hi IM new here a capricorn needing advice

I have been having relations with a scorpio male whose been very confusing to me.
I see how you all talk about different topics here based on signs so here is my issue.
we both are secretive but him more than me.
bottom line when they are falling in love do they try to be closer to you by any means necessary?
Do Get protective? DO they try helping you with problems?

My situation has gotten to that point where he's moved in but we arent in seperate rooms, and he's even said once we get to the money we can see where this goes from there but until then we have to get financially situated and keep our covers for the public.
He gives me the gazing eyes all the time, and is really playful always teasing me

I think mixing love and money without knowing clear defined boundaries is a recipe for distaster.

i had the same thought, but i have known him for over a decade and its always been much flirting making it obvious we are into one another but we've both been working really hard to get finances up to parr, so when he said lets get our money right and see where this goes, I also felt that I should get out of this situation then come back to it once we've reached our goals. The only prob I have there is he's moved in saying he came to protect me and the lil ones, but we are no longer having sex, we are gonna just be room mates NOW, and thats it.
NO SEX part is killing me BUT he says we need to handle business, so now we both can see other people because we're just room mates he got a room I got a room.

Posted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
i had the same thought, but i have known him for over a decade and its always been much flirting making it obvious we are into one another but we've both been working really hard to get finances up to parr, so when he said lets get our money right and see where this goes, I also felt that I should get out of this situation then come back to it once we've reached our goals. The only prob I have there is he's moved in saying he came to protect me and the lil ones, but we are no longer having sex, we are gonna just be room mates NOW, and thats it.
NO SEX part is killing me BUT he says we need to handle business, so now we both can see other people because we're just room mates he got a room I got a room.

how well do you think that is going to go over if you start seeing other people? keep in mind that this sign is notorious for *testing* people psychologically, and very jealous and possessive of people they truly love.

Sounds like a disaster waiting to happen to me, too.

Posted by Impulsv
Mmm not liking it one bit.
Why is he moving in if u two aren't together. Did u want a roommate?

no i actually didnt want 1(LOL) i already had my brother here who actually suffers from ptsd due to the army. BUT, I intended moving within the next few weeks, so I figured since it's NOT what I had thougt it would be IM gonna just leave him and my brother right here in this house, once I go to my new location where no 1 will know where IM at, plus changing my number. I get the good feeling he will come running then if he cares much as much as he could,should and would if he is in love.

Posted by TaurusLovesScorpio

Posted by SILVERDOLLARPIECE334
i had the same thought, but i have known him for over a decade and its always been much flirting making it obvious we are into one another but we've both been working really hard to get finances up to parr, so when he said lets get our money right and see where this goes, I also felt that I should get out of this situation then come back to it once we've reached our goals. The only prob I have there is he's moved in saying he came to protect me and the lil ones, but we are no longer having sex, we are gonna just be room mates NOW, and thats it.
NO SEX part is killing me BUT he says we need to handle business, so now we both can see other people because we're just room mates he got a room I got a room.

how well do you think that is going to go over if you start seeing other people? keep in mind that this sign is notorious for *testing* people psychologically, and very jealous and possessive of people they truly love.

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great question because this already happened the first night he came, brought a girl, then the next day I was I told him he's NOT loyal at all and I would appreciate it if she goes home cause I dont want nobody here. He told me I could have pulled him to the side to say that instead of flip moding in front of company and he'll never respect me for that. BUT, I text him when they left to go to the store and told him all of this same stuff, so I felt tested then proceeded to tell it straight how it is/was. TOLD him to go back to his brothers house to stay, but he says he has nowhere to go,so I told him give me my space and just stay out of my face, he says how is he gonna do that when he'll be living here, but he usually is gone during the day anyway, so I told him that should be easy. ALSO, since then he comes waking me up outta of my sleep to come in his room to smoke, at 3 n 4 in the am :mind YOU NO sex but he told me that if we gone be in a relationshio I have to just let it play out and see where it'll go NOT just force it, and look at the jealousy I already have it is scary lol

I don't see nothing wrong with him, besides bringing company home, unless you said it would be ok. He is being straightforward with his words. I too have been used for my sexual intensity. But we all know that comes with the whole package for some and not for others. He doesn't want to use you just for only that reason, even though you think you can get the whole package through that method.

Are you a Capricorn?

Posted by SureShotCap
Are you a Capricorn?

his username is SILVERDOLLARPIECE... what do you think?

Posted by SureShotCap
I don't see nothing wrong with him, besides bringing company home, unless you said it would be ok. He is being straightforward with his words. I too have been used for my sexual intensity. But we all know that comes with the whole package for some and not for others. He doesn't want to use you just for only that reason, even though you think you can get the whole package through that method.

