jealous because we was sleeping with other girls and being very distant from me. I told him I loved and it pushed him away. Later down the road he came back, there was a point when I stopped caring and he seemed as if he missed me. But again, not very affectionate- we had a friends with benefits relationship for two years and then things between us got emotional it went from me being very sensitive to him being sensitive. I found out about all these girls he was sleeping with and lost my mind- I yelled at him and told him I'm so embarred to of had anything to do with him, I hate him, he's pathetic- all in front of his friends. He wouldn't say anything, just look at me and storm off. He would never say anything hurtful to me, the very next day we both said sorry. Then He started accusing me of being with all these guys, he stole my oxy pills because he was addicted. Started calling me a liar and saying he can't trust me because of all these guy i slept with and none of it was true. He continued to sleep with other girls but never admitted it to me, and then on Valentine's when he yelled at me again about boys and lying he admitted sleeping with a girl and said I should try to be honest. I gave up because he seemed to hate me- he seemed so convinced I was horrible. When we have breaks like this I would tell him I can't take how he makes me feel like shit and make me feel like I bad person. He'd only said back to me that he doesn't think I'm a bad person. He told me he stopped hanging out with his friends cause he knows I'd probably be around so I asked him if I'm really that terrible to be around and He'd say I'm not bad to be around, he just can't see me. He's always like this seems so admiring of me, excited to see me- say hi every time and tell me he missed me. He always says sorry when we fight and slowly he became more affectionate. But he always, always, ALWAYS. Pushes me away at some point, like he's had enough.
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The most recent update is that I told him I missed him, he asked me why and I said I just like having him around. When he came home that day from work, he asked me to take him home from a party, on the drive home he said, "well what do you want?- I feel like we've been through a lot together and I hear a lot about you and you probably hear just as much about me" and I explained to him how I felt. That I just always tried to be there from him and when he accused me of things I never did I gave up because I didn't know what else to say. He then said "I understand, just know I was going through a lot with my family, a lot of things I don't expect you to understand and I'm sorry I put you through that". That night we had sex and he said "I missed you, you're mine. All mine" We started seeing each other again. Every night. He would actually have me stay the night, offer to buy me food, asked me if I was hungry. Talk about his life to me and ask me what I'm doing. He seemed all about me, every day we'd spend the night together and only once he asked me to not stay the night cause he worked early in the morning. He left again for work; I made a comment on how a fun fact he told me and his friend asked him "what's going on between us" it seemed to really bother him that his friend asked about us and got mad at me for saying that- said it looks weird. And now he is distant again. I'm lost so lost.
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I didn't read the whole thread, but I picked up on you are headed off to college.

So, based on that, hun, be free of him. Don't have any ties holding you back. When you get to college, your life will be totally different from high school. You will have new experiences and adventures. There are so many interesting people there to meet. More mature people. More cultured people. People from all backgrounds and from all over. If you have ties to high school, you won't grow as well as you will otherwise.

So, go. Go to school. Meet new people. Open your horizons. You will find your niche and you'll be free to date many different types of men. Yes, I said MEN, not boys.

College years are the best years of your LIFE!!! Go enjoy them to the fullest!!

You may not understand what I'm saying, but in a year's time you will know exactly what I"m saying.