Are you a Capricorn?

hi i am a capricorn and i wasnt ever trying to use sex to capture him it was a very huuge misunderstanding of how we even landed in the bed together (AWHOLE nother story) ; tell you about that in a new thread or something. I have been around him half my life, he's an inlaw and i told him when we first met in the beginning i couldn't just ONLY have sex with him, so when the situation happened, I was sleep, he got in bed with me (thinking it was OK) somebody else pushed him up to it saying I told him to get in bed with me. Once we started it continued, and I noticed he didnt wanna use me for just sex (as u stated above) , its still s a mystery what all he had in store although i gave up and put t all in gods hands because yesterday was my bday and i put him out so its over now

Posted by CluelessCancer

PTSD=Water + Earth


leave it alone, go get you a Virgo.

rotflmao had 1 of them last year ooooooh boy wha hellll lol
its was really great kinky sex but he was an asshole all together
and ptsd is what my bru suffers from hes a pisces so imagine what i go thru daily which i could understand why dude wanted us to be financially stable so he wont have to deal with the bs do on a regular basis with my bru and his mental issues

Posted by noname
"do they try to be closer to you by any means necessary?" yes but scorps often don't come with refined communication style (in fact, the ones with scorp mercury can have a very primitive communication style lol)

"Do Get protective?" yes but unless you are an extremely expressive and bold type who gets clarification whenever there is a confusion / doubt, you may not comprehend when he is trying to be protective (again, think primitive lol)

"DO they try helping you with problems? " if he has significant virgo placements in him than YES especially virgo venus, moon / rising.

hey just noticed this post and yes he does try to protect me i am very bold with anybody so I can understand where u say think primitive on the matter at hands here. Also, he has scorpio sun,moon,mercury, and venus sag: I have sun cap, moon virgo, aquarius mercury and venus sag

My 3rd house of communication is scorpio as well and my ascendant sign is virgo . I dont know much about his house portion on his natal chart so I couldnt say whats up with if he could maybe, possibly have virgo in the 3rd house of communication.
It would be very funny if that is the case though wouldnt it ; lol

Posted by noname
scorps love deep but one thing about them is that they are naturally self-centered and they are fixed. it can take a long time for them to change their behavior or habit from being single to coupling up. they are not very aware of or care much how their primitive and fixed ways affect others lol. brutal and raw honesty is the quickest way to gain you respect and get yourself the right treatment. meek person should not apply. it also helps if you have some water placements to be able to sense when to respond with just enough of the emotional drama to stir up his emotions that keeps his desire for you alive lol

LOL, you make alot of sense here, because I noticed he gets stirred up by me very often, it is really funny about how we have been on that roller coaster ride lately. I have alot of water and fire in my placements I am gonna post my chart here for you in the next post. BUT he has been trying so hard to suppress that he's been wanting me and plus this retrograde period is in motion. we havent been lving together for the past few days (off MY doing) but we communicated last night and I told him the deal was I feel like dying without him, but I cant be around himbecause honestly it hurts 2 damn bad, also thin line between love and hate and If I can get that angry at 1 is because I love em that much to make me give that strong of a reaction an I just want harmony but he makes me feel unappreciated so I get defensive wish things werent so complicated. He responded with: I dont hate you its just let it play out and not mad you put me out , still my nizzle.....secret..... then he told me im pregnant todat thats why Im having so many mood swings and is so emotional, plus my stomach hurts, but told him my tubes are tied so no way, he says that doesnt matter its in my tubes.

heres my chart

Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Placidus Orb:0
Sun Capricorn 28.30 Ascendant Virgo 18.37
Moon Virgo 13.13 II Libra 15.21
Mercury Aquarius 2.41 III Scorpio 15.33
Venus Sagittarius 11.40 IV Sagittarius 17.45
Mars Aries 7.25 V Capricorn 19.57
Jupiter Pisces 20.42 VI Aquarius 20.36
Saturn Sagittarius 17.18 VII Pisces 18.37
Uranus Sagittarius 24.37 VIII Aries 15.21
Neptune Capricorn 6.22 IX Taurus 15.33
Pluto Scorpio 9.48 Midheaven Gemini 17.45
Lilith Cancer 6.22 XI Cancer 19.57
Asc node Aries 14.54 XII Leo 20.36



heres his


Zodiac in degrees 0.00 Time unknown
Sun Scorpio 2.51
Moon Scorpio 24.41
Mercury Scorpio 12.44
Venus Sagittarius 7.07
Mars Capricorn 14.46
Jupiter Capricorn 7.54
Saturn Scorpio 17.09
Uranus Sagittarius 11.27
Neptune Sagittarius 29.15
Pluto Scorpio 2.06
Lilith Aries 5.34
Asc node Taurus 27.34

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my opinion on this is im goin thru the samething flow with it or just get over that bs
I kno its hard cuzz my situation hell

lol capgal u get straight to the point dont you lol; I swear thats how I been feeling lately and have better relationship for it I guess that is that part of the relationship scorps love about caps, we can turn on turn off in an instant an have you wondering if we are even still interested . seems like these guys want you to really not give a damn and they want you to does as they do then move on so they can hurt about you and think its healthy or something to make us feel like crap, so since I started to realize this I began saying the flat out no to this fellow, without feeling guilty about how he may have felt , told him Im number 1 next to god and my kids and if it isnt them then fuck the next, and if there was anything left after them then he could have it, lol. the retro made me realize how to deal